Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
Not everything your husband does is your business to question—especially if you know he’s a good, loyal, and responsible man.
Trust his authority and leadership. That’s part of what it means to submit with love and dignity.
When you trust your husband’s judgment, you’re also trusting that his actions have wisdom behind them—even if you don’t always understand them right away.
As a woman who honors her role, if my husband doesn’t seek my advice, I don’t impose my opinion. I simply support him and say, “I believe in you.” And refrain from being nosey and curious if it’s something he wants to figure out on his own.
That’s not weakness. It’s strength and respect.
Allah warned us that too much suspicions are sins. And as Muslims, we need to keep in mind that too much doubt is from Shaytan.
And guess what? Constantly monitoring or questioning a man will never stop him from cheating if that’s what he truly intends. But a loyal, respected man? He thrives in trust—not surveillance.
We pray for their guidance. We pray for their protection. We leave them in the care of Allah. We don’t submit to shaytan’s whisperings.
Don’t be an insecure woman chasing to have authority and control. Be a woman of honor, who makes du’a for Allah to protect you both from the fitnah of betrayal, to preserve your love, and to keep both your hearts firm in obedience to Him.
Because real security doesn’t come from control. It comes from self-respect and tawakkul to Allah.
Trust his authority and leadership. That’s part of what it means to submit with love and dignity.
When you trust your husband’s judgment, you’re also trusting that his actions have wisdom behind them—even if you don’t always understand them right away.
As a woman who honors her role, if my husband doesn’t seek my advice, I don’t impose my opinion. I simply support him and say, “I believe in you.” And refrain from being nosey and curious if it’s something he wants to figure out on his own.
That’s not weakness. It’s strength and respect.
Allah warned us that too much suspicions are sins. And as Muslims, we need to keep in mind that too much doubt is from Shaytan.
And guess what? Constantly monitoring or questioning a man will never stop him from cheating if that’s what he truly intends. But a loyal, respected man? He thrives in trust—not surveillance.
We pray for their guidance. We pray for their protection. We leave them in the care of Allah. We don’t submit to shaytan’s whisperings.
Don’t be an insecure woman chasing to have authority and control. Be a woman of honor, who makes du’a for Allah to protect you both from the fitnah of betrayal, to preserve your love, and to keep both your hearts firm in obedience to Him.
Because real security doesn’t come from control. It comes from self-respect and tawakkul to Allah.
Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
"40 Years of Marriage Without a Single Argument" 🤍
When Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal's wife passed away, he said:
«"By Allah, I lived with her for 40 years, and we never had a single argument."»
Someone asked him, "How was that possible?"
He replied:
«"Whenever she became upset and wanted to argue, I remained calm. And whenever I became upset and wanted to argue, she remained calm."»
A successful marriage isn't about two people who never disagree—it's about two people who choose patience, mercy, and understanding over anger. Sometimes, the greatest victory is not winning an argument but protecting the peace and love between husband and wife.
May Allah bless every marriage with patience, mercy, tranquility, and lasting love. Ameen. 🤲❤️
When Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal's wife passed away, he said:
«"By Allah, I lived with her for 40 years, and we never had a single argument."»
Someone asked him, "How was that possible?"
He replied:
«"Whenever she became upset and wanted to argue, I remained calm. And whenever I became upset and wanted to argue, she remained calm."»
A successful marriage isn't about two people who never disagree—it's about two people who choose patience, mercy, and understanding over anger. Sometimes, the greatest victory is not winning an argument but protecting the peace and love between husband and wife.
May Allah bless every marriage with patience, mercy, tranquility, and lasting love. Ameen. 🤲❤️
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"40 Years of Marriage Without a Single Argument" 🤍 When Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal's wife passed away, he said: «"By Allah, I lived with her for 40 years, and we never had a single argument."» Someone asked him, "How was that possible?" He replied: «"Whenever…
This is easier than we imagine.
If you put Allah first; and consider your future offspring such as great grandchildren, you will find it very easy to accommodate your spouse when they aren’t having a good day, even if they are downright irrational at the time.
May Allah guide us and forgive us and fill our homes with mercy and love.❤️
If you put Allah first; and consider your future offspring such as great grandchildren, you will find it very easy to accommodate your spouse when they aren’t having a good day, even if they are downright irrational at the time.
May Allah guide us and forgive us and fill our homes with mercy and love.❤️
Forwarded from Muslim Children Tips
⚠️ Cursed is the one who abuses his parents
In today’s world, many children speak harshly to their parents, raise their voices, ignore them, or treat them as a burden. Yet the Prophet ﷺ clearly said: “Cursed is the one who abuses his father. Cursed is the one who abuses his mother…” a severe warning not taken seriously today.
🎯 Even a bad attitude, rolling eyes, or neglecting them emotionally can fall into abuse. No matter their flaws, parents deserve kindness, patience, and respect. If Jannah is beneath the feet of the mother, then how lost are those who trample her with words?
💔 Honour your parents before it’s too late. Their duʿā can lift you or destroy you.
In today’s world, many children speak harshly to their parents, raise their voices, ignore them, or treat them as a burden. Yet the Prophet ﷺ clearly said: “Cursed is the one who abuses his father. Cursed is the one who abuses his mother…” a severe warning not taken seriously today.
🎯 Even a bad attitude, rolling eyes, or neglecting them emotionally can fall into abuse. No matter their flaws, parents deserve kindness, patience, and respect. If Jannah is beneath the feet of the mother, then how lost are those who trample her with words?
💔 Honour your parents before it’s too late. Their duʿā can lift you or destroy you.
Muslim Children Tips
⚠️ Cursed is the one who abuses his parents In today’s world, many children speak harshly to their parents, raise their voices, ignore them, or treat them as a burden. Yet the Prophet ﷺ clearly said: “Cursed is the one who abuses his father. Cursed is the…
Our parents being perfect is not a prerequisite for honor.
This is a major difference between us and the people of disbelief.
This is a major difference between us and the people of disbelief.
Forwarded from Archive of Tawheed
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
Secrets of your Spouse ...
1. To Marry: Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.
2. Love: Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.
3. Search: Mostly Women Search for the character of Men. So it's easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of women, so if he finds a better one, he can forget her, but if she makes any mistake to him, it's difficult to forgive her.
Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relationship with your spouse 😊
Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love ❤
1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce.
2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear.
5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing; Allah is the Provider, and the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
6. Sit down and eat meals together.
7. Keep disputes between the two of you; don’t take it outside.
8. Don’t leave home in anger.
Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love ❤
1. Behave like a female, i.e., all the tenderness of a female--a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a homemaker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
4. Don’t keep asking him, “What are you thinking?”
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
7. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.
8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.
10. Don't ever compare your husbands to other husbands! For example, don't say, "Well, her husband doesn't do that, why do you?" (That's a killer!)
11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask him to pray with you.
May Allâh subhanahu wa ta’ala preserve all of our marriages and help us understand and implement them in and with the best of manners. Ameen
1. To Marry: Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.
2. Love: Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.
3. Search: Mostly Women Search for the character of Men. So it's easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of women, so if he finds a better one, he can forget her, but if she makes any mistake to him, it's difficult to forgive her.
Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relationship with your spouse 😊
Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love ❤
1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce.
2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear.
5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing; Allah is the Provider, and the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
6. Sit down and eat meals together.
7. Keep disputes between the two of you; don’t take it outside.
8. Don’t leave home in anger.
Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love ❤
1. Behave like a female, i.e., all the tenderness of a female--a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a homemaker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
4. Don’t keep asking him, “What are you thinking?”
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
7. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.
8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.
10. Don't ever compare your husbands to other husbands! For example, don't say, "Well, her husband doesn't do that, why do you?" (That's a killer!)
11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask him to pray with you.
May Allâh subhanahu wa ta’ala preserve all of our marriages and help us understand and implement them in and with the best of manners. Ameen
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This is some Egyptian guy apparently wanting to be in the USA government.
No matter how much you humiliate yourself in front of these kufaar; they will never accept you.
No matter how much you humiliate yourself in front of these kufaar; they will never accept you.
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Cheer For the homos to prove your submission!
Forwarded from Muslim Children Tips
Some notes regarding television
Research has found that children spend an average of three to four hours watching television each day. In a 65-year lifespan, that means s/he will have spent nine of those years in front of a box. With these statistics, we realize that children spend significant amounts of time in the fictional world, engaging with this virtual world often more than they do in the real world. It suddenly becomes worrisome when you begin to realize this fact and understand its implications. Television viewing is harmful to the intellectual, psychological, and social development of children. Even more frightening is that children may be harming their souls at a very young age; often never to recover their purity and wholesomeness again.
Dangers to intellectual, psychological, and social development
When a child is born, s/he possesses all of the brain cells (or neutrons) that s/he will have for his or her lifetime, although these cells are not yet fully developed. This progression occurs early in life though interaction with others, stimulation from the outside world, and love and care of a parent. Television has actually been found to be harmful for the process, not allowing the brain to complete its full development. This is because television viewing is a passive activity, not an active one. The American Academy of Pediatrics has itself provided a warning that children under two years of age should not be allowed to watch any television, primarily for this reason. Much of the development occurs early in childhood, but it does continue into adolescence, so this applies to children of all ages.
Nurturing Eeman in Children by Dr. Aisha Utz (formerly Hamdan); pg. 199
Research has found that children spend an average of three to four hours watching television each day. In a 65-year lifespan, that means s/he will have spent nine of those years in front of a box. With these statistics, we realize that children spend significant amounts of time in the fictional world, engaging with this virtual world often more than they do in the real world. It suddenly becomes worrisome when you begin to realize this fact and understand its implications. Television viewing is harmful to the intellectual, psychological, and social development of children. Even more frightening is that children may be harming their souls at a very young age; often never to recover their purity and wholesomeness again.
Dangers to intellectual, psychological, and social development
When a child is born, s/he possesses all of the brain cells (or neutrons) that s/he will have for his or her lifetime, although these cells are not yet fully developed. This progression occurs early in life though interaction with others, stimulation from the outside world, and love and care of a parent. Television has actually been found to be harmful for the process, not allowing the brain to complete its full development. This is because television viewing is a passive activity, not an active one. The American Academy of Pediatrics has itself provided a warning that children under two years of age should not be allowed to watch any television, primarily for this reason. Much of the development occurs early in childhood, but it does continue into adolescence, so this applies to children of all ages.
Nurturing Eeman in Children by Dr. Aisha Utz (formerly Hamdan); pg. 199
Forwarded from Massoud Vahedi
New motion dropped:
Islam does not have clear answers on the economy, so Mamdani and Abdulrahman Mohamed El-Sayed are forced to "push forward" with the "necessary ijtihad".
Islam does not have clear answers on the economy, so Mamdani and Abdulrahman Mohamed El-Sayed are forced to "push forward" with the "necessary ijtihad".
Every year American Muslims move closer to full embrace of secular atheism.
The “American Islam” project is accelerating; they have vilified and removed the voices in the Anglo sphere calling to the pristine tawheed ; they have been replaced by agents of reform who not only call to riba and equality of the sexes, they even endorse and campaign for najis kufaar in democratic elections.
The “American Islam” project is accelerating; they have vilified and removed the voices in the Anglo sphere calling to the pristine tawheed ; they have been replaced by agents of reform who not only call to riba and equality of the sexes, they even endorse and campaign for najis kufaar in democratic elections.
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Every year American Muslims move closer to full embrace of secular atheism. The “American Islam” project is accelerating; they have vilified and removed the voices in the Anglo sphere calling to the pristine tawheed ; they have been replaced by agents of reform…
Remaining in America after converting to Islam gives you a less than 50% chance of your grandchildren being Muslim.
If Allah makes it possible for you to migrate to a majority Muslim country; thank Allah and don’t search for excuses to not do it.
Allah will provide for you and your children.
If Allah makes it possible for you to migrate to a majority Muslim country; thank Allah and don’t search for excuses to not do it.
Allah will provide for you and your children.
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Forwarded from Modern Day Muslim Issues (M S)
Bush subtly set up weak Muslims to apostatise by deceptive framing in 2001 when he stated:
"Every nation, in every region, now has a decision to make. Either you’re with us, or you’re with the terrorists"
Deceptive in the sense that the baatil (crusaders) looks like the haq & the haq is framed as baatil.
Allah Ta’aala says:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا تَتَّخِذُوا الْيَهُودَ وَالنَّصَارَىٰ أَوْلِيَاءَ ۘ بَعْضُهُمْ أَوْلِيَاءُ بَعْضٍ ۚ وَمَن يَتَوَلَّهُم مِّنكُمْ فَإِنَّهُ مِنْهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَهْدِي الْقَوْمَ الظَّالِمِينَ
فَتَرَى الَّذِينَ فِي قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ يُسَارِعُونَ فِيهِمْ يَقُولُونَ نَخْشَىٰ أَن تُصِيبَنَا دَائِرَةٌ ۚ فَعَسَى اللَّهُ أَن يَأْتِيَ بِالْفَتْحِ أَوْ أَمْرٍ مِّنْ عِندِهِ فَيُصْبِحُوا عَلَىٰ مَا أَسَرُّوا فِي أَنفُسِهِمْ نَادِمِينَ
وَيَقُولُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَهَٰؤُلَاءِ الَّذِينَ أَقْسَمُوا بِاللَّهِ جَهْدَ أَيْمَانِهِمْ ۙ إِنَّهُمْ لَمَعَكُمْ ۚ حَبِطَتْ أَعْمَالُهُمْ فَأَصْبَحُوا خَاسِرِينَ
One of the greatest signs of wilayah is offering support by any means (which will result in Muslims being massacred) & this is because many “Muslims” in the west have a sickness in their hearts, because they fear their comforts being taken away from Dar al-Harb & disaster striking them from the kuffar.
What they conceal shall be exposed even if they try to hide within the efforts of Tabligh, Khanqah & Deobandism, in the same manner Abdullah ibn Ubayy ibn Salul was exposed.
"Every nation, in every region, now has a decision to make. Either you’re with us, or you’re with the terrorists"
Deceptive in the sense that the baatil (crusaders) looks like the haq & the haq is framed as baatil.
Allah Ta’aala says:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا تَتَّخِذُوا الْيَهُودَ وَالنَّصَارَىٰ أَوْلِيَاءَ ۘ بَعْضُهُمْ أَوْلِيَاءُ بَعْضٍ ۚ وَمَن يَتَوَلَّهُم مِّنكُمْ فَإِنَّهُ مِنْهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَهْدِي الْقَوْمَ الظَّالِمِينَ
فَتَرَى الَّذِينَ فِي قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ يُسَارِعُونَ فِيهِمْ يَقُولُونَ نَخْشَىٰ أَن تُصِيبَنَا دَائِرَةٌ ۚ فَعَسَى اللَّهُ أَن يَأْتِيَ بِالْفَتْحِ أَوْ أَمْرٍ مِّنْ عِندِهِ فَيُصْبِحُوا عَلَىٰ مَا أَسَرُّوا فِي أَنفُسِهِمْ نَادِمِينَ
وَيَقُولُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَهَٰؤُلَاءِ الَّذِينَ أَقْسَمُوا بِاللَّهِ جَهْدَ أَيْمَانِهِمْ ۙ إِنَّهُمْ لَمَعَكُمْ ۚ حَبِطَتْ أَعْمَالُهُمْ فَأَصْبَحُوا خَاسِرِينَ
One of the greatest signs of wilayah is offering support by any means (which will result in Muslims being massacred) & this is because many “Muslims” in the west have a sickness in their hearts, because they fear their comforts being taken away from Dar al-Harb & disaster striking them from the kuffar.
What they conceal shall be exposed even if they try to hide within the efforts of Tabligh, Khanqah & Deobandism, in the same manner Abdullah ibn Ubayy ibn Salul was exposed.
Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
🥷🏻 A woman does not want much from her husband… just three things—if the husband can provide these,the wife will fall in love with him,become gentle, and be loyal.
1. Attention: Seeing with the heart,listening with the heart.
The most important thing a woman seeks is,Am I important to him?
📗@The Prophet (ﷺ)said,The best among you is the one who is best to his wife.Listening to his wife,paying a little attention, giving her importance—these hold more value in her eyes than gold.
2. Protection: The warm shade of security
A woman’s heart is like a flower…it blooms in the sunlight of love and survives in the shade of security.Allah has said,Men are protectors and maintainers of women.This guardianship is not about harshness—rather,it is that affection where the wife can confidently say,No matter what,I have my husband.
3. Satisfaction: Providing refuge in peace
Allah has said,You are garments for one another.Just as clothing conceals the body, protects it, and enhances beauty—so too is the relationship between husband and wife.Providing each other with mental and marital peace is what brings them closest together.
In summary,when a husband gives his wife Attention, Protection,and Satisfaction—she will naturally love him, respect him,and be ready to do anything for him.
1. Attention: Seeing with the heart,listening with the heart.
The most important thing a woman seeks is,Am I important to him?
📗@The Prophet (ﷺ)said,The best among you is the one who is best to his wife.Listening to his wife,paying a little attention, giving her importance—these hold more value in her eyes than gold.
2. Protection: The warm shade of security
A woman’s heart is like a flower…it blooms in the sunlight of love and survives in the shade of security.Allah has said,Men are protectors and maintainers of women.This guardianship is not about harshness—rather,it is that affection where the wife can confidently say,No matter what,I have my husband.
3. Satisfaction: Providing refuge in peace
Allah has said,You are garments for one another.Just as clothing conceals the body, protects it, and enhances beauty—so too is the relationship between husband and wife.Providing each other with mental and marital peace is what brings them closest together.
In summary,when a husband gives his wife Attention, Protection,and Satisfaction—she will naturally love him, respect him,and be ready to do anything for him.
Forwarded from Islam Against Modernism - الماتريدية الجها.دية
The Ruins of Gender Equality -
Hakim al-Ummah, Mawlana Ashraf 'Ali al-Thanvi al-Hanafi al-Maturidi
"O wives, how can you be equal to men? You are kept behind in every way and in every matter. Look: leading prayer (imamah) is not permissible for you; in inheritance, testimony, leadership (imarah), guardianship (wilayah), etc., you are behind men in every way. Why do you wish to push forward? The opinion of Imam Abū Ḥanīfah is that if a woman stands in the row of prayer equal to a man, the prayer becomes invalid. When there is no equality in acts of worship, which do not even require a great deal of effort or intellect, then how can you be equal in worldly transactions and affairs that require many of those capacities found specifically in men?
And yet you wish to claim equality, even though your status is less than that of a female slave, because it has come in a noble Hadith: "If I were to permit anyone to prostrate to other than God, I would command a woman to prostrate to her husband." And it was not said that He would command a female slave to prostrate to her master. From this, it is known that your status is even lower than that of a slave, and the status of a husband is even higher than that of a master.
Yet your condition is such that submitting to a husband is considered a disgrace because it goes against the ego. You do not even consider these commands to be part of religion. If there were a great enthusiasm for religion, you would recite many wazā'if, Subhanallah, and Alhamdulillah. I say that the status of wazā'if is far behind all of this; the greatest virtue lies in that which goes against the ego. And the selection of these wazā'if and ritual parts of religion by many women contains a subtle deception of the ego: namely, that because of them, one receives a great deal of public reverence and respect, and the common people begin to consider one a saintly elder. Therefore, the ego is pleased with this. But honoring, respecting, and obeying the husband goes against the ego, and therefore it is avoided. In short, one of the causes of ruin is this false notion of equality."
[Ḥuqūq al-Zawjayn, 156]
منقول
Hakim al-Ummah, Mawlana Ashraf 'Ali al-Thanvi al-Hanafi al-Maturidi
"O wives, how can you be equal to men? You are kept behind in every way and in every matter. Look: leading prayer (imamah) is not permissible for you; in inheritance, testimony, leadership (imarah), guardianship (wilayah), etc., you are behind men in every way. Why do you wish to push forward? The opinion of Imam Abū Ḥanīfah is that if a woman stands in the row of prayer equal to a man, the prayer becomes invalid. When there is no equality in acts of worship, which do not even require a great deal of effort or intellect, then how can you be equal in worldly transactions and affairs that require many of those capacities found specifically in men?
And yet you wish to claim equality, even though your status is less than that of a female slave, because it has come in a noble Hadith: "If I were to permit anyone to prostrate to other than God, I would command a woman to prostrate to her husband." And it was not said that He would command a female slave to prostrate to her master. From this, it is known that your status is even lower than that of a slave, and the status of a husband is even higher than that of a master.
Yet your condition is such that submitting to a husband is considered a disgrace because it goes against the ego. You do not even consider these commands to be part of religion. If there were a great enthusiasm for religion, you would recite many wazā'if, Subhanallah, and Alhamdulillah. I say that the status of wazā'if is far behind all of this; the greatest virtue lies in that which goes against the ego. And the selection of these wazā'if and ritual parts of religion by many women contains a subtle deception of the ego: namely, that because of them, one receives a great deal of public reverence and respect, and the common people begin to consider one a saintly elder. Therefore, the ego is pleased with this. But honoring, respecting, and obeying the husband goes against the ego, and therefore it is avoided. In short, one of the causes of ruin is this false notion of equality."
[Ḥuqūq al-Zawjayn, 156]
منقول
Islam Against Modernism - الماتريدية الجها.دية
The Ruins of Gender Equality - Hakim al-Ummah, Mawlana Ashraf 'Ali al-Thanvi al-Hanafi al-Maturidi "O wives, how can you be equal to men? You are kept behind in every way and in every matter. Look: leading prayer (imamah) is not permissible for you; in inheritance…
This is a rough read for feminists
Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
The biggest mistake a wife can make is running to tell her family and friends every time she has a problem with her husband. You think you're just venting, but what you're actually doing is opening the door for everyone to walk into your marriage.
One day, you'll make up with your husband. You'll forgive. You'll move on. But the people you told, they won't forget. They'll remind you. They'll shame you. They'll say, isn't that the same husband who did this and that?
What started as just sharing turns into ammunition. They'll throw back at you later. Your marriage is your home. And just like you wrap and protect your food, the way you bake a cake or heat up the food and carefully cook them in silence. Do the same with your problems. Wrap them, protect them. Don't let anyone taste what wasn't theirs to begin with. Keep your issues private because not everyone wants to see your marriage survive. Not every ear deserves your story.
Not every heart knows how to hold your pain.
Guard your home.
One day, you'll make up with your husband. You'll forgive. You'll move on. But the people you told, they won't forget. They'll remind you. They'll shame you. They'll say, isn't that the same husband who did this and that?
What started as just sharing turns into ammunition. They'll throw back at you later. Your marriage is your home. And just like you wrap and protect your food, the way you bake a cake or heat up the food and carefully cook them in silence. Do the same with your problems. Wrap them, protect them. Don't let anyone taste what wasn't theirs to begin with. Keep your issues private because not everyone wants to see your marriage survive. Not every ear deserves your story.
Not every heart knows how to hold your pain.
Guard your home.
Muslim Marriage Tips
The biggest mistake a wife can make is running to tell her family and friends every time she has a problem with her husband. You think you're just venting, but what you're actually doing is opening the door for everyone to walk into your marriage. One day…
Many marriages die from this .
This is why it’s haram for me to share these things about my wife to my family.
The only condition for when one of them can know according to Allah; is Islah; that is for them to help bring us together.
Otherwise it’s a major sin to discuss your marriage with them
This is why it’s haram for me to share these things about my wife to my family.
The only condition for when one of them can know according to Allah; is Islah; that is for them to help bring us together.
Otherwise it’s a major sin to discuss your marriage with them
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The next time some Fasiq proudly brags about their sins to you (car loan, student loan, house mortgage, phone plan with riba etc) tell them :
Good luck in your war against Allah and his Messenger S.A.W.
Good luck in your war against Allah and his Messenger S.A.W.