Would you be ok if your partner had a dramatic haircut without letting you know? (i.e. long hair to buzz cut, natural to rainbow colours etc.) ——— Not that it would matter, but I'm not even basic enough for long hair to no hair or rainbow colors to be something that disappoints or upsets me. I hope that that someone who knows me would know they aren't dealing with a person they should feel they need to "prepare" for their haircut.