Forwarded from 🔥Embers from Ash🌻 (Ash)
"Fixing" is also a form of manipulation. It spells out underlying judgement. In order to "fix" someone... You have to first think there is something that needs to be fixed and more than that, you have to have a degree of egoism to think that You are the one to fix it.
This is the premise behind "Tend to the log in your own eye, not the stick in your neighbors".
The truth is....we can only control ourselves. Not our parents. Not our spouses. Not our siblings. Not our friends. Not our neighbors. And controlling ourselves, if we are being honest here, is one hell of an undertaking.
We all have varying degrees of dysfunction. Our own dysfunction, our own beliefs and thoughts and behaviors and results are our direct responsibility. No one else's.
That is job #1 in this life.
The more you dig into why you think you need to save or fix others, the more you will see that You are actually the one who needs some re-arranging.
By healing yourself, by growing yourself, by fixing yourself, you will naturally cause a ripple. You reflect that change to those around you. But it always, always starts with you and the degree to which you are willing to be real and honest with yourSelf.
@EmbersfromAsh
This is the premise behind "Tend to the log in your own eye, not the stick in your neighbors".
The truth is....we can only control ourselves. Not our parents. Not our spouses. Not our siblings. Not our friends. Not our neighbors. And controlling ourselves, if we are being honest here, is one hell of an undertaking.
We all have varying degrees of dysfunction. Our own dysfunction, our own beliefs and thoughts and behaviors and results are our direct responsibility. No one else's.
That is job #1 in this life.
The more you dig into why you think you need to save or fix others, the more you will see that You are actually the one who needs some re-arranging.
By healing yourself, by growing yourself, by fixing yourself, you will naturally cause a ripple. You reflect that change to those around you. But it always, always starts with you and the degree to which you are willing to be real and honest with yourSelf.
@EmbersfromAsh
Update as of 1430 hrs PT
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Forwarded from Free4all (Mary)
https://rumble.com/v6u6gwd-the-hidden-script-ep-12.html
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Please join us at 6pm EST
We will be breaking down the film Operation Finale 2018.
Grab your popcorn 🍿
https://pilled.net/topic-detail/1182109
https://pilled.net/topic-detail/1182110
Please join us at 6pm EST
We will be breaking down the film Operation Finale 2018.
Grab your popcorn 🍿
Rumble
The Hidden Script ep 12
Tonight we will be watching Operation Finale 2018. This is a film about Nazi hunters in Argentina after WWII. Since Argentina has just declassified documents proving the Nazis did escape there and wer
Forwarded from TR HQ
Important bit of understanding about narcissists. They don’t fall in love with themselves. In fact, most actually loathe themselves.
They fall in love with their reflection.
The reflection they see in the mirrors all around them is what they become obsessed with.
How they appear is what matters. To others, yes, but most importantly to themselves.
It soothes their deep seated belief that they are not worthy. Not good enough. Very, very not OK.
The people they abuse are not actually people to them. They are mirrors; simple tools to use to examine their own reflection. And when the mirror no longer shows them what they wish to see, they will break it.
Or try to.
@TruthRascalHQ
—4 Sept 2024—
They fall in love with their reflection.
The reflection they see in the mirrors all around them is what they become obsessed with.
How they appear is what matters. To others, yes, but most importantly to themselves.
It soothes their deep seated belief that they are not worthy. Not good enough. Very, very not OK.
The people they abuse are not actually people to them. They are mirrors; simple tools to use to examine their own reflection. And when the mirror no longer shows them what they wish to see, they will break it.
Or try to.
@TruthRascalHQ
—4 Sept 2024—
Forwarded from TR HQ
What is a narcissist at its core?
Someone who will override another person’s free will in any way they can. Often, this is done not through violence or outright demands, but through coercion and subterfuge. They get you to override your own inner compass by chipping away at your confidence in yourself…by making you believe that you are “less than”.
Generally, this happens because of a deep core wound in the narcissist that is often rooted in shame and a sense of unworthiness. But the manifestation of that is a personality that appears to be the opposite.
The underlying premise that they then carry into pretty much everything they do is that their desires and views are more important/valid/real than yours. In fact, they don’t think you even have the right to have views or perspectives of your own. You are not a person to them, you are a tool.
Let that sink in.
And then examine the society that we currently inhabit.
The only way to break that dysfunctional relationship is to wake up from it and reclaim your own Sovereignty. You’ll never be able to change their minds or force them to see you in any way other than the one they currently hold.
YOU have to change.
And yeah, that’s really fucked up and not fair and, and, and….
You can bitch all day. But when you’re done bitching, you’ll realize you’re the one who has to do the work.
And you will.
And you will be ok.
(And yes, I’m talking to myself again 🫶)
In Love,
—TR ✨💞✨
—24 Sep 2024—
Someone who will override another person’s free will in any way they can. Often, this is done not through violence or outright demands, but through coercion and subterfuge. They get you to override your own inner compass by chipping away at your confidence in yourself…by making you believe that you are “less than”.
Generally, this happens because of a deep core wound in the narcissist that is often rooted in shame and a sense of unworthiness. But the manifestation of that is a personality that appears to be the opposite.
The underlying premise that they then carry into pretty much everything they do is that their desires and views are more important/valid/real than yours. In fact, they don’t think you even have the right to have views or perspectives of your own. You are not a person to them, you are a tool.
Let that sink in.
And then examine the society that we currently inhabit.
The only way to break that dysfunctional relationship is to wake up from it and reclaim your own Sovereignty. You’ll never be able to change their minds or force them to see you in any way other than the one they currently hold.
YOU have to change.
And yeah, that’s really fucked up and not fair and, and, and….
You can bitch all day. But when you’re done bitching, you’ll realize you’re the one who has to do the work.
And you will.
And you will be ok.
(And yes, I’m talking to myself again 🫶)
In Love,
—TR ✨💞✨
—24 Sep 2024—
Forwarded from Lord Of The Pepe
Holy shit sticks!!
Did Trump just retruth a post about Biden being a clone? Yes he fkin did.
Stfu! My little heart is loling
H/t @atRealBen for the OG post on TG
Trumps Post
https://truthsocial.com/@realDonaldTrump/114605660077722777
The ReTruth
https://truthsocial.com/@llijh/114604139396491788
Did Trump just retruth a post about Biden being a clone? Yes he fkin did.
Stfu! My little heart is loling
H/t @atRealBen for the OG post on TG
Trumps Post
https://truthsocial.com/@realDonaldTrump/114605660077722777
The ReTruth
https://truthsocial.com/@llijh/114604139396491788