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First post here! I made myself on that picrew website and I’m proud of it!
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Do you guys know other animated TV series that has good asexuality representation?
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am i asexual?

(i'm a bit unsure if this counts as a discussion thing, but i wanted to ask asexual people since i feel like you guys would be the best to ask this abt)
am i asexual, or at least on the spectrum of asexuality?

i cant picture anyone sexually, and, even if i try, it just feels extremely gross, disgusting and like its not really me.

i guess ive felt sexual attraction before? maybe? its genuinely hard to tell.

ive never really been able to relate to anything sexual wise, a lot of things dont make me really feel anything. im genuinely afraid my indecisiveness and confusion can hinder my further relationships, etc.

am i asexual or just confused?

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I’m falling in love with a girl that’s asexual, and I’m not. Can and do asexual relationships with asexual and non-asexual people work?

I’ve been romantically involved with this girl for about a year (but we’ve been friends for a very long time), and about half a year ago I learned that she was asexual (I’m pansexual and definitely sexually attracted to her). For her, this means she basically is repulsed by sex, and I’m pretty sure she implied that she’d never want to have it. It’s really difficult because her and I have something really special. It’s like perfect in every other way besides our obvious difference in sexuality. It’s selfish that I feel this way, and I’m ashamed of it but it hurts to know that she doesn’t feel the same about me sexually. It makes me feel pathetic. And, I know that it’s who she IS and it’s literally not about me at all, but it’s really difficult to convince myself not to feel bad.

ANYWAY, can anyone give me advice on this? Especially if you know of a couple with differing sexual desires. This girl means everything to me, and she always has. I want to change my mindset, and I want to grow with her.

Thank you.

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People are actually attracred to genitals???

So i just found out that people are actually attracted to genitals??? I thought it was just something they said but werent like that serious about, but its true??? I was fully convinced that doing sexual things to someone else like oral sex was something you just did for them or because youre expected to not because you actually want to lmaooo. Im losing my mind at this lolll

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Make a little Space Ace joke that not many noticed 😁
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[OC] first post here, but here's an ace pride magical girl!
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No sex no sex no sex no sex NO SEX

I'm done. Foot down, no exceptions, no compromises. Done. I'm ace, not aro. I feel strong attraction to other people. However, I HATE sex. I hate it. Hate every bit of it. Hate being touched like that, hate being looked at like that, hate being thought of like that, and you know what? I'm done. I have spent several relationships making compromises for my partners, fully aware that sex is a biological need for most people and I'm comfortable making compromises for the people I care about, as long as the other person understands that it IS A COMPROMISE, and I compromise out of LOVE, NOT OBLIGATION. You know what the response always is? No matter how exceptionally wonderful that person is in every other aspect, WHAT IS IT ABOUT SEX THAT TURNS ON THIS PRIMAL PART OF THE FUCKING BRAIN?!? Their personal beliefs, their personality, their morality, even their personal accountability, everything EVERYTHING about them goes out the window. I'm done having sex. Forever. I'm done. I hate it. And I hate how being "deprived" of it turns otherwise lovely people into absolute monsters. It's a stupid, useless, shitty part of humanity and I hate it and I'm done.

I'm done hearing "oh come on"

I'm done watching people's eyes roll when I say no

I'm done with people acting like I don't love them just because I don't want their stupid fucking penis shoved inside me

I'm done with being looked at as crazy when I cry afterwards because I DIDN'T WANT TO FUCKING DO THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE

I'm done with being treated like I'M the broken one

I'm done with people assuming that I "just haven't found the right person yet"

I'M DONE

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