Got my femboy friend to make this for us sex-negative Aces!
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Dude's aphobic because I got fed up of him being stupidly noisy
So I live in halls right now, and am unfortunately directly below a guy who really enjoys his sex. Every day.
He usually has sex at either 11pm, half midnight, or 1 o'clock in the morning. All of which are well within our halls rules of "quiet time" when noise should not be heard outside of your flat.
To be clear, I don't object to him having sex, just the time that he does it. They are also fully aware that I can hear them - I have spoken to his girlfriend before, but have never met him.
So the other night I had finally had enough - he and his girlfriend were going at it past 11 and I was trying to get to sleep, so I just bashed on the ceiling.
Next day I also spoke to the girlfriend who was very apologetic and promised not to do it after 11.
But then I'm talking to one of his other flatmates and apparently the morning after I bash my ceiling, he goes ranting about "this fucking asexual" who won't let him have sex.
He's never met me and did not know I was ace. Coincedences abound. Clearly, he associates asexuality with prudishness 🙄🙄🙄 oh no someone expects me to be respectful of the time people are trying to sleep! Cleary a disgusting asexual!
But I'm pissed off now so might go down to the front desk tomorrow to complain about both the noise and the aphobia. I was gonna let the noise go as long as they were quiet from here on out, but no. coupled with the aphobia I'm too angry.
Apparently he's allowed to get away with shit because he's lived here 3 years, but bitch so have I. and I brought them cakes. I'm not taking this shit.
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So I live in halls right now, and am unfortunately directly below a guy who really enjoys his sex. Every day.
He usually has sex at either 11pm, half midnight, or 1 o'clock in the morning. All of which are well within our halls rules of "quiet time" when noise should not be heard outside of your flat.
To be clear, I don't object to him having sex, just the time that he does it. They are also fully aware that I can hear them - I have spoken to his girlfriend before, but have never met him.
So the other night I had finally had enough - he and his girlfriend were going at it past 11 and I was trying to get to sleep, so I just bashed on the ceiling.
Next day I also spoke to the girlfriend who was very apologetic and promised not to do it after 11.
But then I'm talking to one of his other flatmates and apparently the morning after I bash my ceiling, he goes ranting about "this fucking asexual" who won't let him have sex.
He's never met me and did not know I was ace. Coincedences abound. Clearly, he associates asexuality with prudishness 🙄🙄🙄 oh no someone expects me to be respectful of the time people are trying to sleep! Cleary a disgusting asexual!
But I'm pissed off now so might go down to the front desk tomorrow to complain about both the noise and the aphobia. I was gonna let the noise go as long as they were quiet from here on out, but no. coupled with the aphobia I'm too angry.
Apparently he's allowed to get away with shit because he's lived here 3 years, but bitch so have I. and I brought them cakes. I'm not taking this shit.
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Dude's aphobic because I got fed up of him being stupidly noisy
So I live in halls right now, and am unfortunately directly below a guy who really enjoys his sex. Every day. He usually has sex at either 11pm,...
I was very curious about sex until I got old enough to have it. Anyone else have this experience?
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I was very curious about sex until I got old enough to have it....
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Does anyone else feel this way? I just feel really gross, not guilty necessarily, just like "Why did I do that? What was the point?"
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A friend gifted me this hat, and it just made me so freaking happy
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Forget Denmark, I want to invade the ISS and make or make a sexless super-colony on the moon
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I feel like some parts of the ace community also have A habit of invalidating the demi community :((
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Allos think my relationship isn’t real because I don’t have sex
So I’m in a polygamous relationship with my high school best friend and her fiancé. Hugging, cuddling and the occasional face kisses are how I show affection and they are both fine with that. They both respect me and my boundaries and I’ve never been happier.
Except our coworkers don’t seem to be getting it and think that I’m not really a part of their relationship because we “haven’t done anything, though.” Literally just had to tell a manager it was none of his business what we do or don’t do. And a lot of the guys just think relationships are about sex. Shocker that none of them are in committed relationships. Maybe if you didn’t see women as a heating unit for a vagina, you’d have better luck.
Sorry, had to get that off my chest.
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So I’m in a polygamous relationship with my high school best friend and her fiancé. Hugging, cuddling and the occasional face kisses are how I show affection and they are both fine with that. They both respect me and my boundaries and I’ve never been happier.
Except our coworkers don’t seem to be getting it and think that I’m not really a part of their relationship because we “haven’t done anything, though.” Literally just had to tell a manager it was none of his business what we do or don’t do. And a lot of the guys just think relationships are about sex. Shocker that none of them are in committed relationships. Maybe if you didn’t see women as a heating unit for a vagina, you’d have better luck.
Sorry, had to get that off my chest.
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Allos think my relationship isn’t real because I don’t have sex
So I’m in a polygamous relationship with my high school best friend and her fiancé. Hugging, cuddling and the occasional face kisses are how I...
This person tried to harrass me online for being ace?
This happened in a discord server of kids from my school, as soon as I hopped in, this one person just continuously kept trying to get a reaction out of me. After they ran through all the stereotypical homophobic things to say, "bozo" here decided to come for my asexuality. I just responded calmly and continued on with my day, since I only joined the server to report it. Jokes on them lol.
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This happened in a discord server of kids from my school, as soon as I hopped in, this one person just continuously kept trying to get a reaction out of me. After they ran through all the stereotypical homophobic things to say, "bozo" here decided to come for my asexuality. I just responded calmly and continued on with my day, since I only joined the server to report it. Jokes on them lol.
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Here’s my blueberry cheesecake-themed nail art and it compliments the ring so well!
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