Fear of being exceptional
When your friends say you've changed, they don't know how to say that You've grown.
A lot of people just fear of being exceptional, cuz exceptional people don't fit in the crowd, normal people. I mean They don't except exceptional things, they do, by definition, accept normal, average things.
Average person get average results
Exceptional person get exceptional results
Because his action is different from anybody. That's why the crowd don't like him.
The crowd don't like someone growing. You know?
that does apply thinking differently
when everyone is saying that you can't do that, because no-one else can't, if you really believe that you can do, then eventually you can do.
that makes you exceptional.
If you are trying to make people happy by your actions, but your plans don't make them happy, you don't have to try.
let's imagine, you really have to try, but you can't. Think about yourself, don't care about others.
@thoughts_wave
When your friends say you've changed, they don't know how to say that You've grown.
A lot of people just fear of being exceptional, cuz exceptional people don't fit in the crowd, normal people. I mean They don't except exceptional things, they do, by definition, accept normal, average things.
Average person get average results
Exceptional person get exceptional results
Because his action is different from anybody. That's why the crowd don't like him.
The crowd don't like someone growing. You know?
that does apply thinking differently
when everyone is saying that you can't do that, because no-one else can't, if you really believe that you can do, then eventually you can do.
that makes you exceptional.
If you are trying to make people happy by your actions, but your plans don't make them happy, you don't have to try.
let's imagine, you really have to try, but you can't. Think about yourself, don't care about others.
Be okay with being unliked because of your plans and action
@thoughts_wave
Everyone is jealous of what you got.
But no one is jealous of how you got it
Everybody wants the view, but
No one wants the climb
@thoughts_wave
But no one is jealous of how you got it
Everybody wants the view, but
No one wants the climb
@thoughts_wave
Forwarded from challenger.
maybe your life is messed up.
yes, sometimes it feels too much.
yes, it feels soo difficult.
maybe you had a difficult childhood.
maybe you had a bitter past.
but who cares? no one.
don't try to show yourself as a victim.
don't make pity parties.
instead:
ask Allah. work on yourself. get disciplined. try hard. stay patient. be consistent.
slowly. gradually. one at a time. your problems will be fixed. there is nothing impossable.
one day you'll get exceptional results.
stay strong.
yes, sometimes it feels too much.
yes, it feels soo difficult.
maybe you had a difficult childhood.
maybe you had a bitter past.
but who cares? no one.
don't try to show yourself as a victim.
don't make pity parties.
instead:
ask Allah. work on yourself. get disciplined. try hard. stay patient. be consistent.
slowly. gradually. one at a time. your problems will be fixed. there is nothing impossable.
one day you'll get exceptional results.
stay strong.
Hey, what's going on?
I'm actually doing good.
The reason is that I have set my goal which is crystal clear. Now I'm trying.
There's no excuse for me. That's why I don't usually find myself scrolling.
There should be some kinda deal with you and you. Then you're not mot going to put blame on the others.
Cuz eventually you're guilty.
@thoughts_wave
I'm actually doing good.
The reason is that I have set my goal which is crystal clear. Now I'm trying.
There's no excuse for me. That's why I don't usually find myself scrolling.
There should be some kinda deal with you and you. Then you're not mot going to put blame on the others.
Cuz eventually you're guilty.
@thoughts_wave
People don't find passion
They create it
They create it by getting good at something.
If you're good at something, it's for sure that you love it
So start by improving what you suck and get better at it and eventually you'll love it
When people ask you how you found you passion, then respond them I did what I hate yet have to
It's always the case
So do it what you hate, but have to
@thoughts_wave
They create it
They create it by getting good at something.
If you're good at something, it's for sure that you love it
So start by improving what you suck and get better at it and eventually you'll love it
When people ask you how you found you passion, then respond them I did what I hate yet have to
It's always the case
So do it what you hate, but have to
@thoughts_wave
Money reveals your inside of you.
As we all know, if we don't have money, we can't do what we want. So we can't say that someone is good or bad. What I mean is if you wanna know who the person actually is, give some money to them or watch them when they acquire some amount of bucks. As a result, he/she does what her/his temptation wants(95 % of us let our desire control us).
take Brazilian footballers. Growing up, they didn't have any money. Once they become affluent with the help of football, they tend to do worst things ever like sleeping with girls, or drugs. Many Brazilian footballers take drugs. Taking bad action is in their blood, you know (i'm not saying all of them). But when they were poor, they didn't have any facility to do it.
you get what i mean.
Good people do good deeds, even if they have little amount of money. They don't say I will be generous when I have X dollars. If you're not generous now, then you will never be.
The moral of the story is that prove yourself you are a good person by doing good deeds even if you are not able to.
@thoughts_wave
As we all know, if we don't have money, we can't do what we want. So we can't say that someone is good or bad. What I mean is if you wanna know who the person actually is, give some money to them or watch them when they acquire some amount of bucks. As a result, he/she does what her/his temptation wants(95 % of us let our desire control us).
take Brazilian footballers. Growing up, they didn't have any money. Once they become affluent with the help of football, they tend to do worst things ever like sleeping with girls, or drugs. Many Brazilian footballers take drugs. Taking bad action is in their blood, you know (i'm not saying all of them). But when they were poor, they didn't have any facility to do it.
you get what i mean.
Good people do good deeds, even if they have little amount of money. They don't say I will be generous when I have X dollars. If you're not generous now, then you will never be.
The moral of the story is that prove yourself you are a good person by doing good deeds even if you are not able to.
@thoughts_wave
Why we still have to learn basic things even if we have advanced technologies?
That seems interesting, right? Why we have to learn subtracting and adding numbers even if We have calculators ? Why we have to learn writing essays ? We already have chatgpt, you know?
The answer is as long as you don't know how smth works, you never get to build smth like that. You can't ):
Everything in existence works in the same way. The fundamentals are significant. That's why you don't understand anything in particular subjectin higher grades if you sucked at that subject in elementary school.
That's what I was about to tell you guys :D
@thoughts_wave
That seems interesting, right? Why we have to learn subtracting and adding numbers even if We have calculators ? Why we have to learn writing essays ? We already have chatgpt, you know?
The answer is as long as you don't know how smth works, you never get to build smth like that. You can't ):
Everything in existence works in the same way. The fundamentals are significant. That's why you don't understand anything in particular subjectin higher grades if you sucked at that subject in elementary school.
That's what I was about to tell you guys :D
@thoughts_wave
Quit talking and do the thing
This is it. I have no more to say.
A lot of the times talking useless stuff preventing you from taking action. Just because you talk about that stuff, doesn't mean you are doing. So that's just useless.
I see people talking I will do this and that, but they never do. Being silent is actually helpful.
So do that fricking thing.
@thoughts_wave
This is it. I have no more to say.
A lot of the times talking useless stuff preventing you from taking action. Just because you talk about that stuff, doesn't mean you are doing. So that's just useless.
I see people talking I will do this and that, but they never do. Being silent is actually helpful.
So do that fricking thing.
@thoughts_wave
Such words are unheard of.
No one has changed after hearing swearing.
No one has changed after hearing harsh criticism.
No one has changed after being humiliated in front of everyone.
No one has changed as a result of "competition."
No one has changed through accusatory statements.
Let us remember that all the words that have had a profound impact on our lives were spoken in quiet tones.
Do we want our brother, friend, or employee to change? Let's speak calmly. Words spoken loudly are not always heard.
@thoughts_wave
No one has changed after hearing swearing.
No one has changed after hearing harsh criticism.
No one has changed after being humiliated in front of everyone.
No one has changed as a result of "competition."
No one has changed through accusatory statements.
Let us remember that all the words that have had a profound impact on our lives were spoken in quiet tones.
Do we want our brother, friend, or employee to change? Let's speak calmly. Words spoken loudly are not always heard.
@thoughts_wave
Sit at a table where they talk about God, the next life, growth and goals.
Don't sit with people who yap about People and useless things
Don't sit with people who yap about People and useless things
Forwarded from Umar Muhandis
new year resolutions... Uhhhh, ah, again?
i'll tell you something. resolutions are nothing without action. they do not change you.
change starts within yourself. not outside. new year, new month, new week... endless excuses. they do not help you. do not wait for tomorrow. there is no such thing as "tomorrow". take action today.
don't wait for someone to come into your life, and transform you. no. take control and transform your life yourself.
don't expect him/her to come into your life and wake you up for fajr. no. wake up yourself.
don't wait someone to be your change. instead be someone's change.
final message. there is only one way: discipline, hard work, persistence, consistency, failure, analysis, and repetition. no shortcuts. full stop.
see ya'll next year.
i'll tell you something. resolutions are nothing without action. they do not change you.
change starts within yourself. not outside. new year, new month, new week... endless excuses. they do not help you. do not wait for tomorrow. there is no such thing as "tomorrow". take action today.
don't wait for someone to come into your life, and transform you. no. take control and transform your life yourself.
don't expect him/her to come into your life and wake you up for fajr. no. wake up yourself.
don't wait someone to be your change. instead be someone's change.
final message. there is only one way: discipline, hard work, persistence, consistency, failure, analysis, and repetition. no shortcuts. full stop.
see ya'll next year.
I do not ask the wounded person how he feels... I myself become the wounded person.
When something bad happens to someone, he/she is always the guilty one. But when that happens to us, we are always innocent and something is guilt, of course not us.
That's interesting, right?
That's why we don't develop and change ourselves. If we see our mistake, then you're gonna be 1% of people. But it's hard for you. Cuz we have some inward illnesses.
From now on, let's change it
If we fail the exam, we are the guilty, cuz we didn't study. Don't put blame on others. If you implement this, you will truly learn from ur mistakes and never fail again
Don't play the victim role, please
@thoughts_wave
That's interesting, right?
That's why we don't develop and change ourselves. If we see our mistake, then you're gonna be 1% of people. But it's hard for you. Cuz we have some inward illnesses.
From now on, let's change it
If we fail the exam, we are the guilty, cuz we didn't study. Don't put blame on others. If you implement this, you will truly learn from ur mistakes and never fail again
Don't play the victim role, please
@thoughts_wave
A person with a clear goal and a clear path will have many enemies.
A person with unclear goal can be biased. They try this and that . They'll never be successful in one path
A person with unclear goal can be biased. They try this and that . They'll never be successful in one path
Every single skill can be developed, even if it is being extrovert or public speaking.
You need just practice and knowledge.
There's no excuse for us to say that I don't have a talent or My nature is different
@thoughts_wave
You need just practice and knowledge.
There's no excuse for us to say that I don't have a talent or My nature is different
@thoughts_wave
We always want be in a relationship that we feel ourselves important and loved.
But sometimes people don't care whether what they say breaks your heart or not. Your feelings are not crucial at all for 'em.
Just give urself some time to be alone. Your inner voice is gonna tell you everything. You actually need more reflection.
Being alone doesn't make you introvert or outcast. It's just something you should on a daily basis.
Today I talked to some people. Some of 'em cared and some of 'em didn't. The ones who cared actually responded for the sake of conversation.
But I didn't get mad. I know people don't care about me. That doesn't make me bad person.
So be aware
#ideas #blog #thinking
@thoughts_wave
But sometimes people don't care whether what they say breaks your heart or not. Your feelings are not crucial at all for 'em.
Just give urself some time to be alone. Your inner voice is gonna tell you everything. You actually need more reflection.
Being alone doesn't make you introvert or outcast. It's just something you should on a daily basis.
Today I talked to some people. Some of 'em cared and some of 'em didn't. The ones who cared actually responded for the sake of conversation.
But I didn't get mad. I know people don't care about me. That doesn't make me bad person.
So be aware
#ideas #blog #thinking
@thoughts_wave
Don't be around those who don't give a sh*t about you
Because you lose your confidence, hopes and ambitions.
Your self-confidence will automatically go down and you'll feel worthless. Actually you're a great person in a professional life or in terms of manner.
Be around people whose interests are similar to you and who care about what you say.
Then you're gonna improve
Don't let toxic people enter your life.
#ideas #blog #thinking
@thoughts_wave
Because you lose your confidence, hopes and ambitions.
Your self-confidence will automatically go down and you'll feel worthless. Actually you're a great person in a professional life or in terms of manner.
Be around people whose interests are similar to you and who care about what you say.
You need to be with the ones who is on the level you're trying
Then you're gonna improve
Don't let toxic people enter your life.
You're gonna decide how your future is gonna look like by choosing the right person at the right time.
#ideas #blog #thinking
@thoughts_wave
What to if you run out of things to say in a conversation?
If that happens to you, just don't talk. Aight? Get them talk
People like to talk about themselves, especially about their job or studies or interests
To get them talk, simply ask a question regarding their response. Keep in mind that, you're asking their opinion on something not yours. So listen to them. Look nowhere bu their faces
Ok, what's the benefit for u?
Firstly, you're gaining knowledge
Secondly, you're gaining their respect.
Thirdly, you're showcasing your good manner
...
That can help in different settings, in small chats with your co-workers or business partner or anybody who is human
Also, one more thing. You should express your ideas or beliefs when someone asks. Other times justshut up
Be a good person
#ideas #blog #thinking
@thoughts_wave
If that happens to you, just don't talk. Aight? Get them talk
People like to talk about themselves, especially about their job or studies or interests
To get them talk, simply ask a question regarding their response. Keep in mind that, you're asking their opinion on something not yours. So listen to them. Look nowhere bu their faces
Ok, what's the benefit for u?
Firstly, you're gaining knowledge
Secondly, you're gaining their respect.
Thirdly, you're showcasing your good manner
...
That can help in different settings, in small chats with your co-workers or business partner or anybody who is human
Also, one more thing. You should express your ideas or beliefs when someone asks. Other times just
Be a good person
#ideas #blog #thinking
@thoughts_wave
Break a large thing/task/goal into small parts
If you're aiming to run 5 km. Make each part 1 km and give any kinda reward to yourself. Reward is really a must.
In the end you don't even notice that you got there.
Eyes are timid. But you can deceive your eyes and mind.
You can apply when it comes to learning.
Then you will not stop even if you reach the finish.
@thoughts_wave
If you're aiming to run 5 km. Make each part 1 km and give any kinda reward to yourself. Reward is really a must.
In the end you don't even notice that you got there.
Eyes are timid. But you can deceive your eyes and mind.
You can apply when it comes to learning.
Bare in mind that, you have to prioritize the process not the finish
Then you will not stop even if you reach the finish.
@thoughts_wave
If you want to quit, just quit.
Remember what you're avoiding is what you really have to do.
If something looks scary to do and you're procrastinating, that thing can get you to the next level.
I, as an example, completed a course online. But I have revise it. It seems so scary to do and I don't want to do this.
But revising that is absolutely gonna take my career to the next level. I can get a job. Without that I can't do anything.
I understood what i really need. Even it is hard, i came to conclusions that I have to do it.
Don't skip it. Face it. Master it
@thoughts_wave
Remember what you're avoiding is what you really have to do.
If something looks scary to do and you're procrastinating, that thing can get you to the next level.
I, as an example, completed a course online. But I have revise it. It seems so scary to do and I don't want to do this.
But revising that is absolutely gonna take my career to the next level. I can get a job. Without that I can't do anything.
I understood what i really need. Even it is hard, i came to conclusions that I have to do it.
Don't skip it. Face it. Master it
@thoughts_wave
We just want to be happier than others.
If an individual has a house to live, food to eat and health, he is the happiest.
However, our eyes don't see that. We don't be thankful.
Instead we see others' money/luxury/...
Let me explain.
There are 3 boys. The first one has a ball, the rest doesn't. The first one is the happiest. But if you give a ball to rest, then the first do envy the others. But he has already gotten he wanted and needed. But he's not thankful.
This applies in every single situation in our lives.
So Be thankful
@thoughts_wave
If an individual has a house to live, food to eat and health, he is the happiest.
However, our eyes don't see that. We don't be thankful.
Instead we see others' money/luxury/...
Let me explain.
There are 3 boys. The first one has a ball, the rest doesn't. The first one is the happiest. But if you give a ball to rest, then the first do envy the others. But he has already gotten he wanted and needed. But he's not thankful.
This applies in every single situation in our lives.
So Be thankful
@thoughts_wave