i saw potential for this template
https://redd.it/qpdhj4
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Met a nice guy on a dating app, but he's not asexual

So I got on an online dating site (OkCupid). I very clearing state that I'm asexual and that I won't be having sex with them. I matched with a guy recently. I met him for the first time lat week. He's handsome, funny, and nice. I haven't noticed anything crazy. The thing that's bothering me is that he hasn't stated that he's asexual and I haven't directly asked him about his sexuality. Maybe he's a closeted asexual, idk. I haven't discussed with him how he feels about me being asexual, but we have a second date coming up so I want to talk to him about it soon. I feel there's chemistry and that he likes me on some level. I don't want to get caught up before I know how he feels.

It just feels too good to be true. Even if I'm friend-zoned I worry that he thinks he'll be able to talk me into having sex or try to convince me that how I feel is wrong. Why would a non-asexual guy entertain a woman on a dating site if he knows they won't have sex? What are y'all's protocols for situations like this (asexual and non-asexual dating)? It's hard to find asexual men that I want to date. I've tried AsexualCupid.com, but the website isn't great and Redditors scare me (I haven't had a good experience with people on this site). I joined a Meetup, but I haven't been to many events yet.

https://redd.it/qpisu7
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y’all better do it
https://redd.it/qpgoln
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I found this and thought that it kinda fits here
https://redd.it/qphtrw
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First post here, I found an unintentionally ace shirt at Goodwill :D!

https://redd.it/qpl4ek
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Uhm...
https://redd.it/qpndom
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A meaningful and encouraging meme.
https://redd.it/qpkir8
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not ace but it funny
https://redd.it/qpip1t
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How is it possible to be ace and sex favorable? Genuine question



https://redd.it/qpk1x8
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This made me think of you guys :)
https://redd.it/qpsj5c
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Made some garlic bread for a lgbtq potluck in town tomorrow
https://redd.it/qpvn21
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I, a 25yo woman, am too young to be asexual (according to my f r i e n d)
https://redd.it/qq30ij
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Lets make a harder November challenge: No Néstle November

Why Néstle is shit shouldn't need an explanation anymore, so I'll just say that i hope we might expand it to a no dickish company december

https://redd.it/qq38tp
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idk if this has been posted but, yeha
https://redd.it/qq6q0s
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I'm so tired of these type of people, why can't everyone just be human and equal.... Sexuality shouldn't matter

https://redd.it/qq79ph
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