Tidak ada yang bisa diubah jika kamu terus-terusan kembali ke masa lalu. Disana hanya ada luka lama yang seharusnya tidak kamu korek-korek lagi.
Often, I think when someone tells you that they need to rant, they are letting you know that they want to complain, and will feel better just by having complained. They do not want you to help them fix the problem. They do not want you to come up with a solution.
Terkenang masa lalu itu kadang bisa bikin berdarah juga ya?
Walau sudah lama, hingga kini pedihnya masih terasa.
Walau sudah lama, hingga kini pedihnya masih terasa.
Bukan mahu menghilang diri,
tapi masih di fasa pemulih,
Mencari kekuatan untuk diri yang dulu.
tapi masih di fasa pemulih,
Mencari kekuatan untuk diri yang dulu.
Obliviate
Bukan mahu menghilang diri, tapi masih di fasa pemulih, Mencari kekuatan untuk diri yang dulu.
Tapi pulih nya tiada tarikh pasti,
Mungkin aku tidak bisa seperti dahulu.
Mungkin ini semua hal hal manusia dewasa.
Dan tanda aku tidak boleh laku seperti anak kecil.
Seperti kalian yang dewasa;
Walau masih sakit tapi betah tersenyum.
Tidak seperti aku.
Mungkin aku tidak bisa seperti dahulu.
Mungkin ini semua hal hal manusia dewasa.
Dan tanda aku tidak boleh laku seperti anak kecil.
Seperti kalian yang dewasa;
Walau masih sakit tapi betah tersenyum.
Tidak seperti aku.
I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.
I know it's a hard lesson to learn, but the truth is you can't love yourself and love someone who hurts you at the same time. Choose you
Attitudes and Mindsets that can Change your Life
1. Knowing deep inside that you are good enough.
2. Believing you can do it, and believing you can make it.
3. Choosing to be grateful when you feel like complaining.
4. Choosing to hang in there when you feel you’ve had enough.
5. Knowing each new day is a true gift and fresh beginning.
6. Valuing others, and treating others well.
7. Investing in people instead of chasing things
1. Knowing deep inside that you are good enough.
2. Believing you can do it, and believing you can make it.
3. Choosing to be grateful when you feel like complaining.
4. Choosing to hang in there when you feel you’ve had enough.
5. Knowing each new day is a true gift and fresh beginning.
6. Valuing others, and treating others well.
7. Investing in people instead of chasing things
Forwarded from Redemption
Fear of trusting people
“Pistanthrophobia is the fear trusting others and is often the result of experiencing a serious disappointment or painful ending to a prior relationship"
“Pistanthrophobia is the fear trusting others and is often the result of experiencing a serious disappointment or painful ending to a prior relationship"
If I could, I would apologize to the sky and my room ceiling for all of the nights I’ve awkwardly stared at them remembering things I should have forgotten
Sometimes you end up losing yourself trying to hold onto someone who never cared about losing you. Know when to let go.
If you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy. Even if you wind up being left outBeing in a relationship without love is like getting wet in the rain but never feeling it, never feeling the beauty & serenity that rain brings.
it’s worth carrying on the fight because there might be something better ahead, rather than sinking back into the abyss and feeling like it doesn’t matter whether you live or die. And that’s the hardest damn thing of all, but hey, you gotta keep trying
Mungkin kita tidak punya banyak waktu untuk memahami semua yang terjadi, terkadang kita hanya butuh duduk dan menertawakan apa - apa yang telah terjadi, mengikhlaskan apa - apa yang telah kita lewati, dan mensyukuri apa - apa yang telah kita raih sejauh ini.
- Asta Gharino
- Asta Gharino
“The truth is social media makes us impatient. We’re rushing to get what someone else has. We want to be that person we see on our timeline, to live someone else’s life. Don’t let this happen. Learn to be content with what you have. Learn to appreciate the person that you are”