It can feel like you're caught between two conflicting sides
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r/TrueOffMyChest users can't comprehend that asexuals exist
OP describes in this post that he regrets marrying his wife since they are sexually incompatible and the comments are trying to convince him that his wife either has a hormone imbalance, mental illness, or is cheating on him with another man.
Really upsetting to see that some people refuse to believe a person can be totally healthy but just doesn't want to have sex all the time.
https://redd.it/s6bqt2
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OP describes in this post that he regrets marrying his wife since they are sexually incompatible and the comments are trying to convince him that his wife either has a hormone imbalance, mental illness, or is cheating on him with another man.
Really upsetting to see that some people refuse to believe a person can be totally healthy but just doesn't want to have sex all the time.
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r/TrueOffMyChest on Reddit: I Messed Up Marrying My Wife
Posted by u/Environmental-Tour-8 - 20,955 votes and 4,804 comments
This is what dating me is like. Endless sandwiches and puns.
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Made a sticker of my OC with a biro-ace flag :D (even if the bi heart is obscured)
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Made a sticker of my OC with a biro-ace flag :D (even if the bi...
Posted in r/Asexual by u/YujoTheCatFox • 31 points and 4 comments
I hate virgin used as an insult
Something that many allos don't seem to grasp is that not all virgins are incels. Everyone has their own reasons as to why they don't have sex, even beyond sex-repulsed people. I hate that your "social status" is defined by whether or not you have had sex. As if it's a bad thing or makes you a worse person if you're a virgin
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Something that many allos don't seem to grasp is that not all virgins are incels. Everyone has their own reasons as to why they don't have sex, even beyond sex-repulsed people. I hate that your "social status" is defined by whether or not you have had sex. As if it's a bad thing or makes you a worse person if you're a virgin
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I hate virgin used as an insult
Something that many allos don't seem to grasp is that not all virgins are incels. Everyone has their own reasons as to why they don't have sex,...
I love cake, but don't like garlic bread? am I really asexual?
ok ok I know, please don't shoot me on the spot, I've identified with being asexual for a long time, and loved cake for even longer! However, I've always been overly sensitive to spices, herbs and GARLIC. I've tried to embrace it but the taste and smell is to overwhelming, though I do like the texture of bread in general. I cannot stand garlic. What does this mean?!
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edit: ok for those of u haven't got it yet I was joking lol. but not about the garlic YUCK
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ok ok I know, please don't shoot me on the spot, I've identified with being asexual for a long time, and loved cake for even longer! However, I've always been overly sensitive to spices, herbs and GARLIC. I've tried to embrace it but the taste and smell is to overwhelming, though I do like the texture of bread in general. I cannot stand garlic. What does this mean?!
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edit: ok for those of u haven't got it yet I was joking lol. but not about the garlic YUCK
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I love cake, but don't like garlic bread? am I really asexual?
ok ok I know, please don't shoot me on the spot, I've identified with being asexual for a long time, and loved cake for even longer! However, I've...
Confused as to where exactly I am in the asexual spectrum.
I think I'm either greysexual or demisexual.
Most often, my attraction to someone is non-sexual — even if I am in a relationship with that person. I am most attracted to their personality and shared interests. Their physical traits, I can also find non-sexually attractive as well. I can find someone beautiful, but not feel an urge to have sex with them. However, not as often, I can find someone sexually attractive... but don't have an urge to have sex with them. This is true regardless if I am in a relationship with them or not.
In order for me to have sex with someone, I need to be dating them... but, of course, this also doesn't mean I'll only be wanting sex in the relationship from then on. Sex is barely at the front of my mind. For me to be willing to date someone, I need to have a deep, platonic relationship with that person as well.
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I think I'm either greysexual or demisexual.
Most often, my attraction to someone is non-sexual — even if I am in a relationship with that person. I am most attracted to their personality and shared interests. Their physical traits, I can also find non-sexually attractive as well. I can find someone beautiful, but not feel an urge to have sex with them. However, not as often, I can find someone sexually attractive... but don't have an urge to have sex with them. This is true regardless if I am in a relationship with them or not.
In order for me to have sex with someone, I need to be dating them... but, of course, this also doesn't mean I'll only be wanting sex in the relationship from then on. Sex is barely at the front of my mind. For me to be willing to date someone, I need to have a deep, platonic relationship with that person as well.
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Confused as to where exactly I am in the asexual spectrum.
I think I'm either greysexual or demisexual. Most often, my attraction to someone is non-sexual — even if I am in a relationship with that...
Am I still considered asexual?
so I’ve identified as ace for a few years now (as well as aro & use aroace as an umbrella term) but the more i look into “ace culture” the more i feel like im kind of an ace outlier or even not ace
Like, I find some people hot, and I would have sex if I were in a relationship and knew the person very well, but I have never felt sexually attracted to anyone or have had the desire to have sex or even jerk off-
like aside from purposefully wanting the feeling of yknow I’ve never had any of the “urges” ive been told im supposes to have towards other people. I think I’d live a perfectly content and happy life without sex and if i were to date someone, unless they wanted it I don’t think it would be something I’d ask for,,
I think that a lot of micro-labels apply to me and thats why im conflicted (i also just feel less ace bc im not sex repulsed :/
I’d appreciate any input bc I’ve felt comfortable as loosely “ace” for a long time but recently have been tossed around a bit
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so I’ve identified as ace for a few years now (as well as aro & use aroace as an umbrella term) but the more i look into “ace culture” the more i feel like im kind of an ace outlier or even not ace
Like, I find some people hot, and I would have sex if I were in a relationship and knew the person very well, but I have never felt sexually attracted to anyone or have had the desire to have sex or even jerk off-
like aside from purposefully wanting the feeling of yknow I’ve never had any of the “urges” ive been told im supposes to have towards other people. I think I’d live a perfectly content and happy life without sex and if i were to date someone, unless they wanted it I don’t think it would be something I’d ask for,,
I think that a lot of micro-labels apply to me and thats why im conflicted (i also just feel less ace bc im not sex repulsed :/
I’d appreciate any input bc I’ve felt comfortable as loosely “ace” for a long time but recently have been tossed around a bit
https://redd.it/s6mbb6
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Am I still considered asexual?
so I’ve identified as ace for a few years now (as well as aro & use aroace as an umbrella term) but the more i look into “ace culture” the more i...