why are you so rude even in the way you reject your secret admirer? ——— Well, I have tried to be a decent person by rejecting it once in a polite manner (and in public) because I really don't feel comfortable receiving those messages through the autobase since I have had bad experiences with that kind of message in the past, and I don't want to experience it again. But they sent me a message again after that. Then, I accidentally found out about the sender through some clues from a few of my friends, and I asked my friends to pass my warning to the sender (to not send any message to me again) because that kind of message triggered me so much and I didn't know how long I could suppress my emotions. And guess what? They still sent me a few messages after that, and it made me sick. Was the warning not enough to make them stop? Why did they send me those messages and act like they admired me, but they couldn't respect what I wanted? Why can't I be rude to them?