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What if someone who hurt you in the past comes back and feels guilty for what they did to you. Would you like to return to a state where you were before and forget about that mistake? ——— No. Forgiving is easy but forgetting isn't. Let them be guilty, it's what they should feel after hurting me anyway, no? All I want is just to focus on the present and not the past. So no, I'll just stay in the current state.