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We almost beat Babi’s channel

Let that sink in

So I returned prematurely to settle this thing, because I had to make sure I’m still attractive for the ladies

While I was off from posting here for the weekend, I published a new article inspired by a piece I read from Substack that was beautifully written by my good friend Thepenanddreams.

This one lists the things I like in life and it's just a bunch of ordinary stuff that makes my life enjoyable. I was having fun writing it and it made me realize I have it good.

Read List of Things I Like on Substack

OK the feminine side of me made me write this

I remember when my mom’s friend say when I tell her I wanna study for my master’s , “ትምርት አታብዢ ባል አታገኚም.”

I though this is ያረጀ ያፈጀ አስተሳሰብ
but nah… some people still get uncomfortable when a woman is confident, independent, expressive, successful, or visible.

Like suddenly being smart, making money, speaking your mind, and handling your own problems makes you “not wife material”

Some people really want women to stay quiet, dependent, less ambitious, less outspoken… basically easy to control

But when a woman breaks that mold, builds her own life, makes her own money, speaks confidently, and stands on her own feet, they call it “too much” instead of calling it strength.

And honestly? Being independent doesn’t make a woman less feminine or harder to love it just means she can survive with or without help. That should be respected, not feared.

So my girlies pls don’t shrink yourself to fit somebody else’s comfort zone. Study, get the degree, get the money, be soft, be feminine, be confident, be YOU.

Anyway this is not personal just something I felt after observing some stuff today. If you’re offended… idk ma guy