Allos think my relationship isn’t real because I don’t have sex

So I’m in a polygamous relationship with my high school best friend and her fiancé. Hugging, cuddling and the occasional face kisses are how I show affection and they are both fine with that. They both respect me and my boundaries and I’ve never been happier.

Except our coworkers don’t seem to be getting it and think that I’m not really a part of their relationship because we “haven’t done anything, though.” Literally just had to tell a manager it was none of his business what we do or don’t do. And a lot of the guys just think relationships are about sex. Shocker that none of them are in committed relationships. Maybe if you didn’t see women as a heating unit for a vagina, you’d have better luck.

Sorry, had to get that off my chest.

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This person tried to harrass me online for being ace?

This happened in a discord server of kids from my school, as soon as I hopped in, this one person just continuously kept trying to get a reaction out of me. After they ran through all the stereotypical homophobic things to say, "bozo" here decided to come for my asexuality. I just responded calmly and continued on with my day, since I only joined the server to report it. Jokes on them lol.

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Here’s my blueberry cheesecake-themed nail art and it compliments the ring so well!
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Ace-antiwork-synergy
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My first attempt at garlic bread!!! YUMMY
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I just got my ace ring that I bought on Amazon in front of my lgbt-phobic mother. she has no idea what this represents, and I am so glad!
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I see myself in this image but for different reasons
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plz read the whole thing if you can 💜

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Not boring at all
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Do you like cuddling?

I saw a lot of Ace persons like me likes it, so, now I'm curious...

View Poll

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So our school has a monthly email with all the equality/diversity days/weeks/months on it (like black history month), but this month's didn't have ace week on it, so I sent a small email and got this response! So happy
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I AM A 45 YEAR OLD ASEXUAL VIRGIN

I am proud of it! Gonna post every year as an anniversary.

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Thats- not how it works sir- 🤡🤠
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Hi! Irene here, the original artist behind these stack Pride kittens . Here are some of my Cat Pride Flag collections. Ace Cat, Bisexual Cat & Pansexual Cat.... ENJOY! (Quick Note in the comment section)
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Quiche
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This feels like it maybe belongs here, no?
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Ace_irl
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Hi

I just wanted to introduce myself. I"ve been over on r/demisexuality for quite a while, but I recently discovered that my definition of it hinged on a misunderstanding of the word "sensual". As a result, I have discovered that I'm actually ace and demiromantic. I've never experienced sexual attraction, though I've been married and have two kids, and what I thought was sexual attraction was in reality sensual attraction and romantic attraction. Nice to meet all of you!

I consider myself sex-indifferent, but easily embarrassed by sex as a topic and uncomfortable with it applied to myself. That said, I'm not averse to or against talking about it with others, and have had some really good conversations! Just understand I blush really easily at the topic and am easily embarrassed.

I'm not sure what else to say, but feel free to say hi or ask questions! I loved the community in r/demisexuality and am hoping for it here as well.



...Also I have ADHD so if this is hard to follow, I'm sorry. 😅

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I plan on having kids with my future wife, but this is hilarious to me.
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