needed to find a way to express myself. I think this'll work.
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dating while ace
Something I've noticed from when I've dates people is they view dating me as friendship plus. Like we are basically friends but they get the added bonus of sometimes I pay for their stuff. It's obvious they don't like my back but they don't take it seriously because I don't want to do the dirty. I want a relationship. I want to go out on dates and hold hands and be in love
But every time I want to go out with someone they treat is like a friendship. Do others have this problem or am I just interested in bad people?
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Something I've noticed from when I've dates people is they view dating me as friendship plus. Like we are basically friends but they get the added bonus of sometimes I pay for their stuff. It's obvious they don't like my back but they don't take it seriously because I don't want to do the dirty. I want a relationship. I want to go out on dates and hold hands and be in love
But every time I want to go out with someone they treat is like a friendship. Do others have this problem or am I just interested in bad people?
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dating while ace
Something I've noticed from when I've dates people is they view dating me as friendship plus. Like we are basically friends but they get the added...
What do I call it when I just- Don't want to have sex?
It's not that I can't feel sexual attraction, because I can. It's not like I don't like masturbation, because I do. It's not that I don't feel romantic feelings, because I do. I am not sex repulsed, I can watch porn and it's fine.
But I don't want to have sex with people. A tentacle monster from another dimension? A weird machine? Might give it a chance. But people? Actual people? Other humans? Yeah, no thanks. Too much touching. Too much sweat and other disgusting fluids. In my head that might be "hot" sometimes. But then I think about the possibility of actually having sex with another person and I realized that I just. Don't want it. I am repelled by it. Me? Actually, having sex? Yeah, not gonna happen. And you know, I actually tried it and it felt disgusting every time. So we never got too far.
So. What do you call this. It feels wrong to call myself asexual because I do feel sexual attraction, although very rarely, and I have considered the label aegosexual before, and it more or less fits. But I don't know.
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It's not that I can't feel sexual attraction, because I can. It's not like I don't like masturbation, because I do. It's not that I don't feel romantic feelings, because I do. I am not sex repulsed, I can watch porn and it's fine.
But I don't want to have sex with people. A tentacle monster from another dimension? A weird machine? Might give it a chance. But people? Actual people? Other humans? Yeah, no thanks. Too much touching. Too much sweat and other disgusting fluids. In my head that might be "hot" sometimes. But then I think about the possibility of actually having sex with another person and I realized that I just. Don't want it. I am repelled by it. Me? Actually, having sex? Yeah, not gonna happen. And you know, I actually tried it and it felt disgusting every time. So we never got too far.
So. What do you call this. It feels wrong to call myself asexual because I do feel sexual attraction, although very rarely, and I have considered the label aegosexual before, and it more or less fits. But I don't know.
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What do I call it when I just- Don't want to have sex?
It's not that I can't feel sexual attraction, because I can. It's not like I don't like masturbation, because I do. It's not that I don't feel...
Why it's nice to see others show pride
For a long while I didn't realize I was ace, and even now I don't see alot of heteromantic ace guys online even, BUT I also didn't REALLY understand why people like to wear pride gear so much but now I do! Kinda
So in class a long while ago, and I saw another dude wearing an ace ring, I didn't talk to him about it or anything, but boy was it nice to see! I personally don't wear a ring in my finger bc I can't wear any rings or bracelets without taking them out in frustration, but to see someone else wearing an ace ring (a dude mind you! Which normally inst super important but I rarely see other ace guys). It just mad eme feel so accepted.
I still don't enjoy rings or wearing them, but I might get one and try it for a while, bc if I can make other people feel as good as a I did then I think that would be pretty cool.
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For a long while I didn't realize I was ace, and even now I don't see alot of heteromantic ace guys online even, BUT I also didn't REALLY understand why people like to wear pride gear so much but now I do! Kinda
So in class a long while ago, and I saw another dude wearing an ace ring, I didn't talk to him about it or anything, but boy was it nice to see! I personally don't wear a ring in my finger bc I can't wear any rings or bracelets without taking them out in frustration, but to see someone else wearing an ace ring (a dude mind you! Which normally inst super important but I rarely see other ace guys). It just mad eme feel so accepted.
I still don't enjoy rings or wearing them, but I might get one and try it for a while, bc if I can make other people feel as good as a I did then I think that would be pretty cool.
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Why it's nice to see others show pride
For a long while I didn't realize I was ace, and even now I don't see alot of heteromantic ace guys online even, BUT I also didn't REALLY...
another ace poll cuz i didnt like the last one
if u dont see ur identity plz comment below :)
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Is sex required in a relationship?
I always see people saying sex is important to a relationship and in media it's shown as hell on earth for somebody and their partner not to have sex for more than a month. Is it possible for me to have a real relationship without it?
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I always see people saying sex is important to a relationship and in media it's shown as hell on earth for somebody and their partner not to have sex for more than a month. Is it possible for me to have a real relationship without it?
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Is sex required in a relationship?
I always see people saying sex is important to a relationship and in media it's shown as hell on earth for somebody and their partner not to have...
I asked why people give hickeys and this is how i was responded. The same person tried to insult me with the word “vanilla”
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I ordered a ace flag
I (20m) am in college, no one in my dorm knows im ace (and I highly doubt they even know what asexuality even is)
A lot of them are the kind of people who believe that being lgbt+ is a "new thing" (I know because one even said it)
I wonder how they'll react to when I put it up
I bought it mostly cause it was $6, but it's pretty big (3' x 5')
Im ace and questioning aro
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I (20m) am in college, no one in my dorm knows im ace (and I highly doubt they even know what asexuality even is)
A lot of them are the kind of people who believe that being lgbt+ is a "new thing" (I know because one even said it)
I wonder how they'll react to when I put it up
I bought it mostly cause it was $6, but it's pretty big (3' x 5')
Im ace and questioning aro
https://redd.it/q3dudi
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reddit
I ordered a ace flag
I (20m) am in college, no one in my dorm knows im ace (and I highly doubt they even know what asexuality even is) A lot of them are the kind of...
Your background and family
How religious were your family and the background that you were brought up in it?
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How religious were your family and the background that you were brought up in it?
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What religion do you follow?
Weird question but what religion do y’all follow. Trying to see my chances of marrying another asexual muslim
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Weird question but what religion do y’all follow. Trying to see my chances of marrying another asexual muslim
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