are you the type of person who can bear and deal with someone who have mental health issues, or are you the type of person who can't handle them? i thought i was a person who able to deal with them until i finally felt so drained and overwhelmed and tired, i can't handle them no more... ——— It depends on my mental state as well. If I feel capable of handling it, I will certainly help them. It's crucial to be aware of one's own abilities and set boundaries so that you don't feel drained.