TL:DR me: greyaro, flirting with someone and just being happy about it being reciprocated

(preface: I'm aceflux and greyaro)
I very rarely flirt with people, and I even less often find people attractive sexually or romantically. But the other day I was out with my family eating lunch at a dine in. Our waitress was this woman about my age, we flirted through out lunch. She was pretty, beautiful, and kind in energy.
I never gave her my number or anything cause I'm usually shy (and was with my family, sitting in the back corner of the booth).
But I just really appreciated having someone flirt with me and I've been blushing every time I think of her the past couple days.

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It’s so weird how Allos think any physical compliment is sexual. My dad thought I might’ve been a lesbian because I once said that the actor who played Clara in Doctor Who looked really pretty in a Victorian dress. He believes me that I’m ace now though.



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Guess I Am a Rock: Because I Feel As Many Things As One 🪨
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Asexual/aromanitc rooms made in blender
https://www.reddit.com/gallery/rk1tua

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This Has Been Me ALLL Week, EVERYTHING PURPLE hahahaha((can I get any black ring or does it have to be sold as an Ace Ring)
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Just made an ace axolotl art!
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ace vibes
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Maybe we should try writing “I’m asexual” then finishing it with predictive text. I think that’s what this person was doing with “lesbian”
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Guys I think Kirby is an ace. My evidence:
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Allos: stop lying to yourself if being asexual is a deal breaker

I've recently gotten back on dating sites. Made sure it clearly states everywhere that I am asexual, and I bring it up with every match that I have a good chat with.

Majority have said, "Oh, that's okay! I don't mind!"

Hmm... Hard to believe so many of you are okay with no sex for life, but ok.

After a date or two, they ask again for clarification. Okay... I re-explain no problem. THEN they decide it's a deal breaker. Like... What??? You know deep down whether limited to no sex is a deal breaker right away. Stop lying to yourself and thinking it may be okay if that's truly something you need to be happy. Giving me this false hope that truly someone is accepting me for me and that I'm not doomed to be alone forever??

Don't get me wrong. I'm NOT mad at the fact that people won't date me and accept no sex. Absolutely not. I'm always polite and understanding of that aspect. But it really is frustrating to be told it's okay when like, weeks later they drop the "oh, I'm just too sexual." Or, "Oh, physical touch is too important to me" okay?? And you just remembered that now?? Pls.

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The ace vibes in this video

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Alternate option: looking at that kind of art to see blood gore and violence 😎
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This is why I prefer the Chinese version of anime...

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Liking stand-up and being sex-repulsed is not a fun time :’)
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Black Asexuals !!!!

I feel like a lot of what fed into my past aphobia was that I wasn’t seeing a lot of Black asexuals.. not on TV or anywhere.. so I’m making this post to say I’m Black & I’m ace and I’m proud :)
Just for any other Black aces, POC aces or questioning ppl who have ever felt the same…

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reminded me of this subreddit
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I got a ace flag!!!! (Also cats)
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Asexual people are valid, pass it on!
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So, which one?
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