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Your body reflects the love you have for yourself.
Your words reflect the love you have for other people.
Your mind reflects on the truth of your choices.
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How to be Mentally Strong ✨
1. Don’t look to the world to give you an identity. You need to find yourself, and to be true to yourself.
2. Don’t look to your family and friends for approval. It will be a moving target that you’re missing constantly – and will change with the person whose approval you are seeking.
3. Set your own goals in life and believe in yourself. Decide on what success means for you personally – and know that if you work hard you will reach the goals you’ve set.
4. Expect things to take time. Life is not a race - so take whatever time you need to learn whatever’s needed.
5. Expect to meet with setbacks for you’re always going to meet them. And the obstacles we face will help us stretch and grow.
6. Expect other people to put you down, and for some to walk away, or to walk out of your life. People have their own agendas, and insecurities, and some might have a need to control you in some way. But be true to yourself. Don’t let others’ judgments sway you.
7. Don’t resent others’ gifts, or promotions, or successes. You’re not competing against others. You are on a different road.
8. Accept that there are some things which cannot be controlled. This is just a fact of life – so seek to be adaptable. Perhaps there’s something you can learn, or a new path you can tread.
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1. Don’t look to the world to give you an identity. You need to find yourself, and to be true to yourself.
2. Don’t look to your family and friends for approval. It will be a moving target that you’re missing constantly – and will change with the person whose approval you are seeking.
3. Set your own goals in life and believe in yourself. Decide on what success means for you personally – and know that if you work hard you will reach the goals you’ve set.
4. Expect things to take time. Life is not a race - so take whatever time you need to learn whatever’s needed.
5. Expect to meet with setbacks for you’re always going to meet them. And the obstacles we face will help us stretch and grow.
6. Expect other people to put you down, and for some to walk away, or to walk out of your life. People have their own agendas, and insecurities, and some might have a need to control you in some way. But be true to yourself. Don’t let others’ judgments sway you.
7. Don’t resent others’ gifts, or promotions, or successes. You’re not competing against others. You are on a different road.
8. Accept that there are some things which cannot be controlled. This is just a fact of life – so seek to be adaptable. Perhaps there’s something you can learn, or a new path you can tread.
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Take time to realize that somethings just happened and really happened for a reason. Maybe for now, we doesn't have enough idea we are going through and still questioning the things we've been through but always remember babe that somewhere down of these single road we took and every decision we have made, this is engraved in His very own plan. Trust Him because he got you always, in all ways.
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Someday it's okay to be no okay. You are allowed to cry. You are allowed to take a break for a moment. After all, we still human and need some rest.
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Stop hating yourself for everything you aren’t. Start loving yourself for everything you are
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There is never a right or wrong
It is just about going towards what you really want
Do things cause you want to do it and not cause you expect something in return
It never hurts to be the bigger person
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It is just about going towards what you really want
Do things cause you want to do it and not cause you expect something in return
It never hurts to be the bigger person
- N.R.K.
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Tips for Dealing with Feelings of Social Awkwardness ☘
1. Recognize that most people feel that way at times – even if they hide it well, and they look quite confident.
2. Pay attention to your selftalk. Don’t criticize yourself. Be kind and understanding, and gentle with yourself.
3. Try to locate the source of your feelings. Is it because you are in a new situation and don’t know what is expected of you? Is it because you’re naturally introverted and shy? Is it because you’ve been bullied or made fun of it the past? Is it because you feel you don’t belong, or haven’t been accepted by the people you are with?
4. Attack and address the source of those negative feelings. Work on accepting, valuing and thinking well of yourself. Also, making small talk, being friendly and chatting naturally are skills that you can work on and master over time.
5. Expect things to go well, and focus hard on being relaxed.
6. Try to act confident (ignore the way you feel). You’ll find that you feel better, less anxious and afraid.
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1. Recognize that most people feel that way at times – even if they hide it well, and they look quite confident.
2. Pay attention to your selftalk. Don’t criticize yourself. Be kind and understanding, and gentle with yourself.
3. Try to locate the source of your feelings. Is it because you are in a new situation and don’t know what is expected of you? Is it because you’re naturally introverted and shy? Is it because you’ve been bullied or made fun of it the past? Is it because you feel you don’t belong, or haven’t been accepted by the people you are with?
4. Attack and address the source of those negative feelings. Work on accepting, valuing and thinking well of yourself. Also, making small talk, being friendly and chatting naturally are skills that you can work on and master over time.
5. Expect things to go well, and focus hard on being relaxed.
6. Try to act confident (ignore the way you feel). You’ll find that you feel better, less anxious and afraid.
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I’m afraid to fall in love with real people because I can’t trust them. I just don’t feel comfortable to show my weakness to them and maybe get hurt one day. Falling in love with movie or book characters is the only thing I can have at the very moment.
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It’s sweet when someone knows every single detail about you. Not because you constantly remind them but because they pay attention.
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