just look up 겸댕 and kmoas were like "he called him 겸댕?? "his friend not his lover" ——— hsgdhd i did!!!! but im honestly curious as to what 겸댕 means in the context of lovers bcs "cutie" is apparently a mild version of it and an understatement + i wanna know why the k side is losing their minds over it as much as they are hmmm