My best friend made me bracelets for Christmas and I love them!!!
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My Holiday Gifts Were A Pleasant Surprise!

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Why is everyone more concerned about us having sex than ourselves??

I always find it kind of creepy when people (usually 20 years older than me) tell me I don’t know better and I’ll change my point of view as I grow older (even though I have been thinking like this since I was a teenager and now I’m an adult).
I don’t understand why they contradict me instead of congratulating me for not being interested in having sex, most of them think newest generations are full of precocious children, why do they think is acceptable to say I need to have sex in order to say I don’t want to have it?.

If we stop to think about it, it is very creepy how interested they are on opposing us and thinking they know our sexual orientation better than us, not only that but making arguments by offering disgusting comments about having sex (comments I began receiving even before I was of legal age)

Simple disgusting

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Shout out to the tumblr comic that helped me settle my sexuality! Original artist is http://krisrix.tumblr.com
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Sure sex is okay, but have you ever earned the trust of a cat?
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Found this on Instagram and well… See you at church guys!
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This is way too relatable... Send advice... This is the stuff that keeps me up at night..

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This is me
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True :)
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If you want to gift it to someone, you can take it
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This gave me ace vibes
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Does anyone want to be a virgin for the rest of their life?

I am curious of anybody else feels the way or is okay with the idea of being a virgin for the rest of your life.

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Sex is great and all - but have you ever tried caramel sticks.
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Got myself some rings :)

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They Don't Think We Exist?
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Fellow asexual men, time for a headcount

Gentlemen,

I believe there are quite many of us here in this subreddit, but, for whatever reasons, we mostly lurk. We're hardly visible - so much so that other asexual men are almost convinced we might not even exist. Which is not optimal. As it stands, I'm of the impression that the pool of redditors posting in this subreddit is heavily female-dominated. I'd like to engage more in this subreddit, but it's abit difficult when most of the posts are about ace women's hassles and joys. Don't get me wrong, it's only a good thing that these problems are brought up and not suffered in silence, and I'm glad that there are that many here, women or otherwise. I just imagine that it might not always be relatable for us ace men, which might not rouse the sense of community as strongly in us as it would in other ace women. I imagine the common issues we, ace men, face are slightly, yet enough to be significant, different from the issues women face.

But it's hard to tell whether this is the case or not. What thoughts do you fellas have on this subject? Are we more rare than ace women or enbies? Am I wrong in my assumption that most posters here are women? Let me know what you think. If there's other things you have on your chest, you just dump them here, too. Why not.

EDIT: Now that we're here and established that we do, in fact, exist, let's talk about ways of driving up aceman™ community engagement. I suggest we, quite simply, make more posts. It's a bit scary at first, but if we all help a brother out, I think it'll be less scary.

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