"Hamma narsa qilingunicha qilish mumkin emasdek ko'rinadi"
Nelson Mandela
Nelson Mandela
Qalbingiz nimani to'g'ri hisoblasa,
shuni qiling.
Nimani qilsangiz ham,
sizni koyishadi.
Nimadir qilsangiz ham,
qilmasangiz ham,
baribir koyishadi.
Eleonora Ruzevelt
Robert Kiosaki
"Boy ota - kambag'al ota " kitobidan
shuni qiling.
Nimani qilsangiz ham,
sizni koyishadi.
Nimadir qilsangiz ham,
qilmasangiz ham,
baribir koyishadi.
Eleonora Ruzevelt
Robert Kiosaki
"Boy ota - kambag'al ota " kitobidan
Hech kimni sizdan umuman qarzi yo'q. Hayotingizni ozgartirishga , qutqarishga hech kimdan yordam kutmang. Buni hech kim qilib bermaydi. Hech kimni qarzi yo'q. Buni faqat o'zingiz, faqat o'zingiz qilasiz. O'zingizdan boshqa hech kim qilib bermaydi.
Davronbek Turdiyev sahifasidan
Davronbek Turdiyev sahifasidan
Kimdir buyruq berishini kutib o'tirsang,
hech narsaga erisholmaysan.
Mitch Joel
Savdodagi savdogarlar kitobidan
hech narsaga erisholmaysan.
Mitch Joel
Savdodagi savdogarlar kitobidan
Yomonlik ko'rganingda
eng yaxshi reaksiya bu
anashu yomonlikni boshqalarga qilmasliging.
Markus Avreliy
Iqtibos podcast
eng yaxshi reaksiya bu
anashu yomonlikni boshqalarga qilmasliging.
Markus Avreliy
Iqtibos podcast
2 xil holatda qaror qabul qilmaslik
Birinchisi, xursandchilikda.
Xursandchilikda dofamin moddasi normal holatdan ko'tariladi va insonni o'ziga bo'lgan motivatsiyasini, ishonchini oshirib yuboradi.
Agarda ish o'xshamasa undagi o'ziga bo'lgan ishonchni yo'qotishiga sabab bo'ladi va depressiyaga olib boradi.
Ikkinchisi, depressiya, stress holatdagi qarorlar.
Bu vaziyatda domafin detoksin miqdori tushib ishonch va motivatsiya kamayib ketadi.
Miya mantiqiy fikrlashga, qarorga diqqatini to'liq jamlolmaydi.
Har ikkala holatda ham qanchadir vaqt o'tkazib qaror qilish kerak. Qaror qabul qilayotganda qo'shimcha omillarni ham hisobga olish lozim. Qarorlarning badali bu umrdir.
Birinchisi, xursandchilikda.
Xursandchilikda dofamin moddasi normal holatdan ko'tariladi va insonni o'ziga bo'lgan motivatsiyasini, ishonchini oshirib yuboradi.
Agarda ish o'xshamasa undagi o'ziga bo'lgan ishonchni yo'qotishiga sabab bo'ladi va depressiyaga olib boradi.
Ikkinchisi, depressiya, stress holatdagi qarorlar.
Bu vaziyatda domafin detoksin miqdori tushib ishonch va motivatsiya kamayib ketadi.
Miya mantiqiy fikrlashga, qarorga diqqatini to'liq jamlolmaydi.
Har ikkala holatda ham qanchadir vaqt o'tkazib qaror qilish kerak. Qaror qabul qilayotganda qo'shimcha omillarni ham hisobga olish lozim. Qarorlarning badali bu umrdir.
2023-yildan maqsadlarimni daftarga yozishni boshladim.
Oldin vaziyatga qarab ish tutardim.
Bir yil uchun bilmadim 10 tadan ko'proq maqsad yozib yuborgan ekanman.
O'qib hayron qolaman.
Orasida IELTS 7.5, SAT, 15 ta kitobni tugatish va yana qanaqadir maqsadlar.
Bitta narsada adashgan ekanman.
Maqsad qo'yishda reallikdan uzoqlashib orzularga ko'proq e'tibor beribman.
Va bu kutuvga, katta e'tibor berilishiga olib keldi.
Vaqt o'tdi qo'yilgan maqsadlardan borsa 40% amalga oshdi.
Nega qolgani amalga oshmadi deb o'ylanib qoldim.
Bu bitta menda emas boshqa insonlarda ham kuzatiladigan holat ekan.
Sababi maqsadlarni juda qisqa vaqt ichiga amalga oshirsa bo'ladi deb o'ylagandim.
Maqsadlar katta, reallikdan uzoqlashib ketgan va bu qisqa vaqt ichida amalga oshishi kerak edi.
Misol uchun Ingliz tilini o'rganishni boshlaganimga 2 oy bo'ldi 6 oydan keyin IELTSdan 7 ball olish va hokazo.
Bu reallikdan uzoq.
Agarda maqsadlar amalga oshmasa, bu insonning o'ziga bo'lgan ishinchini tushishiga sabab bo'ladi.
Shuni oldini olish uchun avvalo kutuvlarga(expectation) kamroq e'tibor berib, reallikga asoslanib maqsad qo'yish kerak nazdimda.
Albatta har bir maqsad ozmi- ko'pmi vaqt oladi. Muhimi ularga soqit qolishda.
Oldin vaziyatga qarab ish tutardim.
Bir yil uchun bilmadim 10 tadan ko'proq maqsad yozib yuborgan ekanman.
O'qib hayron qolaman.
Orasida IELTS 7.5, SAT, 15 ta kitobni tugatish va yana qanaqadir maqsadlar.
Bitta narsada adashgan ekanman.
Maqsad qo'yishda reallikdan uzoqlashib orzularga ko'proq e'tibor beribman.
Va bu kutuvga, katta e'tibor berilishiga olib keldi.
Vaqt o'tdi qo'yilgan maqsadlardan borsa 40% amalga oshdi.
Nega qolgani amalga oshmadi deb o'ylanib qoldim.
Bu bitta menda emas boshqa insonlarda ham kuzatiladigan holat ekan.
Sababi maqsadlarni juda qisqa vaqt ichiga amalga oshirsa bo'ladi deb o'ylagandim.
Maqsadlar katta, reallikdan uzoqlashib ketgan va bu qisqa vaqt ichida amalga oshishi kerak edi.
Misol uchun Ingliz tilini o'rganishni boshlaganimga 2 oy bo'ldi 6 oydan keyin IELTSdan 7 ball olish va hokazo.
Bu reallikdan uzoq.
Agarda maqsadlar amalga oshmasa, bu insonning o'ziga bo'lgan ishinchini tushishiga sabab bo'ladi.
Shuni oldini olish uchun avvalo kutuvlarga(expectation) kamroq e'tibor berib, reallikga asoslanib maqsad qo'yish kerak nazdimda.
Albatta har bir maqsad ozmi- ko'pmi vaqt oladi. Muhimi ularga soqit qolishda.
Winners focus on winning
Losers focus on winners
You never receive hate from above, always below.
Because their eyes are on the goals.
Maqsadli insonlar maqsadlariga erishish uchun e'tiborlarini qaratishadi.
Maqsadsiz insonlar g'oliblarni g'alabasiga e'tibor berishadi.
Sen hech qachon o'zingdan yuqori insonlardan nafrat,
yomonlash qabul qilmaysan,
har doim pastdan.
Chunki maqsadli insonlarning fikri (ko'zlari) maqsadlariga qaratilgan.
Alex Hormozi
Losers focus on winners
You never receive hate from above, always below.
Because their eyes are on the goals.
Maqsadli insonlar maqsadlariga erishish uchun e'tiborlarini qaratishadi.
Maqsadsiz insonlar g'oliblarni g'alabasiga e'tibor berishadi.
Sen hech qachon o'zingdan yuqori insonlardan nafrat,
yomonlash qabul qilmaysan,
har doim pastdan.
Chunki maqsadli insonlarning fikri (ko'zlari) maqsadlariga qaratilgan.
Alex Hormozi
Spend more time making the big decisions.
There are basically three really big decisions you make in your early life :
where you live,
who you're with,
and what you do.
The Alamanack of Naval Ravikant kitobidan
There are basically three really big decisions you make in your early life :
where you live,
who you're with,
and what you do.
The Alamanack of Naval Ravikant kitobidan
Omad muvaffaqqiyatli bo'lishda yordam beradi.
To'rtta turdagi omad mavjud
1. Bu biror insonning hech qanday nazoratisiz, harakatisiz omad kelishi.
Bunga - qanchadir miqdorda qolgan merosni misol qilib keltirish mumkin.
2. Sabr-toqat, mehnatsevarlik, harakat qilish va maqsadga erishishda shoshish.
Sen shu vaqtda imkoniyatlar yaratish ustida harakat qilishing kerak.
Ko'proq imkoniyatlar yaratish uchun ko'p harakat qilishing kerak.
3. Siz omad kelganda - buni yaxshi his qilasiz.
Agarda siz sohangizda eng yaxshisi bo'lsangiz va sohangizda boshqa insonlar sezmaydigan voqealarni sezsangiz, siz sohangizda omadli bo'lasiz va yaxshi natijaga erishishingiz mumkin.
4. Oxirgi turdagi omad - eng g'alati va qiyinidir.
Unda o'zingizga xos xarakter, o'zingizga xos brend va o'zingizga xos dunyoqarash, fikrlash yaratishingiz kerak va bu sababli omad sizni topishi mumkin.
O'ylashimcha 1 va 3 - kutib o'tirgandan ko'ra 2 - ustida ko'proq ishlash kerak.
Bu maqola The Almanack of Naval Ravikant kitobidan olingan va tarjima qilindi.
To'rtta turdagi omad mavjud
1. Bu biror insonning hech qanday nazoratisiz, harakatisiz omad kelishi.
Bunga - qanchadir miqdorda qolgan merosni misol qilib keltirish mumkin.
2. Sabr-toqat, mehnatsevarlik, harakat qilish va maqsadga erishishda shoshish.
Sen shu vaqtda imkoniyatlar yaratish ustida harakat qilishing kerak.
Ko'proq imkoniyatlar yaratish uchun ko'p harakat qilishing kerak.
3. Siz omad kelganda - buni yaxshi his qilasiz.
Agarda siz sohangizda eng yaxshisi bo'lsangiz va sohangizda boshqa insonlar sezmaydigan voqealarni sezsangiz, siz sohangizda omadli bo'lasiz va yaxshi natijaga erishishingiz mumkin.
4. Oxirgi turdagi omad - eng g'alati va qiyinidir.
Unda o'zingizga xos xarakter, o'zingizga xos brend va o'zingizga xos dunyoqarash, fikrlash yaratishingiz kerak va bu sababli omad sizni topishi mumkin.
O'ylashimcha 1 va 3 - kutib o'tirgandan ko'ra 2 - ustida ko'proq ishlash kerak.
Bu maqola The Almanack of Naval Ravikant kitobidan olingan va tarjima qilindi.
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant's notes that are appropriate for me right now.
Making money is not a thing you do - it's a skill you learn.
Seek wealth , not money or status.
Don't partner with cynics and pessimists. Their beliefs are self-fulfilling.
Arm yourself with specific knowledge, accountibility, and leverage.
If you can't code, write books and blogs, record videos and podcasts.
Study mictoeconmics, game theory, psychology, persusion, ethics, mathematics and computers.
Reading is faster than listening. Doing faster than reading.
Find partners with high intelligence, energy, and above all integrity.
Learn to sell. Learn to build. If you can do both, you will be unstoppable.
Become the best in the world at what you do. Keep redifining what you do until this is true.
Productize yourself [ taking the things you know you are good at and turning that into a business].
No one can compete with you on being on you.
Most of life is a search for who and what needs you the most.
Spend more time making the big decisions.
There are basically three really big decisions you make in your early life :
where you live,
who you're with,
and what you do.
if it intertains you now but will bore you someday, it's a distraction. Keep looking.
Earn with your mind, not your time.
Value your time at an hourly rate, and ruthlessly spend to save time at that rate. You will never be worth more than you think you're worth.
Never try to win in status games.
There's no shortcut to smart.
You don't get rich by spending your time to save money.
You get rich by saving your time to make money.
Without hard work, you'll develop neither judgement nor leverage.
In an age of leberage, one correct decision can win everything.
To be honest, speak without identity.
The more you know, the less you diversify.
If you can't decide, the answer is no.
Read a lot - just read.
Reading scienc, math, and philosophy one hour per day will likely put you at the apper echelon of human success within seven years.
Read what you love until you love to read.
Reading a book isn't a race - the better the book, the more slowly it should be absorbed.
If they wrote it to make money, don't read it.
Study logic and math, because once you've mastered them, you won't fear any book.
Find the best books that you are absorbed and reread them.
A calm mind, a fit body, and a house full of love.
These things cannot be bought.
They must be earned.
The three big ones in life are wealth, health and happiness.
We purseu them in that order, but their importance is reverse.
Money can buy happiness but not all. It can solve our external problems.
Don't take yourself seriously. You're just a monkey with a plan.
Happiness, love and passion... aren't things you find - they are choisec you make.
Happiness is being satisfied with what you have.
Success comes from dissaticfaction. Choose.
The most important skill for getting rich is becoming a perpetual (permanent) learner.
You have to know learn anything you want to learn.
If someone is talking a lot about how honest they are, they are probably dishonest.
that's just a little telltale indicator I have learned.
when someone spends too much time talking about their own values or they are talking about themselves up, they're covering for something.
If you have hobbies around your intellectual curiosity, you're more likely to develop these passion.
Always pay money forward.
And don't keep count.
Your real résumé is just a catalog of all your suffering.
A lot of unhappiness comes from comparing things from the past to the present
Surround yourself with people who are more clever, successful, energetic and happier than you.
If you can't see yourself working with someone for life, don't work with them for a day.
Happiness is earned by habits.
Easy choices - hard life,
Hard choices - easy life.
The harder the workout, the easies the day.
The greatest superpower is the ability to change yourself.
If there's something you want to do later, do it now. There is no "later"
Making money is not a thing you do - it's a skill you learn.
Seek wealth , not money or status.
Don't partner with cynics and pessimists. Their beliefs are self-fulfilling.
Arm yourself with specific knowledge, accountibility, and leverage.
If you can't code, write books and blogs, record videos and podcasts.
Study mictoeconmics, game theory, psychology, persusion, ethics, mathematics and computers.
Reading is faster than listening. Doing faster than reading.
Find partners with high intelligence, energy, and above all integrity.
Learn to sell. Learn to build. If you can do both, you will be unstoppable.
Become the best in the world at what you do. Keep redifining what you do until this is true.
Productize yourself [ taking the things you know you are good at and turning that into a business].
No one can compete with you on being on you.
Most of life is a search for who and what needs you the most.
Spend more time making the big decisions.
There are basically three really big decisions you make in your early life :
where you live,
who you're with,
and what you do.
if it intertains you now but will bore you someday, it's a distraction. Keep looking.
Earn with your mind, not your time.
Value your time at an hourly rate, and ruthlessly spend to save time at that rate. You will never be worth more than you think you're worth.
Never try to win in status games.
There's no shortcut to smart.
You don't get rich by spending your time to save money.
You get rich by saving your time to make money.
Without hard work, you'll develop neither judgement nor leverage.
In an age of leberage, one correct decision can win everything.
To be honest, speak without identity.
The more you know, the less you diversify.
If you can't decide, the answer is no.
Read a lot - just read.
Reading scienc, math, and philosophy one hour per day will likely put you at the apper echelon of human success within seven years.
Read what you love until you love to read.
Reading a book isn't a race - the better the book, the more slowly it should be absorbed.
If they wrote it to make money, don't read it.
Study logic and math, because once you've mastered them, you won't fear any book.
Find the best books that you are absorbed and reread them.
A calm mind, a fit body, and a house full of love.
These things cannot be bought.
They must be earned.
The three big ones in life are wealth, health and happiness.
We purseu them in that order, but their importance is reverse.
Money can buy happiness but not all. It can solve our external problems.
Don't take yourself seriously. You're just a monkey with a plan.
Happiness, love and passion... aren't things you find - they are choisec you make.
Happiness is being satisfied with what you have.
Success comes from dissaticfaction. Choose.
The most important skill for getting rich is becoming a perpetual (permanent) learner.
You have to know learn anything you want to learn.
If someone is talking a lot about how honest they are, they are probably dishonest.
that's just a little telltale indicator I have learned.
when someone spends too much time talking about their own values or they are talking about themselves up, they're covering for something.
If you have hobbies around your intellectual curiosity, you're more likely to develop these passion.
Always pay money forward.
And don't keep count.
Your real résumé is just a catalog of all your suffering.
A lot of unhappiness comes from comparing things from the past to the present
Surround yourself with people who are more clever, successful, energetic and happier than you.
If you can't see yourself working with someone for life, don't work with them for a day.
Happiness is earned by habits.
Easy choices - hard life,
Hard choices - easy life.
The harder the workout, the easies the day.
The greatest superpower is the ability to change yourself.
If there's something you want to do later, do it now. There is no "later"
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant kitobidan olingan xulosalar.
•Boylik
•Kitob
•Baxt
1. Muvaffaqqiyatli bo'lmoqchi bo'lsang - o'zingdan ko'ra aqlliroq, kuchliroq, energiyaga to'la va baxtliroq insonlar davrasida bo'l.
2. Doim o'z ustingda ishla va doimiy o'rganuvchi bo'l.
3. Pessimist va o'z manfaatini o'ylaydigan insonlar bilan sherik bo'lma, chunki ularning o'ylari faqat o'zlarini to'ldirish bo'ladi.
4. Har qanday sohada muvaffaqqiyatli yoki aqlli bo'lishning oson yo'li yo'qdir va bo'lmaydi ham.
Taleb Nassim aytkanidek
5. Kitob o'qish bu poyga emas. Eng yaxshi kitoblar qanchalik sekin va berilib o'qilganidir.
6. Yaxshi ko'rgan kitoblaringni top va ularni qayta o'qib chiq. Lekin yaxshilarini topish uchun ko'p o'qish kerak.
7. Sog'lom aql, sog'lom tana va sevgiga to'la uy bular baxt. Lekin bularni sotib olib bo'lmaydi. Ularni yaratiladi.
8. Baxtli bo'lish uchun reallikni qabul qilishni o'rganish kerak.
9. Baxt senda bor bo'lgan narsalarga qanoat qilishdir.
10. O'tmishingni hozirgi holatingga va ichki dunyoyingni tashqariga solishtirma. Bo'lmasa baxtsiz bo'lasan.
11. Baxtsizlikka olib boruvchi yo'l - o'zingni boshqa insonlarga solishtirishingdir.
12. Har bir lahzang qadriga yet, insonlarga yaxshi narsalar qoldirishga harakat qil.
13. Hamma narsani ham o'zingga jiddiy olaverma.
•Boylik
•Kitob
•Baxt
1. Muvaffaqqiyatli bo'lmoqchi bo'lsang - o'zingdan ko'ra aqlliroq, kuchliroq, energiyaga to'la va baxtliroq insonlar davrasida bo'l.
2. Doim o'z ustingda ishla va doimiy o'rganuvchi bo'l.
3. Pessimist va o'z manfaatini o'ylaydigan insonlar bilan sherik bo'lma, chunki ularning o'ylari faqat o'zlarini to'ldirish bo'ladi.
4. Har qanday sohada muvaffaqqiyatli yoki aqlli bo'lishning oson yo'li yo'qdir va bo'lmaydi ham.
Taleb Nassim aytkanidek
Uzun yo'llarni tanlang. Hayot qisqa yo'llarni kechirmaydi.
5. Kitob o'qish bu poyga emas. Eng yaxshi kitoblar qanchalik sekin va berilib o'qilganidir.
6. Yaxshi ko'rgan kitoblaringni top va ularni qayta o'qib chiq. Lekin yaxshilarini topish uchun ko'p o'qish kerak.
7. Sog'lom aql, sog'lom tana va sevgiga to'la uy bular baxt. Lekin bularni sotib olib bo'lmaydi. Ularni yaratiladi.
8. Baxtli bo'lish uchun reallikni qabul qilishni o'rganish kerak.
9. Baxt senda bor bo'lgan narsalarga qanoat qilishdir.
10. O'tmishingni hozirgi holatingga va ichki dunyoyingni tashqariga solishtirma. Bo'lmasa baxtsiz bo'lasan.
11. Baxtsizlikka olib boruvchi yo'l - o'zingni boshqa insonlarga solishtirishingdir.
12. Har bir lahzang qadriga yet, insonlarga yaxshi narsalar qoldirishga harakat qil.
13. Hamma narsani ham o'zingga jiddiy olaverma.
Reading a book isn't a race - the better the book, the slower it should be absorbed.
Kitob o'qishlik aslida poyga emas.
Kitob qanchalik yaxshi bo'lsa, u shunchalik sekin o'zlashtiriladi.
Kitob o'qishlik aslida poyga emas.
Kitob qanchalik yaxshi bo'lsa, u shunchalik sekin o'zlashtiriladi.
Money buys we(you) freedom in the material world.
It's not going to make you happy, it's not going to solve your health problems, it's not going to make your family great, it's not going to make you fit, it's not going to make you calm.
But it will solve a lot of external problems.
It's a reasonable step to go ahead and make money.
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It's not going to make you happy, it's not going to solve your health problems, it's not going to make your family great, it's not going to make you fit, it's not going to make you calm.
But it will solve a lot of external problems.
It's a reasonable step to go ahead and make money.
source:
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant