Having Children
Alright, so before I start I want to clear this message up. This is my personal experience, and asexuality is a spectrum. Asexual people can still want to have biological kids, but this is my experience. Alright, so with that out of the way.
Basically I’m genderfluid and an asexual. Afab, to be clear. I have a uterus, however, I don’t have much use for it, given that it causes me immense pains on a monthly basis, I don’t want to partake in sex to have kids, and it just makes me dysphoric in general. I’ve come to the conclusion that I will donate my uterus when I’m old enough that it won’t be a problem. What annoys me, is that people, including close friends the people who are supposed to support me the most, are saying bs like “what if you change your mind?” In general I’m annoyed with this because it gives off the vibes of “oh you’re too young to know.” It’s frustrating. I’m sorry, but I know for a fact I won’t be wanting to have sex in any future of mine. Especially not to have children. And if I change my mind about the kids part, people don’t realize that adoption is an option (haha that rhymed). Like, I would gladly take a kid out of the foster system, or adopt someone. I couldn’t care less if they’re biological or not, because they would still be mine. Anyway, it just annoys me that some people think they know me better than I do.
(Edit: I have read lots of your lovely comments and would like to say I appreciate them all greatly! I probably won’t respond to them, but I will read as many as possible. I am open to all sorts of viewpoints. I did post this for a reason, after all. :))
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Alright, so before I start I want to clear this message up. This is my personal experience, and asexuality is a spectrum. Asexual people can still want to have biological kids, but this is my experience. Alright, so with that out of the way.
Basically I’m genderfluid and an asexual. Afab, to be clear. I have a uterus, however, I don’t have much use for it, given that it causes me immense pains on a monthly basis, I don’t want to partake in sex to have kids, and it just makes me dysphoric in general. I’ve come to the conclusion that I will donate my uterus when I’m old enough that it won’t be a problem. What annoys me, is that people, including close friends the people who are supposed to support me the most, are saying bs like “what if you change your mind?” In general I’m annoyed with this because it gives off the vibes of “oh you’re too young to know.” It’s frustrating. I’m sorry, but I know for a fact I won’t be wanting to have sex in any future of mine. Especially not to have children. And if I change my mind about the kids part, people don’t realize that adoption is an option (haha that rhymed). Like, I would gladly take a kid out of the foster system, or adopt someone. I couldn’t care less if they’re biological or not, because they would still be mine. Anyway, it just annoys me that some people think they know me better than I do.
(Edit: I have read lots of your lovely comments and would like to say I appreciate them all greatly! I probably won’t respond to them, but I will read as many as possible. I am open to all sorts of viewpoints. I did post this for a reason, after all. :))
https://redd.it/saw63h
@asexualityonreddit
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Having Children
Alright, so before I start I want to clear this message up. This is *my* personal experience, and asexuality is a spectrum. Asexual people can...
My dad gave me this and was like “I know you don’t want a boyfriend right now cause all the ones your age are nasty, but I got you one I think you’ll like” (he doesn’t even know I’m asexual I just complain a lot lol)
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we had sex ed at school and they told us about asexuals and trans people even if it was just a brief description. that was cool
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we had sex ed at school and they told us about asexuals and trans...
Posted in r/asexuality by u/m4m4weallgotohell • 116 points and 8 comments
does anyone else feel this way??? i think about it all the time
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GUYS! Once we conquer north America we need to unite the countries so we can have dragon land
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Don't think this person is bad but I think they are just confused
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Don't think this person is bad but I think they are just confused
Posted in r/Asexual by u/definitely-not-kyra • 62 points and 13 comments
I know we love garlic bread and cake. How do we feel about mozzarella sticks though?
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