Let's say you're married with a wonderful person who always was respectful, very loving, understanding, etc with you. Suddenly, your spouse dies and two weeks later you decide to check on their phone bc you miss them so much and you figure out that they were having an affair with someone else. How would you react? ——— Pissed, sad and mostly blame and question myself. What was missing and what was that something I can't fulfill that he needed to find it in other woman.