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bloggers i can't stand

недавно я had a bit of an epiphany about почему я ненавижу a certain blogger и skip every single видео. i'm actually glad что я могу be honest with myself и admit that этот блоггер и я share a lot of the same traits, но я стараюсь to keep mine in check и не показывать остальным. these are the worst parts of my personality, the ones that i’m even trying to hide from myself

still, even knowing that, я absolutely не хочу писать nasty comments. я либо scroll past the video immediately, либо смотрю до конца (if the topic grabs my attention) и once again realize что мне просто нужно to work on myself and learn to accept who i am

а люди, которые пишут вам гадости, are deeply unhappy and insecure. все, что они могут сделать is project their insecurities onto YOU, trying to make you feel as miserable as they do, вместо dealing with their own stuff. но они никогда не смогут этого сделать because they're too afraid to face reality
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so, why do i hate men? am i sexist?

as far as i can remember, в своих recent videos, я не сказала ничего particularly negative about мужчин, except, “я не хочу to work with them потому что их behavior makes me uncomfortable.” but real hatred? это что-то, что я experienced - my friends have experienced it, millions of women have experienced it, and мы все еще dealing with it every single day. but let’s not dwell on that too much, we all know what’s going on

and honestly, girls, если вы go through the comments, вы увидите exactly what i mean.
мне постоянно говорят if this keeps happening, the problem must be me. что я не знаю how to get along with men, that i’m the one blaming others. что я должна just adapt to them. но если у меня есть the option not to, почему я должна put up with disrespect and go out of my way to accommodate them?

the real hate is coming from men. sexism comes from men. и если мужчины are so curious about why feminists так говорят, they can look it up online. they’re used to having everything handed to them on a silver platter, но правда в том, что we were raised by mothers and grandmothers who instilled a hatred of women in us and taught us to worship men

еvery feminist прошла через несколько стадий:

1. “feminists are stupid, angry, and ugly. нам не нужен феминизм”
2. “я respect women, but i’d never call myself a feminist”
3. столкновение с harsh reality. diving deeper - reading books, articles, watching videos

we were wrong. we hated women. у нас были the same questions men ask us every day в комментах. what did we do? we figured it out for ourselves. in my classes, я рада to explain things to girls because it’s important для них, and i want to make some kind of contribution to their growth. и честно говоря, i’d rather they learn about this with me in еnglish, than listen to some random dude telling them that women already have it great

it’s funny, but я даже не react to the phrase “not all men” anymore, and я думаю адекватный человек gets why. when i say men are awful, i’m not about to go around pointing out the ones who haven’t assaulted, beaten, or insulted women - потому что это не что-то that should make you “special.” it’s pretty easy to look good when everyone else looks terrible. когда я говорю, что ненавижу мужчин, i’m obviously not talking about my boyfriend. i’m not talking about the husbands of the feminists i know. do i really need to clarify that? no.

кстати, the whole “are you gonna start a family with a woman, then?” argument doesn’t work. odds are, you were raised by your mom and grandma, like most people. and no, life isn’t just about reproducing...

это будет первый пост, в котором я хочу написать перевод к некоторым словам, чтобы вам было еще понятнее 🐱

hatred - ненависть, отвращение, омерзение
instill - внушать, вселять
worship - поклоняться, боготворить
assault - словесное оскорбление и угроза действием; нападать; действовать грубо, неприятно
insult - оскорблять
hand to them on a silver platter - на блюдечке с золотой каемочкой
accommodate - пойти навстречу, учесть чьи-то интересы, мириться с чем-то
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делать такой словарик каждый раз?
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i feel very fulfilled when я пишу такие posts. actually, мне очень нравится using my platform to talk about important issues in our world. thank you for supporting me and my work! 😻
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делать такой словарик каждый раз?
давайте я буду делать такие словарики только на некоторые фразы? если я пишу большой пост, то выделю несколько классных и/или сложных фраз 🤩
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🎙️ выскажите свое мнение и бегите


изменения в боте: цена, что добавили и ваше мнение насчет одной маленькой штучки)

и еще важный момент! технические шоколадки до 30.10
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очень много новеньких не понимают что вообще тут творится ахахах

у меня всего 3 закрепленных сообщения, в самом первом закрепе есть навигация по каналу и информация про занятия

если запись откроется, я напишу об этом в канале:) пока можно записаться к моим девочкам на английский или к вове на информатику 😘
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how’d i get into tutoring?

i’ve told this story a bunch of times, but let me give you the rundown again in case you missed it. i’ve been speaking english since i was like three, went to a language school, and studied linguistics. but honestly, i never wanted to teach. like, when my mom would tell me as a kid, “nastya, study hard! you could teach someday, maybe even open your own school,” it didn’t do anything for me. i wasn’t feeling it at all. i just studied because, well, what else was i gonna do?

when i was little, this daycare teacher told me i had a knack for languages, and i guess that stuck with me. turns out, languages are kinda the only thing i’m really good at

but here’s the thing - i didn’t get into tutoring for the money. one day, i just got it into my head that i wanted to share what i knew with others. back then, i was living with a friend, working as a waitress, and making enough to get by. then, my friend betrayed me (long story), i moved out, and started living on my own. that’s when i realized i didn’t wanna work in food service anymore

so, one night, i just randomly posted an ad on avito, and by the next morning, my phone was blowing up with people wanting lessons. at first, i worked with kids in person, but i slowly transitioned to online tutoring. i was really vibing with teaching, and i still love it! but for me, it was never just about the money

at first, i was charging like 250-500 rubles an hour, and i’d catch myself stressing about not having enough, which made the quality of my lessons dip. i had to keep reminding myself that i wasn’t doing this just for the cash. eventually, i leveled up as a tutor - raised my rates, went fully online, and started working with older students. i reached out to katya (we went to the same language school), and we teamed up. for like a year, neither of us were making much money

then, i decided to post my first tiktok, talking about my students and lessons. boom - my schedule filled up instantly, for both me and katya

now, i’ve got a big following, two awesome katya’s on my team, added a new subject, and honestly... looks like mom was right after all

give you the rundown – рассказать тебе вкратце / в двух словах
daycare – детский сад
that stuck with me – это засело у меня в голове / это запомнилось мне
blowing up – разрывался от звонков / у меня разрывался телефон от звонков
the quality of my lessons dip – качество моих уроков стало падать / ухудшилось
raised my rates – повысила свои ставки / подняла цену за занятия
i had a knack for languages - у меня был талант к языкам
transitioned - постепенно перешла
i reached out - я связалась / я обратилась
teamed up - сработались / объединились

меня просили сделать постик только на английском, давайте попробуем...
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мнение?
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девочки, мнение?? сильно обидела их думаете?
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comfortya
девочки, мнение?? сильно обидела их думаете?
знаете что я сделала кстати? просто заблокала всех, кто мне под этим видосом писал гадости. их было ДОХУЯ. и писали их угадайте кто? мужчины) а еще я ненавижу всех… да… именно сижу и всех оскорбляю в своих видео(
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love y’all so much! i’m seriously happy that the right people are following me. we’re totally on the same wavelength, and that really matters to me. honestly, i’d rather deal with some tiktok drama for a few days to attract the people i connect with than spend my life scared to post and be my real self 😘
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вот такая штуковина у меня имеется, друзья!

@zzhostix пишите с пометкой «кураторство»
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я хочу еще добавить в кураторство общение только на английском в переписке и созвон, где я смогу определить уровень еще точнее, но это будет стоить дороже

10.000 рублей

что думаете?
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я не знаю how people stay consistent в тиктоке

это so unbearable… представь you're standing in a room with like 500 people in front of тобой. some are hyping you up, throwing compliments, others не согласны and sharing their opinions, a couple of them are in the middle of some argument, sorting out their issues. еще некоторые literally just dropped their pants and crapped on the floor. and you’re getting bombarded with questions from all sides, but ты стоишь и смотришь на это. alone. you just want everyone to shut up and leave you alone хотя бы на день. без constant debates. ты try to walk into another room, but you're still thinking about what you saw, and every time you pass by them, it’s like you can't escape. it’s like peace and quiet in your mind is gone forever. и каждый вопрос feels like it’s a lowkey criticism, and you can’t even respond without some frustration

it sucks when you build your own space, try to attract нужных людей, and then randoms show up and ruin everything you’re doing. like, they do it on purpose
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