When something bad happens to someone, he/she is always the guilty one. But when that happens to us, we are always innocent and something is guilt, of course not us.

That's interesting, right?

That's why we don't develop and change ourselves. If we see our mistake, then you're gonna be 1% of people. But it's hard for you. Cuz we have some inward illnesses.

From now on, let's change it

If we fail the exam, we are the guilty, cuz we didn't study. Don't put blame on others. If you implement this, you will truly learn from ur mistakes and never fail again

Don't play the victim role, please

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A person with a clear goal and a clear path will have many enemies.

A person with unclear goal can be biased. They try this and that . They'll never be successful in one path

Every single skill can be developed, even if it is being extrovert or public speaking.

You need just practice and knowledge.

There's no excuse for us to say that I don't have a talent or My nature is different

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We always want be in a relationship that we feel ourselves important and loved.

But sometimes people don't care whether what they say breaks your heart or not. Your feelings are not crucial at all for 'em.

Just give urself some time to be alone. Your inner voice is gonna tell you everything. You actually need more reflection.

Being alone doesn't make you introvert or outcast. It's just something you should on a daily basis.

Today I talked to some people. Some of 'em cared and some of 'em didn't. The ones who cared actually responded for the sake of conversation.

But I didn't get mad. I know people don't care about me. That doesn't make me bad person.

So be aware

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Don't be around those who don't give a sh*t about you

Because you lose your confidence, hopes and ambitions.

Your self-confidence will automatically go down and you'll feel worthless. Actually you're a great person in a professional life or in terms of manner.

Be around people whose interests are similar to you and who care about what you say.

You need to be with the ones who is on the level you're trying

Then you're gonna improve

Don't let toxic people enter your life.

You're gonna decide how your future is gonna look like by choosing the right person at the right time.

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What to if you run out of things to say in a conversation?

If that happens to you, just don't talk. Aight? Get them talk

People like to talk about themselves, especially about their job or studies or interests

To get them talk, simply ask a question regarding their response. Keep in mind that, you're asking their opinion on something not yours. So listen to them. Look nowhere bu their faces

Ok, what's the benefit for u?

Firstly, you're gaining knowledge
Secondly, you're gaining their respect.
Thirdly, you're showcasing your good manner
...

That can help in different settings, in small chats with your co-workers or business partner or anybody who is human

Also, one more thing. You should express your ideas or beliefs when someone asks. Other times just shut up

Be a good person

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Break a large thing/task/goal into small parts

If you're aiming to run 5 km. Make each part 1 km and give any kinda reward to yourself. Reward is really a must.
In the end you don't even notice that you got there.

Eyes are timid. But you can deceive your eyes and mind.

You can apply when it comes to learning.

Bare in mind that, you have to prioritize the process not the finish

Then you will not stop even if you reach the finish.

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If you want to quit, just quit.

Remember what you're avoiding is what you really have to do.

If something looks scary to do and you're procrastinating, that thing can get you to the next level.

I, as an example, completed a course online. But I have revise it. It seems so scary to do and I don't want to do this.

But revising that is absolutely gonna take my career to the next level. I can get a job. Without that I can't do anything.

I understood what i really need. Even it is hard, i came to conclusions that I have to do it.

Don't skip it. Face it. Master it

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We just want to be happier than others.

If an individual has a house to live, food to eat and health, he is the happiest.

However, our eyes don't see that. We don't be thankful.

Instead we see others' money/luxury/...

Let me explain.

There are 3 boys. The first one has a ball, the rest doesn't. The first one is the happiest. But if you give a ball to rest, then the first do envy the others. But he has already gotten he wanted and needed. But he's not thankful.

This applies in every single situation in our lives.

So Be thankful

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Life is hard and life is also beautiful.

If you focus on the hurt, you'll suffer

If you focus on the lesson from the hurt, you'll grow and understand there's no reason for being sad.

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When we take a decision ourselves, if somebody try to change it, don't change and stick to it.

C'mon, this is ur choice. This is your life. You live this life not others. Fill your life with something you interest.

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Do you care about what others think and say?

To answer this, you can check yourself.
Do something bad that nobody never expects you. Also look at yourself. Are u worried or not?

Most of us are worried . That means we still consider important what people think.

While some say you have to listen to what they say, because you may be making mistake. That's also correct.

Actually you listen to them. If it is crucial, you take it. If it's not, then let it be.

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Our minds don't mind hard work.
They just don't like the idea of it.
The most difficult thing is starting.

So, make your hard work easy and short. You have to trick your brain.

You can actually trick your brain by your brain.

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You're trying to get smth done. But someone does it instead of you. This can be taking 1st place in a competition or getting into university or smth like that.

If you're feeling sad about him/her, then you have bad type of envy which will damage your heart. You have get rid of it immediately.

Even if your face says congratulations, but your inside doesn't tell you that. That is smth literally everyone has but illness everyone should avoid

Don't envy anyone. You feel amazing. Otherwise your envy will kill you before you die

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You know what people say.

People are not Worth sharing good things. They don't deserve to be spoken well.

Imagine you're happy for smth. Then you share with people. Then people don't just care.

Then they talk badly behind you. They laugh at you

Idk, people are like that. I don't mean all people. But even 1-2 is enough for you to worsen your mood

Keep silent. Just don't show anything to them

What am I doing with my life?

if you know me, you could think me as different. Believe me, I'm not what you think. There are only few people know a little bit about me. Personally, i don't know who i am.

I don't know what i am gonna do after 3 moths. Everything is in what I can't control. I literally don't know what to do.

If you're feeling this way, plz tell me what to do

Plz

I feel like everyone is manupulating, lying, ...

They do everything just for their purposes.

They just show their conditions just like poor. Actually they want to use you.

But what if they are actually your close ones...

I don't really know how to feel.

If people are under stress, they do what's in their heart which is envy or anything bad.

Do we really need to wear fashionable clothes?
If your heart is concerning and thinking about what other people think, then don't wear them
But if your heart doesn't care, then wear them.

But most of us do care about people , so my suggestion is do the against what your inside wants

English made me the person who talk to himself when walking alone. Before that I didn't use to have this habit

People think I'm crazy

If u don't have time for important thing, then you're not prioritizing it.

If you have no time, you still sleep and eat. Because those are ur main priority