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βThe wiser a man is, the more he stands ready to be educated.β
Funny thing about lessons: the idiot student thinks when he is given a little fact that he owns itβthat two and two is always four no matter the circumstance. Just as it was not true for Orwell, it is not true for anyone. True lessons require not only knowing, but that the student practices his knowledge again and again. Thus knowledge becomes us, and we become more than the animal and the machine. That is why the best teachers are students always, and the best students are never fully educated.
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βThe worldβs soft the way the ocean is. Ask any sailor what I mean. But even when it is at its most violent, Hadrian... focus on the beauty of it. The ugliness of the world will come at you from all sides. Thereβs no avoiding it. All the schooling in the universeβ¦
But the ugliness of the world does not fade, and fear and grief are not made less by time. We are only made stronger. We can only float together on their tides, as otters do, hand in hand.
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Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice. βοΈErich Fromm
Critics of the oldest stories used to say that men believe women to be goals, prizes to be won or bought. They did not understand. No man could think such a thing and remain a man, for to love is in part the attempt to become a creature worthy of love.
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Critics of the oldest stories used to say that men believe women to be goals, prizes to be won or bought. They did not understand. No man could think such a thing and remain a man, for to love is in part the attempt to become a creature worthy of love.
So love is not merely an emotion, but a vow made one to another. A vow renewed in each moment, until it hardly needs making at all.
Or until it is not made, and death or deed does them part.*
*Bojack talks about love in general there but it's true here as well.
Or until it is not made, and death or deed does them part.*
*Bojack talks about love in general there but it's true here as well.
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All I know about being good I learned from TV. And in TV, flawed characters are constantly showing people they care with this surprising grand gestures. And I think that part of me still believes that's what love is. But in real life the big gesture isn'tβ¦
Always forward, always down, and never left or right. We were in the labyrinth againβor else had never left itβbeneath the shadows of those dark trees in my mind.
There are two sorts of men. One hears an order from his better and obeys. The other sees order in himself and obeys that. All men obey something, even if it is only themselves.
But it is always easier to spend what is not yours to give.
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The poets say that oneβs fears grow less with trial, that we become men without fear if tried enough. I have not found it to be so. Rather, on each occasion we are tested, we become stronger than our fears. It is all we can do. Must do. Lest we perish forβ¦
We believe our fear destroyed by new bravery. It is not. Fear is never destroyed. It is only made smaller by the courage we find after. It is always there.
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You carry on. Thatβs what heβd always done. Thatβs the task that comes with surviving, whether you deserve to live or not. You remember the dead as best you can. You say some words for them. Then you carry on, and you hope for better.
Deep truths there may be, but none is deeper than this: Those lost to us do not return, nor the years turn back. Rather it is that we carry a piece of those lost to us within ourselves, or on our backs. Thus ghosts are real, and we never escape them.
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βThose old stories have a lot of different themes,β I said. βOne, I never quite understood until I started flying. It happens in the epilogues. The stories after the stories. Warriors who have fought return home, but find they no longer belong. The battleβ¦
For when a war is done, no matter how small, pieces of it remain. Most of this shrapnel is carried in the hearts and souls of those who visited that strange country we call battle. Wherever such people goβbe it to the brightest gardenβthey are at war. To say that such people do not fight wars, as I had, to say such do not win them, was a dishonor. A dismissal of their struggle and pain. I understood that then, as one can only learn by experience.
It is easy for those without wealth to pretend at morality, as if they would not themselves make depraved choices given the means. There is no morality in poverty. It is only that wealth gives the immoral greater opportunity for abuse.
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But she'd seen enough to know that no battle is ever the last, whatever people might want to believe. Life goes on. Every war carries within it the seeds of the next, and she planned to be good and ready for the harvest.
Wars end,β I said coldly. βWars end,β Kharn agreed, more coldly still. βWar does not. And I am not much troubled what form our wars take.
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In my painful experience, the truth may be simple, but it is rarely easy.
for truth is sharper than falsehood, and [could be] just as poisonous.
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βAh, now thereβs a question for the ages,β Wit said, leaning back. βWhat use is art? Why does it hold such meaning and potency? I canβt tell you, because the short answer is unappealing and the long answer takes months. I will instead say this: every societyβ¦
Eternity is the chief quality of high art. Depending on no moment, such art belongs to every moment, and so takes us for a time from our timeβallowing us to touch eternity for our fleeting instant.
We like to imagine that we are ourselves a unity: one mind, one spirit. Not so. In truth we are each a little legion, a pack of little personaeβeach one-eyed in its attentions and single-minded in its aim.
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βMy stories? No, my little lord, not mine. The stories are, before me and after me, before you too.β
Those who say stories are only stories are only fools.
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Stories. They donβt mean much to people who donβt listen. But to some, they mean everything.
Joy is rare, a thing always of the now, existing without regard for time past or time future, and without depending on them.
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βA personβs absolute freedom is insanity. Oh human, see for yourself, you are seeking freedom but you are actually moving towards insanity.
you can be too free. Thatβs chaos. You have to have a goal to aim at and to orient yourself to. Imore says the properly lived life is one which draws the best path between that goalβwho you could becomeβand who you are today, but that this is accomplished by sacrificing certain freedoms. By making choices.β
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A realistic image of your current self is crucial.
You gotta recognize and acknowledge your limitations.
Sometimes our emotions trick us, we feel that we've become far greater than who we used to be despite the apparent lack of real change and improvement.β¦
You gotta recognize and acknowledge your limitations.
Sometimes our emotions trick us, we feel that we've become far greater than who we used to be despite the apparent lack of real change and improvement.β¦
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Mercy and weakness are the same thing in war, and there's no prizes for nice behaviour.
The world is filled with monsters: dragons in the wilderness, serpents in the garden. We must become monsters to fight them. Anyone who thinks otherwise has never really had to fight for anything.
Some people believe that the painter who works his canvas is not an individual because he acquired his skills at the knee of some earlier master. That the soldier who stands before the enemy is not a hero, but a pawnβand one of many. There is no truth to this. Each of us contains multitudes, but it is not that we are cells in the body of humankind. Rather we are clay, shaped as the mountain is shaped: by the wind, the tramping foot, and the rain. By the world. The mark of other hands is on us, but we are ourselves alone.
One may be part of a community. One is an individual.
They are not mutually exclusive. It is only that the soul, the self, should lead, and our allegiances follow. To do otherwiseβto be otherwiseβis to make oneself a slave.*
*This one wasn't repliable, gotta think about how to connect it.
One may be part of a community. One is an individual.
They are not mutually exclusive. It is only that the soul, the self, should lead, and our allegiances follow. To do otherwiseβto be otherwiseβis to make oneself a slave.*
*This one wasn't repliable, gotta think about how to connect it.