5 TOP WAYS TO CONSISTENTLY BUILD A LIFETIME LIFESTYLE
1. Take action.
2. Repeat the process. REPETITION
3. Make it you routine. How you behave everyday towards achieving greatness.
4. Let it become part of you. Being in your DNA. that's HABIT
5. Do it for some years. When it become a habit it's now a a LIFESTYLE
1. Take action.
2. Repeat the process. REPETITION
3. Make it you routine. How you behave everyday towards achieving greatness.
4. Let it become part of you. Being in your DNA. that's HABIT
5. Do it for some years. When it become a habit it's now a a LIFESTYLE
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10 QUOTES TO MOTIVATE YOU TODAY
1. โLet obstacles be stepping stones to something greaterโ.
2. โYou are the only one who can define your successโ.
3. โA thousand miles is just a thousand one miles. The trick is to look at one mile at a timeโ.
4. โDonโt compare your journey with anybody elseโs. You walk different pathsโ.
5. โTen years later, you would wish you had started todayโ.
6. โDonโt compare yourself to another. This is your life, itโs about you, not themโ.
7. โIf there is no road, carve it yourselfโ.
8. โItโs just priority. What you prioritize is what will thriveโ.
9. โWhat you are searching for is searching for youโ.
10. โThere will always be haters but their opinion arenโt more important or more accurate".
1. โLet obstacles be stepping stones to something greaterโ.
2. โYou are the only one who can define your successโ.
3. โA thousand miles is just a thousand one miles. The trick is to look at one mile at a timeโ.
4. โDonโt compare your journey with anybody elseโs. You walk different pathsโ.
5. โTen years later, you would wish you had started todayโ.
6. โDonโt compare yourself to another. This is your life, itโs about you, not themโ.
7. โIf there is no road, carve it yourselfโ.
8. โItโs just priority. What you prioritize is what will thriveโ.
9. โWhat you are searching for is searching for youโ.
10. โThere will always be haters but their opinion arenโt more important or more accurate".
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7 Strategies for Success:
1. Donโt quit
2. Take calculated risks
3. Develop a positive mindset
4. Set clear and specific goals
5. Create a plan and stick to it
6. Continuously learn and improve
7. Stay focused and avoid distractions
1. Donโt quit
2. Take calculated risks
3. Develop a positive mindset
4. Set clear and specific goals
5. Create a plan and stick to it
6. Continuously learn and improve
7. Stay focused and avoid distractions
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10 WAYS TO WIN IN LIFE
1. Speak well of others
2. Listen more, talk less
3. Smile more
4. Remember people's names
5. Be optimistic
6. Compliment other's
7. Show appreciation
8. Be positive always
9. Ask questions, ask for advice
10. Practice humility
1. Speak well of others
2. Listen more, talk less
3. Smile more
4. Remember people's names
5. Be optimistic
6. Compliment other's
7. Show appreciation
8. Be positive always
9. Ask questions, ask for advice
10. Practice humility
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Keep it in mind everyday ๐.
๐ข , To improve your mood, exercise.
๐ข , To think more clearly, meditate.
๐ข , To understand the world, read.
๐ข , To understand yourself, write.
๐ข , To help people, help yourself.
๐ข , To make new friends, travel.
๐ข , To smile more, fall in love.
๐ข , To learn fast, have fun.
๐ข , To live more, be still.
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๐ข , To improve your mood, exercise.
๐ข , To think more clearly, meditate.
๐ข , To understand the world, read.
๐ข , To understand yourself, write.
๐ข , To help people, help yourself.
๐ข , To make new friends, travel.
๐ข , To smile more, fall in love.
๐ข , To learn fast, have fun.
๐ข , To live more, be still.
Share ๐จโ๐ผ @Busines_Insight
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๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐จ๐จ๐ค "๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ฉ."
1. Be the Best
Anyone going to hire you, buy from you, or do what you want them to do will wonder if youโre the BEST choice.
BEST: Best for them, right now, based on what they believe and what they know
THE WORLD: Their world, the world they have access to
2 . Quitting Is Not a Failure
If you are not going to be the best, then you should just QUIT.
Quitting, in some scenarios, is actually essential for freeing up resources to get through the dips that matter.
This means you only have two options in life:
Quit or be Exceptional.
To become the best, you must understand these three curves:
3. The Cul De Sac:
1๏ธThis first curve is where you work, work, and work and workโฆ but nothing changes. It doesnโt get a lot better; it doesnโt get a lot worseโฆ it just is what it is.
Whenever you find one of these...
...you need to get off it fast.
The opportunity cost of investing your life in something that wonโt get better is just too high.
4. The Cliff:
The cliff looks like something potentially promising at firstโฆ but then suddenly, it drops off rapidly & you suffer.
The cliff is a situation where you donโt quitโฆ until you fall off the other end and everything falls apart.
5. THE DIP:
If there wasnโt a Dip, thereโd be no scarcity. If Itโs Worth Doing, Thereโs Probably a Dip. The Dip creates scarcity, and scarcity creates value.
Itโs easy to Be a CEO. Whatโs hard is Getting there. Thereโs a huge dip along the way.
6. "Cul de sacs" & "Cliffs" Lead to Failure
If youโre facing either of these curves, you must quit. Not soon, but RIGHT NOW.
"The biggest obstacle to success is our inability to quit what isnโt working soon enough."
7. Quitting As Tactic VS Quitting As Strategy
Quitting is important, but weโre not talking about giving up and abandoning your long-term strategy.
You do have to quit the TACTICS that arenโt working.
8. The 6 Reasons why you might fail:
1๏ธโฃyou run out of time or money
2โฃyou get scared
3โฃyouโre not serious about it
4โฃyou lose interest or enthusiasm and settle for mediocre
5โฃyou focus on the short term instead of the long term
6โฃyou pick the wrong thing to be best in the world
9. What The Woodpecker Knows
When faced with a dip, many people diversify to give themselves more options.
Before you think about doing something newโฆ consider what would happen if you focused your efforts and managed to get through The Dip that youโre already in.
10. Two Questions To Ask Before Quitting
1โฃAm I Panicking?
The best quitters are the ones who DECIDE IN ADVANCE when theyโre going to quit. You can always quit later โ so wait until youโre done panicking to decide.
2โฃWhat Sort Of Measurable Progress Am I Making?
To succeed, to get to that light at the end of the tunnel, youโve got to make some sort of forward progress, no matter how small.
Measurable progress isnโt just a raise or a promotion โ it can be much more subtle than that.
In Conclusion:
There are times when winning means quitting.
1. Be the Best
Anyone going to hire you, buy from you, or do what you want them to do will wonder if youโre the BEST choice.
BEST: Best for them, right now, based on what they believe and what they know
THE WORLD: Their world, the world they have access to
2 . Quitting Is Not a Failure
If you are not going to be the best, then you should just QUIT.
Quitting, in some scenarios, is actually essential for freeing up resources to get through the dips that matter.
This means you only have two options in life:
Quit or be Exceptional.
To become the best, you must understand these three curves:
3. The Cul De Sac:
1๏ธThis first curve is where you work, work, and work and workโฆ but nothing changes. It doesnโt get a lot better; it doesnโt get a lot worseโฆ it just is what it is.
Whenever you find one of these...
...you need to get off it fast.
The opportunity cost of investing your life in something that wonโt get better is just too high.
4. The Cliff:
The cliff looks like something potentially promising at firstโฆ but then suddenly, it drops off rapidly & you suffer.
The cliff is a situation where you donโt quitโฆ until you fall off the other end and everything falls apart.
5. THE DIP:
If there wasnโt a Dip, thereโd be no scarcity. If Itโs Worth Doing, Thereโs Probably a Dip. The Dip creates scarcity, and scarcity creates value.
Itโs easy to Be a CEO. Whatโs hard is Getting there. Thereโs a huge dip along the way.
6. "Cul de sacs" & "Cliffs" Lead to Failure
If youโre facing either of these curves, you must quit. Not soon, but RIGHT NOW.
"The biggest obstacle to success is our inability to quit what isnโt working soon enough."
7. Quitting As Tactic VS Quitting As Strategy
Quitting is important, but weโre not talking about giving up and abandoning your long-term strategy.
You do have to quit the TACTICS that arenโt working.
8. The 6 Reasons why you might fail:
1๏ธโฃyou run out of time or money
2โฃyou get scared
3โฃyouโre not serious about it
4โฃyou lose interest or enthusiasm and settle for mediocre
5โฃyou focus on the short term instead of the long term
6โฃyou pick the wrong thing to be best in the world
9. What The Woodpecker Knows
When faced with a dip, many people diversify to give themselves more options.
Before you think about doing something newโฆ consider what would happen if you focused your efforts and managed to get through The Dip that youโre already in.
10. Two Questions To Ask Before Quitting
1โฃAm I Panicking?
The best quitters are the ones who DECIDE IN ADVANCE when theyโre going to quit. You can always quit later โ so wait until youโre done panicking to decide.
2โฃWhat Sort Of Measurable Progress Am I Making?
To succeed, to get to that light at the end of the tunnel, youโve got to make some sort of forward progress, no matter how small.
Measurable progress isnโt just a raise or a promotion โ it can be much more subtle than that.
In Conclusion:
There are times when winning means quitting.
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Hundred General Principles Guiding Action and Decision
1. Honesty is the best policy.
2. Treat others as you want to be treated.
3. Courage to stand up for what is right.
4. Hard work and dedication is key to success.
5. Respect for diversity and individual differences.
6. Integrity in all aspects of life.
7. Responsibility for one's own actions.
8. Perseverance and determination to overcome obstacles.
9. Unity and collaboration to achieve goals.
10. Appreciation and gratitude for what one has.
11. Humility and willingness to learn from others.
12. Patience in difficult situations.
13. Compassion and empathy for others.
14. Self-control and emotional maturity.
15. Balance between work and personal life.
16. Creativity and innovation to solve problems.
17. Humor and positivity to lighten the mood.
18. Kindness and generosity towards others.
19. Optimism and hope for the future.
20. Open-mindedness and willingness to consider new ideas.
21. Planning and organization to achieve goals.
22. Prudence and careful consideration of decisions.
23. Resourcefulness and adaptability in changing circumstances.
24. Self-reflection and self-improvement.
25. Simplicity and minimalism in life.
26. Trust and reliability in relationships.
27. Authenticity and honesty in self-expression.
28. Assertiveness and confidence in communication.
29. Decisiveness and efficiency in decision-making.
30. Flexibility and openness to change.
31. Graciousness and politeness in social situations.
32. Independence and self-sufficiency.
33. Loyalty and commitment to relationships.
34. Objectivity and fairness in judgment.
35. Punctuality and timeliness in meeting commitments.
36. Vitality and energy in life.
37. Wisdom and discernment in decision-making.
38. Acceptance and tolerance of differences.
39. Adaptability and resilience in facing challenges.
40. Connection and relationship building with others.
41. Empowerment and self-direction.
42. Forgiveness and letting go of grudges.
43. Generosity and giving to others.
44. Initiative and proactive action.
45. Imagination and creativity.
46. Independence and self-reliance.
47. Intellectual curiosity and pursuit of knowledge.
48. Joy and happiness in life.
49. Justice and fairness in all areas of life.
50. Loyalty and commitment to ethical principles.
51. Mindful awareness and attention to the present moment.
52. Nurturing and caring for others.
53. Orderliness and neatness in life.
54. Peace and calmness in mind and spirit.
55. Perfectionism and attention to detail.
56. Persistence and determination to achieve goals.
57. Resourcefulness and ingenuity in problem-solving.
58. Responsibility and accountability for one's actions.
59. Self-care and mindfulness of one's own needs.
60. Self-discipline and self-control.
61. Service and dedication to others.
62. Strength and resilience in times of adversity.
63. Success and accomplishment in life.
64. Thoughtfulness and consideration of others.
65. Trustworthiness and reliability in relationships.
66. Understanding and empathy for others.
67. Unity and cooperation within communities.
68. Vision and clarity of purpose.
69. Wisdom and discernment in life decisions.
70. Ambition and drive to achieve goals.
71. Acceptance and embracing of differences.
72. Authenticity and being true to oneself.
73. Balance and harmony in life.
74. Creativity and innovation in problem-solving.
75. Diligence and hard work towards success.
76. Empathy and compassion for others.
77. Freedom and independence in life.
78. Gratitude and appreciation for what one has.
79. Growth and personal development.
80. Happiness and joy in life.
81. Honesty and transparency in communication.
82. Independence and self-sufficiency.
83. Integrity and morality in decision-making.
84. Kindness and compassion towards others.
1. Honesty is the best policy.
2. Treat others as you want to be treated.
3. Courage to stand up for what is right.
4. Hard work and dedication is key to success.
5. Respect for diversity and individual differences.
6. Integrity in all aspects of life.
7. Responsibility for one's own actions.
8. Perseverance and determination to overcome obstacles.
9. Unity and collaboration to achieve goals.
10. Appreciation and gratitude for what one has.
11. Humility and willingness to learn from others.
12. Patience in difficult situations.
13. Compassion and empathy for others.
14. Self-control and emotional maturity.
15. Balance between work and personal life.
16. Creativity and innovation to solve problems.
17. Humor and positivity to lighten the mood.
18. Kindness and generosity towards others.
19. Optimism and hope for the future.
20. Open-mindedness and willingness to consider new ideas.
21. Planning and organization to achieve goals.
22. Prudence and careful consideration of decisions.
23. Resourcefulness and adaptability in changing circumstances.
24. Self-reflection and self-improvement.
25. Simplicity and minimalism in life.
26. Trust and reliability in relationships.
27. Authenticity and honesty in self-expression.
28. Assertiveness and confidence in communication.
29. Decisiveness and efficiency in decision-making.
30. Flexibility and openness to change.
31. Graciousness and politeness in social situations.
32. Independence and self-sufficiency.
33. Loyalty and commitment to relationships.
34. Objectivity and fairness in judgment.
35. Punctuality and timeliness in meeting commitments.
36. Vitality and energy in life.
37. Wisdom and discernment in decision-making.
38. Acceptance and tolerance of differences.
39. Adaptability and resilience in facing challenges.
40. Connection and relationship building with others.
41. Empowerment and self-direction.
42. Forgiveness and letting go of grudges.
43. Generosity and giving to others.
44. Initiative and proactive action.
45. Imagination and creativity.
46. Independence and self-reliance.
47. Intellectual curiosity and pursuit of knowledge.
48. Joy and happiness in life.
49. Justice and fairness in all areas of life.
50. Loyalty and commitment to ethical principles.
51. Mindful awareness and attention to the present moment.
52. Nurturing and caring for others.
53. Orderliness and neatness in life.
54. Peace and calmness in mind and spirit.
55. Perfectionism and attention to detail.
56. Persistence and determination to achieve goals.
57. Resourcefulness and ingenuity in problem-solving.
58. Responsibility and accountability for one's actions.
59. Self-care and mindfulness of one's own needs.
60. Self-discipline and self-control.
61. Service and dedication to others.
62. Strength and resilience in times of adversity.
63. Success and accomplishment in life.
64. Thoughtfulness and consideration of others.
65. Trustworthiness and reliability in relationships.
66. Understanding and empathy for others.
67. Unity and cooperation within communities.
68. Vision and clarity of purpose.
69. Wisdom and discernment in life decisions.
70. Ambition and drive to achieve goals.
71. Acceptance and embracing of differences.
72. Authenticity and being true to oneself.
73. Balance and harmony in life.
74. Creativity and innovation in problem-solving.
75. Diligence and hard work towards success.
76. Empathy and compassion for others.
77. Freedom and independence in life.
78. Gratitude and appreciation for what one has.
79. Growth and personal development.
80. Happiness and joy in life.
81. Honesty and transparency in communication.
82. Independence and self-sufficiency.
83. Integrity and morality in decision-making.
84. Kindness and compassion towards others.
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๐ฅ Here are 10 things that require zero talent, but can make a huge difference in your personal and professional life.
1. Being on Time: Showing up on time for your appointments, meetings, and deadlines demonstrates respect, reliability, and professionalism.
2. Being Honest: Honesty is the foundation of trust and integrity. Being honest with yourself and others means being truthful, transparent, and accountable for your actions and decisions.
3. Having a Positive Attitude: A positive attitude can help you overcome challenges, cope with stress and attract opportunities. Having a positive attitude means being optimistic, grateful, and resilient. It also means focusing on solutions rather than problems and seeing the best in every situation.
4. Being Committed: Commitment is the key to achieving any goal or task. Being committed means being dedicated, loyal, and persistent.
5. Being Passionate: Passion is the fuel that drives you to pursue your dreams and interests. Being passionate means being enthusiastic, curious, and motivated.
6. Having Good Body Language: Having good body language means using gestures, eye contact, and posture to convey confidence, interest, and respect.
7. Believing in Yourself: Self-belief is the confidence that you have in your own abilities and potential.
8. Being Coachable: Coachability is the willingness to learn, grow and improve yourself. Being coachable means being open-minded, humble, and receptive to feedback.
9. Being Prepared: Preparation is the process of planning, organizing, and anticipating for future events or situations.
10. Having a Strong Work Ethic: Work ethic is the value that you place on your work and the quality of your output. ๐ฅ
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1. Being on Time: Showing up on time for your appointments, meetings, and deadlines demonstrates respect, reliability, and professionalism.
2. Being Honest: Honesty is the foundation of trust and integrity. Being honest with yourself and others means being truthful, transparent, and accountable for your actions and decisions.
3. Having a Positive Attitude: A positive attitude can help you overcome challenges, cope with stress and attract opportunities. Having a positive attitude means being optimistic, grateful, and resilient. It also means focusing on solutions rather than problems and seeing the best in every situation.
4. Being Committed: Commitment is the key to achieving any goal or task. Being committed means being dedicated, loyal, and persistent.
5. Being Passionate: Passion is the fuel that drives you to pursue your dreams and interests. Being passionate means being enthusiastic, curious, and motivated.
6. Having Good Body Language: Having good body language means using gestures, eye contact, and posture to convey confidence, interest, and respect.
7. Believing in Yourself: Self-belief is the confidence that you have in your own abilities and potential.
8. Being Coachable: Coachability is the willingness to learn, grow and improve yourself. Being coachable means being open-minded, humble, and receptive to feedback.
9. Being Prepared: Preparation is the process of planning, organizing, and anticipating for future events or situations.
10. Having a Strong Work Ethic: Work ethic is the value that you place on your work and the quality of your output. ๐ฅ
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WHY YOU SHOULD START READING.
1. READ TO Acquire knowledge.
2. READ TO Improve memory.
3. READ TO Strengthen critical and Analytical skills.
4. READ TO Advance your career.
5. READ TO Improve writing skills.
6. READ TO Reduce stress and anxiety.
7. READ TO Improve focus and concentration.
8. READ TO Boost Inspiration and Motivation.
9. READ TO Learn at your own pace.
10. READ TO Stimulate Imagination.
11. READ TO Improve conversation skills.
12. READ TO Become more empathetic.
13. READING HELPS you Sleep better.
14. READING helps you secure a Source of companionship.
15. READING Increases your lifespan.
16. READING Connects you to the right people.
1. READ TO Acquire knowledge.
2. READ TO Improve memory.
3. READ TO Strengthen critical and Analytical skills.
4. READ TO Advance your career.
5. READ TO Improve writing skills.
6. READ TO Reduce stress and anxiety.
7. READ TO Improve focus and concentration.
8. READ TO Boost Inspiration and Motivation.
9. READ TO Learn at your own pace.
10. READ TO Stimulate Imagination.
11. READ TO Improve conversation skills.
12. READ TO Become more empathetic.
13. READING HELPS you Sleep better.
14. READING helps you secure a Source of companionship.
15. READING Increases your lifespan.
16. READING Connects you to the right people.
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10 ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ
1. ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐๐๐ฆ, ๐๐จ๐ง ๐๐ข๐กโ๐ง ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐
Rather than spending time on things that donโt make you grow, know yourself and what you want to become. Invest your energy on working to reach your goals but donโt feel pressured and allow yourself to experience failures.
2. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ก ๐ฆ๐๐๐-๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ก๐๐
Growing up, you may have been dependent on your parents, siblings, friends, and other people around you, and they might undeniably made your life easier. But in reality, not everyone can be there for someone forever. Each of us deals with our own battles, and you have to learn how to overcome them alone. It will make you stronger and more prepared to a much difficult trail.
3. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ก ๐ฆ๐๐๐-๐๐ข๐ก๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐
Learn to control your emotions, actions, and temper. Learn to reflect, evaluate, and analyze the ends before it begins. Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.
4. ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ข๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐
Understand that you can never control everything. When you face a loved oneโs death, rejection, failure, heartbreak, etc., learn to quickly move forward, and the first step to that is acceptance.
5. ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ก๐ง๐๐ก๐ง๐๐, ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ก ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ก๐
The most common reason for unhappiness is not learning to be contented. Count what you have and work for what you donโt have; complaining wonโt make a thing.
6. ๐ค๐จ๐๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ก๐ฉ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฆ
Find joy in other peopleโs success while working on yours. Other people's success will never threaten yours. Other people's blessings will never take away yours.
7. ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐๐ฆ
Surround yourself with positive people. Condition your mind with positive thoughts. Engage yourself in a positive environment, and eliminate anything that doesn't contribute a positive effect.
8. ๐๐จ๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐-๐๐ข๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ก๐๐
Accept and love yourself; it is the first step to build confidence. Go out of your comfort zone. You will never know where your confidence will take you.
9. ๐๐ ๐ข๐ฃ๐๐ก-๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐
Accept constructive criticisms as they will help you grow. Be open to suggestions, opinions, and changes. An open-minded person accepts his mistakes, makes improvements, and therefore is more likely to achieve success.
10. ๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐
The world might be cruel but when you start sharing kindness, sooner it will become a better place to live. Be kind to yourself and to everyone.
1. ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐๐๐ฆ, ๐๐จ๐ง ๐๐ข๐กโ๐ง ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐
Rather than spending time on things that donโt make you grow, know yourself and what you want to become. Invest your energy on working to reach your goals but donโt feel pressured and allow yourself to experience failures.
2. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ก ๐ฆ๐๐๐-๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ก๐๐
Growing up, you may have been dependent on your parents, siblings, friends, and other people around you, and they might undeniably made your life easier. But in reality, not everyone can be there for someone forever. Each of us deals with our own battles, and you have to learn how to overcome them alone. It will make you stronger and more prepared to a much difficult trail.
3. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ก ๐ฆ๐๐๐-๐๐ข๐ก๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐
Learn to control your emotions, actions, and temper. Learn to reflect, evaluate, and analyze the ends before it begins. Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.
4. ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ข๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐
Understand that you can never control everything. When you face a loved oneโs death, rejection, failure, heartbreak, etc., learn to quickly move forward, and the first step to that is acceptance.
5. ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ก๐ง๐๐ก๐ง๐๐, ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ก ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ก๐
The most common reason for unhappiness is not learning to be contented. Count what you have and work for what you donโt have; complaining wonโt make a thing.
6. ๐ค๐จ๐๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ก๐ฉ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฆ
Find joy in other peopleโs success while working on yours. Other people's success will never threaten yours. Other people's blessings will never take away yours.
7. ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐๐ฆ
Surround yourself with positive people. Condition your mind with positive thoughts. Engage yourself in a positive environment, and eliminate anything that doesn't contribute a positive effect.
8. ๐๐จ๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐-๐๐ข๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ก๐๐
Accept and love yourself; it is the first step to build confidence. Go out of your comfort zone. You will never know where your confidence will take you.
9. ๐๐ ๐ข๐ฃ๐๐ก-๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐
Accept constructive criticisms as they will help you grow. Be open to suggestions, opinions, and changes. An open-minded person accepts his mistakes, makes improvements, and therefore is more likely to achieve success.
10. ๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐
The world might be cruel but when you start sharing kindness, sooner it will become a better place to live. Be kind to yourself and to everyone.
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๐ง๐ผ๐ฝ 9 ๐๐ฒ๐๐๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ
"๐๐โ๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐โ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ข๐"
1. Grief belongs to the griever
You have a supporting role, not the central role, in your friendโs grief. Grief is a very personal experience and belongs entirely to the person experiencing it.
2. Stay present and state the truth
โ๏ธYou cannot know what the future will be, for yourself or your friendโit may or may not be better later.
You cannot know that your friendโs loved one โfinished their work hereโ, or that they are in a โbetter placeโ.
3. Do not try to fix the unfixable
โDo not say anything that tries to fix the unfixable, and you will do just fine.
โจIt is an unfathomable relief to have a friend who does not try to take the pain away.
4. This is not about you
Being with someone in pain is not easy. You will have things come upโstresses, questions, anger, fear, guilt. Your feelings will likely be hurt.
๐ซItโs important that you be supported while you support your friend.
5. Anticipate, donโt ask
Do not say, โCall me if you need anything,โ because your friend will not call.
โ Instead, make concrete offers: โI will be there at 4:00 p.m. Be reliable.
6. Do the recurring things
You can lessen the burden of โnormalโ life requirements for your friend.
๐ Your friend in small, ordinary waysโthese things are tangible evidence of love.
7. Tackle projects together
Depending on the circumstance, there may be difficult tasks that need tending. Your presence alongside them is powerful and important.
8. Love
โฅ๏ธAbove all, show your love.
Be willing to not have any answers. Listen. Be there. Be present. Be a friend. Be love. Love is the thing that lasts.
9. Loss of Friendships
โNo matter what the deeper reasons are, the loss of friends you thought would stand by you through thick and thin is an added heartbreak.
The injustice of these second losses makes grief itself that much more difficult.
"๐๐โ๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐โ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ข๐"
1. Grief belongs to the griever
You have a supporting role, not the central role, in your friendโs grief. Grief is a very personal experience and belongs entirely to the person experiencing it.
2. Stay present and state the truth
โ๏ธYou cannot know what the future will be, for yourself or your friendโit may or may not be better later.
You cannot know that your friendโs loved one โfinished their work hereโ, or that they are in a โbetter placeโ.
3. Do not try to fix the unfixable
โDo not say anything that tries to fix the unfixable, and you will do just fine.
โจIt is an unfathomable relief to have a friend who does not try to take the pain away.
4. This is not about you
Being with someone in pain is not easy. You will have things come upโstresses, questions, anger, fear, guilt. Your feelings will likely be hurt.
๐ซItโs important that you be supported while you support your friend.
5. Anticipate, donโt ask
Do not say, โCall me if you need anything,โ because your friend will not call.
โ Instead, make concrete offers: โI will be there at 4:00 p.m. Be reliable.
6. Do the recurring things
You can lessen the burden of โnormalโ life requirements for your friend.
๐ Your friend in small, ordinary waysโthese things are tangible evidence of love.
7. Tackle projects together
Depending on the circumstance, there may be difficult tasks that need tending. Your presence alongside them is powerful and important.
8. Love
โฅ๏ธAbove all, show your love.
Be willing to not have any answers. Listen. Be there. Be present. Be a friend. Be love. Love is the thing that lasts.
9. Loss of Friendships
โNo matter what the deeper reasons are, the loss of friends you thought would stand by you through thick and thin is an added heartbreak.
The injustice of these second losses makes grief itself that much more difficult.
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6 lessons from the book "The Joy of missing out
by Tonya Dalton"
1. It's not reality that makes us feel stuck, it's the lens we use to view the world.
2. Productivity is not about doing more, it's doing What's most important.
3. Living a life with our priorities guiding us is the key to a happy life. A life that feels well lived.
4. Overwhelm is not having too much to do. It's not knowing Where to start.
5. When people focus on being efficient, the
resource we target is time. We fail to realize that being efficient is about getting things done; being effective is getting what's important done. There's a big difference.
6. Strong systems harness the patterns of habits and make tasks happen automatically.
7. The big secret in life is that there is no big Secret. Whatever your goal is, you can get there if you're willing to work.
Thanks for reading
by Tonya Dalton"
1. It's not reality that makes us feel stuck, it's the lens we use to view the world.
2. Productivity is not about doing more, it's doing What's most important.
3. Living a life with our priorities guiding us is the key to a happy life. A life that feels well lived.
4. Overwhelm is not having too much to do. It's not knowing Where to start.
5. When people focus on being efficient, the
resource we target is time. We fail to realize that being efficient is about getting things done; being effective is getting what's important done. There's a big difference.
6. Strong systems harness the patterns of habits and make tasks happen automatically.
7. The big secret in life is that there is no big Secret. Whatever your goal is, you can get there if you're willing to work.
Thanks for reading
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Top 10 Lessons learned From book-"The Dip"
1. Be the Best
๐ฅAnyone who is going to hire you, buy from you, or do what you want them to do is going to wonder if youโre the BEST choice.
BEST: Best for them, right now, based on what they believe and what they know
THE WORLD: Their world, the world they have access to
2 . Quitting Is Not Failure
If you are not going to be the best, then you should just QUIT.
Quitting, in some scenarios, is actually essential for freeing up resources to get through the dips that matter.
This means you only have two options in life:
Quit or be Exceptional.
To become the best, you must understand these three curves:
3. The Cul De Sac:
1๏ธโฃThis first curve is where you work and work and workโฆ but nothing changes. It doesnโt get a lot better; it doesnโt get a lot worseโฆ it just is what it is.
Whenever you find one of these...
...you need to get off it fast.
The opportunity cost of investing your life in something thatโs not going to get better is just too high.
4. The Cliff:
2โฃThe cliff looks like something potentially promising at firstโฆ but then all of a sudden it drops off rapidly & you suffer.
The cliff is a situation like this where you donโt quitโฆ until you fall off the other end and everything falls apart.
5. THE DIP:
3โฃIf there wasnโt a Dip, thereโd be no scarcity. If Itโs Worth Doing, Thereโs Probably a Dip. The Dip creates scarcity, and scarcity creates value.
Itโs easy to Be a CEO. whatโs hard is Getting there. Thereโs a huge dip along the way.
6. "Cul de sacs" & "Cliffs" Lead to Failure
If youโre facing either one of these curves, you need to quit. Not soon, but RIGHT NOW.
"The biggest obstacle to success in life is our inability to quit what isnโt working soon enough."
7. Quitting As Tactic VS Quitting As Strategy
๐Quitting is important, but weโre not talking about giving up and abandoning your long term strategy.
You do have to quit the TACTICS that arenโt working.
8. The 6 Reasons why you might fail:
1๏ธโฃyou run out of time or money
2โฃyou get scare
3โฃyouโre not serious about it
4โฃyou lose interest or enthusiasm and settle for mediocre
5โฃyou focus on the short term instead of the long term
6โฃyou pick the wrong thing to be best in the world
9. What The Woodpecker Knows
๐กWhen faced with a dip, many people choose to diversify to give themselves more options.
Before you think about doing something newโฆ consider what would happen if you focused your efforts and managed to get through The Dip that youโre already in.
10. Two Questions To Ask Before Quitting
1โฃAm I Panicking?
The best quitters are the ones who DECIDE IN ADVANCE when theyโre going to quit. You can always quit later โ so wait until youโre done panicking to decide.
2โฃWhat Sort Of Measurable Progress Am I Making?
To succeed, to get to that light at the end of the tunnel, youโve got to make some sort of forward progress, no matter how small.
Measurable progress isnโt just a raise or a promotion โ it can be much more subtle than that.
In Conclusion:
There are times when winning means quitting.
Thanks for Reading ๐๐
1. Be the Best
๐ฅAnyone who is going to hire you, buy from you, or do what you want them to do is going to wonder if youโre the BEST choice.
BEST: Best for them, right now, based on what they believe and what they know
THE WORLD: Their world, the world they have access to
2 . Quitting Is Not Failure
If you are not going to be the best, then you should just QUIT.
Quitting, in some scenarios, is actually essential for freeing up resources to get through the dips that matter.
This means you only have two options in life:
Quit or be Exceptional.
To become the best, you must understand these three curves:
3. The Cul De Sac:
1๏ธโฃThis first curve is where you work and work and workโฆ but nothing changes. It doesnโt get a lot better; it doesnโt get a lot worseโฆ it just is what it is.
Whenever you find one of these...
...you need to get off it fast.
The opportunity cost of investing your life in something thatโs not going to get better is just too high.
4. The Cliff:
2โฃThe cliff looks like something potentially promising at firstโฆ but then all of a sudden it drops off rapidly & you suffer.
The cliff is a situation like this where you donโt quitโฆ until you fall off the other end and everything falls apart.
5. THE DIP:
3โฃIf there wasnโt a Dip, thereโd be no scarcity. If Itโs Worth Doing, Thereโs Probably a Dip. The Dip creates scarcity, and scarcity creates value.
Itโs easy to Be a CEO. whatโs hard is Getting there. Thereโs a huge dip along the way.
6. "Cul de sacs" & "Cliffs" Lead to Failure
If youโre facing either one of these curves, you need to quit. Not soon, but RIGHT NOW.
"The biggest obstacle to success in life is our inability to quit what isnโt working soon enough."
7. Quitting As Tactic VS Quitting As Strategy
๐Quitting is important, but weโre not talking about giving up and abandoning your long term strategy.
You do have to quit the TACTICS that arenโt working.
8. The 6 Reasons why you might fail:
1๏ธโฃyou run out of time or money
2โฃyou get scare
3โฃyouโre not serious about it
4โฃyou lose interest or enthusiasm and settle for mediocre
5โฃyou focus on the short term instead of the long term
6โฃyou pick the wrong thing to be best in the world
9. What The Woodpecker Knows
๐กWhen faced with a dip, many people choose to diversify to give themselves more options.
Before you think about doing something newโฆ consider what would happen if you focused your efforts and managed to get through The Dip that youโre already in.
10. Two Questions To Ask Before Quitting
1โฃAm I Panicking?
The best quitters are the ones who DECIDE IN ADVANCE when theyโre going to quit. You can always quit later โ so wait until youโre done panicking to decide.
2โฃWhat Sort Of Measurable Progress Am I Making?
To succeed, to get to that light at the end of the tunnel, youโve got to make some sort of forward progress, no matter how small.
Measurable progress isnโt just a raise or a promotion โ it can be much more subtle than that.
In Conclusion:
There are times when winning means quitting.
Thanks for Reading ๐๐
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Notable quotes and lessons from the book Why A Students Work For C Students by Robert Kiyosaki
1. The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it is trained well, it can create enormous wealth in what seems like an instant.
2. If you want to be rich, you need to develop your vision. You must be standing on the edge of time gazing into the future.
3. The most successful people in life are the ones who ask questions. They're always learning. They're always growing. They're always pushing.
4. If you're the kind of person who has no guts, you just give up every time life pushes you. If you're that kind of person, you'll live all your life playing it safe, doing the right things, saving yourself for some event that never happens. Then, you die a boring old man.
5. The size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way.
6. If you want to go somewhere, it is best to find someone who has already been there.
7. The most successful people are those who are good at plan B.
In the book Robert kiyosaki challenges the traditional approach to education and encourages readers to think differently about success and financial independence.
Here are few lessons to learn๐
1. The importance of financial education:
The book stresses the importance of financial education and how it can help individuals achieve financial independence. Kiyosaki argues that traditional education does not provide enough practical knowledge about money management and investing.
2. The value of entrepreneurship:
The book encourages readers to consider entrepreneurship as a path to financial success. Kiyosaki argues that owning a business provides more opportunities for wealth creation than working for someone else.
3. The dangers of conformity:
The book highlights the dangers of conformity and how it can limit individual potential. Kiyosaki argues that traditional education encourages conformity and discourages creativity and independent thinking.
4. The power of networking:
The book emphasizes the importance of networking and building relationships. Kiyosaki argues that networking can help individuals find new opportunities and connect with successful people who can provide mentorship and guidance.
5. The importance of taking risks:
The book encourages readers to take calculated risks in order to achieve their goals. Kiyosaki argues that playing it safe and avoiding risk can lead to missed opportunities and limited success.
6. The value of resilience:
The book emphasizes the importance of resilience and perseverance in the face of failure. Kiyosaki argues that failure is an essential part of the learning process and that successful people are those who can bounce back from setbacks.
7. The need to constantly learn and grow:
The book stresses the importance of lifelong learning and personal development. Kiyosaki argues that successful people are always seeking new knowledge and skills to improve themselves and their businesses.
Thanks for reading
1. The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it is trained well, it can create enormous wealth in what seems like an instant.
2. If you want to be rich, you need to develop your vision. You must be standing on the edge of time gazing into the future.
3. The most successful people in life are the ones who ask questions. They're always learning. They're always growing. They're always pushing.
4. If you're the kind of person who has no guts, you just give up every time life pushes you. If you're that kind of person, you'll live all your life playing it safe, doing the right things, saving yourself for some event that never happens. Then, you die a boring old man.
5. The size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way.
6. If you want to go somewhere, it is best to find someone who has already been there.
7. The most successful people are those who are good at plan B.
In the book Robert kiyosaki challenges the traditional approach to education and encourages readers to think differently about success and financial independence.
Here are few lessons to learn๐
1. The importance of financial education:
The book stresses the importance of financial education and how it can help individuals achieve financial independence. Kiyosaki argues that traditional education does not provide enough practical knowledge about money management and investing.
2. The value of entrepreneurship:
The book encourages readers to consider entrepreneurship as a path to financial success. Kiyosaki argues that owning a business provides more opportunities for wealth creation than working for someone else.
3. The dangers of conformity:
The book highlights the dangers of conformity and how it can limit individual potential. Kiyosaki argues that traditional education encourages conformity and discourages creativity and independent thinking.
4. The power of networking:
The book emphasizes the importance of networking and building relationships. Kiyosaki argues that networking can help individuals find new opportunities and connect with successful people who can provide mentorship and guidance.
5. The importance of taking risks:
The book encourages readers to take calculated risks in order to achieve their goals. Kiyosaki argues that playing it safe and avoiding risk can lead to missed opportunities and limited success.
6. The value of resilience:
The book emphasizes the importance of resilience and perseverance in the face of failure. Kiyosaki argues that failure is an essential part of the learning process and that successful people are those who can bounce back from setbacks.
7. The need to constantly learn and grow:
The book stresses the importance of lifelong learning and personal development. Kiyosaki argues that successful people are always seeking new knowledge and skills to improve themselves and their businesses.
Thanks for reading
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8. Why do we read? Weโre not trying to ace tests or impress teachers. We are reading and studying to live and be good human beingsโalways and forever.
9. โIn your actions, donโt procrastinate. In your conversations, donโt confuse. In your thoughts, donโt wander. In your soul, donโt be passive or aggressive. In your life, donโt be all about business.โ โMARCUS AURELIUS
10. Great teachers are usually hardest on their most promising students. When teachers see potential, they want it to be fully realized. But great teachers also know that natural ability and quick comprehension can be quite dangerous to the student if left alone. An early promise can lead to overconfidence and create bad habits. Those who pick things up quickly are notorious for skipping the basic lessons and ignoring the fundamentals.
Donโt get carried away. Take it slow. Train with humility.
9. โIn your actions, donโt procrastinate. In your conversations, donโt confuse. In your thoughts, donโt wander. In your soul, donโt be passive or aggressive. In your life, donโt be all about business.โ โMARCUS AURELIUS
10. Great teachers are usually hardest on their most promising students. When teachers see potential, they want it to be fully realized. But great teachers also know that natural ability and quick comprehension can be quite dangerous to the student if left alone. An early promise can lead to overconfidence and create bad habits. Those who pick things up quickly are notorious for skipping the basic lessons and ignoring the fundamentals.
Donโt get carried away. Take it slow. Train with humility.
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๐๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ '๐๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ข๐' ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐๐ฒ
1. Today, make sure you take a walk. And in the future, when you get stressed or overwhelmed, take a walk. Take a walk when you have a tough problem to solve or a decision to make. When you want to be creative, take a walk. When you need to get some air, take a walk. When you have a phone call to make, take a walk. When you need some exercise, take a long walk. Take a walk together when you have a meeting or a friend over. Nourish yourself and your mind and solve your problems along the way.
2. Failure is a part of life we have little choice over. Learning from failure, on the other hand, is optional. We have to choose to learn.
3. The next time you face a political dispute or a personal disagreement, ask yourself: Is there any reason to fight about this? Is arguing going to help solve anything? Would an educated or wise person really be as quarrelsome as you might initially be inclined to be?
4. How you handle even minor adversity might seem like nothing, but, in fact, it reveals everything.
5. No need to be too hard on yourself. Hold yourself to a higher standard but not an impossible one. And forgive yourself if and when you slip up.
6. โIt is possible to curb your arrogance, to overcome pleasure and pain, to rise above your ambition, and to not be angry with stupid and ungrateful peopleโyes, even to care for them.โ โMARCUS AURELIUS
7. Do your job today. Whatever happens, whatever other peopleโs jobs happen to
be, do yours. Be good.
8. Why do we read? Weโre not trying to ace tests or impress teachers. We are reading and studying to live and be good human beingsโalways and forever.
9. โIn your actions, donโt procrastinate. In your conversations, donโt confuse. In your thoughts, donโt wander. In your soul, donโt be passive or aggressive. In your life, donโt be all about business.โ โMARCUS AURELIUS
10. Great teachers are usually hardest on their most promising students. When teachers see potential, they want it to be fully realized. But great teachers also know that natural ability and quick comprehension can be quite dangerous to the student if left alone. An early promise can lead to overconfidence and create bad habits. Those who pick things up quickly are notorious for skipping the basic lessons and ignoring the fundamentals.
Donโt get carried away. Take it slow. Train with humility.
Booksโ Knowledge โ Growth.
1. Today, make sure you take a walk. And in the future, when you get stressed or overwhelmed, take a walk. Take a walk when you have a tough problem to solve or a decision to make. When you want to be creative, take a walk. When you need to get some air, take a walk. When you have a phone call to make, take a walk. When you need some exercise, take a long walk. Take a walk together when you have a meeting or a friend over. Nourish yourself and your mind and solve your problems along the way.
2. Failure is a part of life we have little choice over. Learning from failure, on the other hand, is optional. We have to choose to learn.
3. The next time you face a political dispute or a personal disagreement, ask yourself: Is there any reason to fight about this? Is arguing going to help solve anything? Would an educated or wise person really be as quarrelsome as you might initially be inclined to be?
4. How you handle even minor adversity might seem like nothing, but, in fact, it reveals everything.
5. No need to be too hard on yourself. Hold yourself to a higher standard but not an impossible one. And forgive yourself if and when you slip up.
6. โIt is possible to curb your arrogance, to overcome pleasure and pain, to rise above your ambition, and to not be angry with stupid and ungrateful peopleโyes, even to care for them.โ โMARCUS AURELIUS
7. Do your job today. Whatever happens, whatever other peopleโs jobs happen to
be, do yours. Be good.
8. Why do we read? Weโre not trying to ace tests or impress teachers. We are reading and studying to live and be good human beingsโalways and forever.
9. โIn your actions, donโt procrastinate. In your conversations, donโt confuse. In your thoughts, donโt wander. In your soul, donโt be passive or aggressive. In your life, donโt be all about business.โ โMARCUS AURELIUS
10. Great teachers are usually hardest on their most promising students. When teachers see potential, they want it to be fully realized. But great teachers also know that natural ability and quick comprehension can be quite dangerous to the student if left alone. An early promise can lead to overconfidence and create bad habits. Those who pick things up quickly are notorious for skipping the basic lessons and ignoring the fundamentals.
Donโt get carried away. Take it slow. Train with humility.
Booksโ Knowledge โ Growth.
How to Embrace and Just Be Yourself.
Fears, doubts and insecurities are all around us, outside and inside of us. Sometimes it may even seem easier to "just want to be someone else" as we wrap ourselves up in these negative feelings.
The grass may appear much greener on the other side based on our perceptions and ideas. Which may or may not be slanted in the right direction, based on the past or current experiences we have had. The reality is often the exact opposite and others are more afraid than we are.
What if the person you think has everything going for them looks in the mirror and hates the way they smile, or how large they think their eyes are? What if everyone else in their family has brown eyes and they are made to feel out of place for having blue ones?
If the messages they have heard from family, friends or loved ones has always been negative regarding a certain characteristic or feature, their self-esteem will have taken solid hits from that.
It's comical how others are envied for superficial beauty, wealth or relationships that people would fight to trade places with them because many of them are looking at us and thinking the same thing.
You appear as the smartest person around and they wish they had the same people or conversation skills that you do. That feeling of quiet desperation to "be someone else" results in the lack of confidence, low self-esteem and any hope that we can ever improve our situations in life.
This is a perception and not your reality. Rather than spend your life wringing your hands about who you can't be, or what you don't have in it, concentrate on finding out how to make things better for yourself.
Ask questions and find solutions to how to be a better person and to accept yourself for who you are. You can always learn new skills, ask trusted friends or advisers for areas they think you could improve in and how.
Just because that's the way "you have always been" doesn't mean that's the way you must always remain. Taking steps to self-improvement can open up new doors of experiences and opportunities for you. Then you can, in turn, inspire and motivate others.
Get rid of the regrets in your conversations with yourself and focus on being a first-class citizen in your own mind. Accept yourself for who you are, improve what and where you can and stop constantly comparing yourself to others.
All of us will always be insecure at times but that doesn't have to be a life sentence for being unhappy. Loving ourselves no matter what begins with the act of self-acceptance. Once we achieve that, contentment will follow.
Fears, doubts and insecurities are all around us, outside and inside of us. Sometimes it may even seem easier to "just want to be someone else" as we wrap ourselves up in these negative feelings.
The grass may appear much greener on the other side based on our perceptions and ideas. Which may or may not be slanted in the right direction, based on the past or current experiences we have had. The reality is often the exact opposite and others are more afraid than we are.
What if the person you think has everything going for them looks in the mirror and hates the way they smile, or how large they think their eyes are? What if everyone else in their family has brown eyes and they are made to feel out of place for having blue ones?
If the messages they have heard from family, friends or loved ones has always been negative regarding a certain characteristic or feature, their self-esteem will have taken solid hits from that.
It's comical how others are envied for superficial beauty, wealth or relationships that people would fight to trade places with them because many of them are looking at us and thinking the same thing.
You appear as the smartest person around and they wish they had the same people or conversation skills that you do. That feeling of quiet desperation to "be someone else" results in the lack of confidence, low self-esteem and any hope that we can ever improve our situations in life.
This is a perception and not your reality. Rather than spend your life wringing your hands about who you can't be, or what you don't have in it, concentrate on finding out how to make things better for yourself.
Ask questions and find solutions to how to be a better person and to accept yourself for who you are. You can always learn new skills, ask trusted friends or advisers for areas they think you could improve in and how.
Just because that's the way "you have always been" doesn't mean that's the way you must always remain. Taking steps to self-improvement can open up new doors of experiences and opportunities for you. Then you can, in turn, inspire and motivate others.
Get rid of the regrets in your conversations with yourself and focus on being a first-class citizen in your own mind. Accept yourself for who you are, improve what and where you can and stop constantly comparing yourself to others.
All of us will always be insecure at times but that doesn't have to be a life sentence for being unhappy. Loving ourselves no matter what begins with the act of self-acceptance. Once we achieve that, contentment will follow.
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