Instead of thinking how you can change yourself in order to please your partner, as so many relationship books advise, think: Can this person provide what I need in order to be happy?
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The trick is not to get hooked on the highs and lows and mistake an activated attachment system for passion or love. Don't let emotional unavailability turn you on.
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The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
C.G. Jung
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When Your Partner Leaves:
It’s Over. It’s super-common for people who are hurting to believe the relationship may not be done, that this is a temporary phase and that he/she will “see the light” and come back to you. Mostly they won’t. And in the rare event they do, is this the relationship and partner you want? Someone who hurts you, who will walk away when THEY choose to? No matter how much you say you love them, love isn’t enough. You need and deserve consistency — physical and emotional — in a relationship. Houdini acts are for the stage, not real life.
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When Your Partner Leaves:
It’s Over. It’s super-common for people who are hurting to believe the relationship may not be done, that this is a temporary phase and that he/she will “see the light” and come back to you. Mostly they won’t. And in the rare event they do, is this the relationship and partner you want? Someone who hurts you, who will walk away when THEY choose to? No matter how much you say you love them, love isn’t enough. You need and deserve consistency — physical and emotional — in a relationship. Houdini acts are for the stage, not real life.
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Love is emotional, but the steps to get there are very logical:
1. Two people interact with each other.
2. They establish a connection.
3. They spend time together.
4. They make each other important.
5. They allow love to take over.
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1. Two people interact with each other.
2. They establish a connection.
3. They spend time together.
4. They make each other important.
5. They allow love to take over.
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