Stop telling your fiends your plans
If you set new plans , never share them with anyone. You know why? Because after revealing your plans you might get pretty much all reward. The essence of achieving something is showcasing your results to the others. That actually constitutes 30 percent of success.
So what's the lesson? The lesson is never share your plans and goals with anyone such as your friends your family members. Ultimately, show them your results
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If you set new plans , never share them with anyone. You know why? Because after revealing your plans you might get pretty much all reward. The essence of achieving something is showcasing your results to the others. That actually constitutes 30 percent of success.
So what's the lesson? The lesson is never share your plans and goals with anyone such as your friends your family members. Ultimately, show them your results
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Life has upside and downs
From time to time, you woke up late than it is supposed to be. Because you stayed up all night long. You might feel yourself so bad that everyone is working on their own but you. During the day all the things go wrong. You don't get nothing done. You watch social media or play video games all day. You don't have a desire to do something. You feel like you're the worst thing in the world.
The day will be over. After that day you will recover yourself again. You can't change this day. But you will keep on track tomorrow. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't be miserable. You are the best human-being ever. Everyone has to go through these sort of days. Those days happens not quite often. So you have opportunity to make your tomorrow the best day or the most productive day ever.
Stay motivated
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From time to time, you woke up late than it is supposed to be. Because you stayed up all night long. You might feel yourself so bad that everyone is working on their own but you. During the day all the things go wrong. You don't get nothing done. You watch social media or play video games all day. You don't have a desire to do something. You feel like you're the worst thing in the world.
The day will be over. After that day you will recover yourself again. You can't change this day. But you will keep on track tomorrow. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't be miserable. You are the best human-being ever. Everyone has to go through these sort of days. Those days happens not quite often. So you have opportunity to make your tomorrow the best day or the most productive day ever.
Stay motivated
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Don't let any illness makes you weak
When you are feeling sick, you feel so bad. So you got no energy to get stuff done. Eventually you lost your motivation even to get up. In many cases your disease doesn't involve to lie on bed. So you still can do something. But you don't have a craving for that. At that time don't lose your discipline. Keep doing what you have to do like your habits that you wanna build. Ultimately you are gonna still keeping what you are doing. I mean don't make any excuses.
I'm also going through this situation. I am feeling so bad, I am out of energy. But I am gonna do the things on my to-do-list. I'm gonna stay motivated and determined.
My suggestion to everyone is that when you are making excuses, you are lying only yourself. So the lesson is that get up and do what you should be doing.
Stay consistent
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When you are feeling sick, you feel so bad. So you got no energy to get stuff done. Eventually you lost your motivation even to get up. In many cases your disease doesn't involve to lie on bed. So you still can do something. But you don't have a craving for that. At that time don't lose your discipline. Keep doing what you have to do like your habits that you wanna build. Ultimately you are gonna still keeping what you are doing. I mean don't make any excuses.
I'm also going through this situation. I am feeling so bad, I am out of energy. But I am gonna do the things on my to-do-list. I'm gonna stay motivated and determined.
My suggestion to everyone is that when you are making excuses, you are lying only yourself. So the lesson is that get up and do what you should be doing.
Stay consistent
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What is wrong with Instagram?
Let me explain you something. I just was going to have a break for 5 minutes. And I wanted to check my Instagram (not the app, on the web-site). I just was on my Instagram for like over 30 minutes. Before doing that I was full of energy. But Instagram affected me so badly. Watching that everybody is succeeding, travelling or doing what I want to do so much. I got depressed. My desire for studying just left me. I was feeling like I'm nothing, I'm not able to do that. At that time I just understood Instagram is really lying to me. Because all people are just showing off. So I not gonna take it so seriously. I'm not gonna lose my motivation. The biggest lesson is when you are actually trying to do something or building your future, never go to social media. Because social media tend to change your plans. The "plan" is just doing nothing. After social media you don't wanna do nothing. Social media make us brainwash.
Stay safe from that thing
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Let me explain you something. I just was going to have a break for 5 minutes. And I wanted to check my Instagram (not the app, on the web-site). I just was on my Instagram for like over 30 minutes. Before doing that I was full of energy. But Instagram affected me so badly. Watching that everybody is succeeding, travelling or doing what I want to do so much. I got depressed. My desire for studying just left me. I was feeling like I'm nothing, I'm not able to do that. At that time I just understood Instagram is really lying to me. Because all people are just showing off. So I not gonna take it so seriously. I'm not gonna lose my motivation. The biggest lesson is when you are actually trying to do something or building your future, never go to social media. Because social media tend to change your plans. The "plan" is just doing nothing. After social media you don't wanna do nothing. Social media make us brainwash.
Stay safe from that thing
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We have to prove to ourselves first.
Whenever we try to do something, we have to prove to ourselves that we can do that. Otherwise how come can we explain or show to the others? One example could be that you decided to wake up early in the morning from next Monday. But untill Monday if you never do that at least once, you never ever can't do that on Monday. So before setting your plans, always show that you are capable of doing that. By doing this you will know how to do this, then implementing that habit will be so easy. On the other hand, what if you don't do it untill Monday? You make you feel that you're piece of shit who can't even poop properly. So don't let yourself down. Ok?
Be man who actually keep their promises.
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Whenever we try to do something, we have to prove to ourselves that we can do that. Otherwise how come can we explain or show to the others? One example could be that you decided to wake up early in the morning from next Monday. But untill Monday if you never do that at least once, you never ever can't do that on Monday. So before setting your plans, always show that you are capable of doing that. By doing this you will know how to do this, then implementing that habit will be so easy. On the other hand, what if you don't do it untill Monday? You make you feel that you're piece of shit who can't even poop properly. So don't let yourself down. Ok?
Be man who actually keep their promises.
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If you feel lost ,then that's okay
You read the title. It's good to be lost. You feel kind of lost, you don't know what to do, how to do it, where to do it, or anything else. This means that you are actually trying to solve the problem or find the way.
Imagine you are in a dark room. Then you want to get out of that room. So you try to hold on to something else or try to find the door. That's when you feel lost. But as you can see, you are trying to solve the problem.
Imagine you are an adventurer. You are lost in the middle of the nowhere. You try to find the route with your map or something else. You look at this tree or that tree. You can even climb a tree to get a better view. You are still lost. But it's better than not trying to do anything.
So you get the idea. It's great to feel lost. You will find a solution soon. If you do nothing, you will never find a solution.
Don't worry about being lost. Don't get stressed or depressed. Enjoy the process of finding something or solving something. This is where most people lose motivation. But you read what the lost feeling is all about. A good luck to solve the problem.
Stay motivated
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You read the title. It's good to be lost. You feel kind of lost, you don't know what to do, how to do it, where to do it, or anything else. This means that you are actually trying to solve the problem or find the way.
Imagine you are in a dark room. Then you want to get out of that room. So you try to hold on to something else or try to find the door. That's when you feel lost. But as you can see, you are trying to solve the problem.
Imagine you are an adventurer. You are lost in the middle of the nowhere. You try to find the route with your map or something else. You look at this tree or that tree. You can even climb a tree to get a better view. You are still lost. But it's better than not trying to do anything.
So you get the idea. It's great to feel lost. You will find a solution soon. If you do nothing, you will never find a solution.
Don't worry about being lost. Don't get stressed or depressed. Enjoy the process of finding something or solving something. This is where most people lose motivation. But you read what the lost feeling is all about. A good luck to solve the problem.
Stay motivated
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Stop pretending you're important
You just pretend yourself that you're doing an important stuff. Actually you're not! You just do that on purpose, you just get serious and you thing of something else or you just pretend you care. Don't make me laugh, man! Nobody cares about you and they don't give a shit about you. So just be yourself. Do your own stuff.
Real man doesn't show that he is doing his commitment and responsibilities. He act like he don't do nothing. But you are supposed to behave in a way a real man do.
Be yourself
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You just pretend yourself that you're doing an important stuff. Actually you're not! You just do that on purpose, you just get serious and you thing of something else or you just pretend you care. Don't make me laugh, man! Nobody cares about you and they don't give a shit about you. So just be yourself. Do your own stuff.
Real man doesn't show that he is doing his commitment and responsibilities. He act like he don't do nothing. But you are supposed to behave in a way a real man do.
Be yourself
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Standing out is now easy
We live in the world that modern technology is reducing physical effort from people. With new technologies, individuals are getting lazy and lazy over and over again. The number of Obese people or people who are reluctant to do something are increasing right now. Teenagers get more lazy-bond or brainwashed day by day. They just play video games, overeat or something else instead of doing acquiring new stuff, knowledge or skill. The number people who are smart, leader or can actually get something done by their own are going down and down.
That's a pity. But you can take advantage of that. You can literally become unique by doing simple things that most people are reluctant to get it done. There are some things such as not being tired, doing exercises, gaining knowledge you can actually become unique by those thing. This is a great opportunity. Isn't it?
let the opportunity slip, my friend
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We live in the world that modern technology is reducing physical effort from people. With new technologies, individuals are getting lazy and lazy over and over again. The number of Obese people or people who are reluctant to do something are increasing right now. Teenagers get more lazy-bond or brainwashed day by day. They just play video games, overeat or something else instead of doing acquiring new stuff, knowledge or skill. The number people who are smart, leader or can actually get something done by their own are going down and down.
That's a pity. But you can take advantage of that. You can literally become unique by doing simple things that most people are reluctant to get it done. There are some things such as not being tired, doing exercises, gaining knowledge you can actually become unique by those thing. This is a great opportunity. Isn't it?
let the opportunity slip, my friend
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Don't argue whether you are right or wrong.
You might perceive that most people never admit that they have got wrong opinions. So arguing something with them don't make any sense. If you know 100 % of the topic or you are an expert at that, majority of people never accept. You don't have to give evidence or proof. Just agree with them. They everybody is happy. This might prevent you from losing your nerves. If you agree with them even thought they are wrong, nothing is going to change absolutely. So let stupid people win the argument .
In the case that you are incorrect learn to confess your mistake, man! You just accept the harsh truth and you correct your mistake. This all comes from admitting your mistake.
Just don't be stupid
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You might perceive that most people never admit that they have got wrong opinions. So arguing something with them don't make any sense. If you know 100 % of the topic or you are an expert at that, majority of people never accept. You don't have to give evidence or proof. Just agree with them. They everybody is happy. This might prevent you from losing your nerves. If you agree with them even thought they are wrong, nothing is going to change absolutely. So let stupid people win the argument .
In the case that you are incorrect learn to confess your mistake, man! You just accept the harsh truth and you correct your mistake. This all comes from admitting your mistake.
Just don't be stupid
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General knowledge is way more crucial
You are in the situation that You have to approach hard problem and then you approach based on your experience, knowledge in a nutshell what you know. If you see the problem from diverse range of perspectives, you might come up with the most practical solution. You think in different ways. For example you are the boss of a company. you have to make a decision which fits for everyone. So you got to think as a simple employee, manager, cleaner staff or CEO of that company. Then you will come up with a great solution. In order to think as any kind of people, you have to have at least basic knowledge of that field. You don't have to be an expert of that job or subject at least you should understand how things work in general.
I think you get the idea of why general knowledge is important. But others might say that you don't have to know other things and just focus on one subject. It's true that being best at certain career is also important. But remember being master at something leads to be great worker and being well-rounded leads to be more creative, leader and any kind of skill.
So just don't ignore other things, at least learn one thing
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You are in the situation that You have to approach hard problem and then you approach based on your experience, knowledge in a nutshell what you know. If you see the problem from diverse range of perspectives, you might come up with the most practical solution. You think in different ways. For example you are the boss of a company. you have to make a decision which fits for everyone. So you got to think as a simple employee, manager, cleaner staff or CEO of that company. Then you will come up with a great solution. In order to think as any kind of people, you have to have at least basic knowledge of that field. You don't have to be an expert of that job or subject at least you should understand how things work in general.
I think you get the idea of why general knowledge is important. But others might say that you don't have to know other things and just focus on one subject. It's true that being best at certain career is also important. But remember being master at something leads to be great worker and being well-rounded leads to be more creative, leader and any kind of skill.
So just don't ignore other things, at least learn one thing
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"I'll just do that later"
Do you remember this? You say it literally everytime when you are about to do something. This is the greatest lie you have ever told yourself. When there are lots of stuff to do, but you put that off easily down the line. Then you never gonna do it later.
We think we are going to do all the stuff we should be doing right now in the future which is fake. And then now we have got "free time".
Let's face to reality . Don't anymore lie to yourself. Just get this done right now. Then you get satisfied with your work and then you are gonna be fine.
Another thing I need to say is that when you have to do tons of things, begin with the hardest one. Then Ultimately you finish you to-do-list first time ever. Additionally don't make to-do-list long. Just make it brief and prioritize.
Stay focused and disciplined
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Do you remember this? You say it literally everytime when you are about to do something. This is the greatest lie you have ever told yourself. When there are lots of stuff to do, but you put that off easily down the line. Then you never gonna do it later.
We think we are going to do all the stuff we should be doing right now in the future which is fake. And then now we have got "free time".
Let's face to reality . Don't anymore lie to yourself. Just get this done right now. Then you get satisfied with your work and then you are gonna be fine.
Another thing I need to say is that when you have to do tons of things, begin with the hardest one. Then Ultimately you finish you to-do-list first time ever. Additionally don't make to-do-list long. Just make it brief and prioritize.
Stay focused and disciplined
@thoughts_wave
Don't be stressed about your future
You get literally overwhelmed so easily. Because you always worry about your future. You just have concerns like " What if I fail" or " What if I can't do that". In 99% cases that's not gonna happen.
Just do the job you can possibly do. And other things that you can't influence just going to happen based on your effort. Because hard work always pays off. So when you are putting effort in that , you are gonna be successful but you don't know when it's going to happen. Just what you should do is just to show your whole potential. Your hard work never let you down, man!
There is no such a thing like luck. Success comes from hard work.
Stay tuned
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You get literally overwhelmed so easily. Because you always worry about your future. You just have concerns like " What if I fail" or " What if I can't do that". In 99% cases that's not gonna happen.
Just do the job you can possibly do. And other things that you can't influence just going to happen based on your effort. Because hard work always pays off. So when you are putting effort in that , you are gonna be successful but you don't know when it's going to happen. Just what you should do is just to show your whole potential. Your hard work never let you down, man!
There is no such a thing like luck. Success comes from hard work.
Stay tuned
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The only person who cares about you is your mom
When you're in a difficult situation or get in trouble, only your mom listens to you by all her ears. She likes you from bottom of her heart even you hurt her feelings. None helps you but your mom. So don't take for granted these kind of memories with your mom. Ahh man! How many times have you hurt her today? I bet at least more than one time. Just look at the people who their mom passed away. Their lives are meaningless without their mom.
So right now reach out her and say that you love her. Just don't be shy. This is not a situation for being shy.
Tell your mom you love her
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When you're in a difficult situation or get in trouble, only your mom listens to you by all her ears. She likes you from bottom of her heart even you hurt her feelings. None helps you but your mom. So don't take for granted these kind of memories with your mom. Ahh man! How many times have you hurt her today? I bet at least more than one time. Just look at the people who their mom passed away. Their lives are meaningless without their mom.
So right now reach out her and say that you love her. Just don't be shy. This is not a situation for being shy.
Tell your mom you love her
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Social skills
Everyone needs social skills such as communication skills, leadership skills. Whatever your job is eventually you gotta have that skills. There is a reason for that. Thounds of people graduate a university then jobs are competetive. So Hiring companies don't want simple workers, they need workers who are creative, leader, sociable. So be active. If there is an active worker who is on average and there is a worker who is genius, companies are more likely to choose first student. So you got that point
Just be an active person. Work on your social skills
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Everyone needs social skills such as communication skills, leadership skills. Whatever your job is eventually you gotta have that skills. There is a reason for that. Thounds of people graduate a university then jobs are competetive. So Hiring companies don't want simple workers, they need workers who are creative, leader, sociable. So be active. If there is an active worker who is on average and there is a worker who is genius, companies are more likely to choose first student. So you got that point
Just be an active person. Work on your social skills
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Admitting is way more hard to people
When you have done or have said something wrong, you don't want to admit that. Even though when you are pretty sure you're absolutely not right, you simply don't confess. Just stop that right there when you know that.
People don't want to be humiliated in public so they simply don't acknowledge that what they have done is wrong. So now what? they start lying about their actions or something. If you admit your action, you are gonna be fine and you don't have to justify over and over again unless it reveals. I know it sucks. But at that point you feel bad but then things are gonna be so much easier.
Be responsible for your actions
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When you have done or have said something wrong, you don't want to admit that. Even though when you are pretty sure you're absolutely not right, you simply don't confess. Just stop that right there when you know that.
People don't want to be humiliated in public so they simply don't acknowledge that what they have done is wrong. So now what? they start lying about their actions or something. If you admit your action, you are gonna be fine and you don't have to justify over and over again unless it reveals. I know it sucks. But at that point you feel bad but then things are gonna be so much easier.
Be responsible for your actions
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How to find the passion?
You've got something that you have been avoiding doing that for the past months or years now. You suck at that thing and You don't want to try to learn. That thing is your truly passion and is the reason why things are not going pretty well. So go get better at that thing right now at least try! Then that thing is going to become your passion. Because you are getting better over and over again and also you can benefit from that.
The passion is something that you are really good at in most cases. You obtain that level of knowledge it's just because of you love that thing
Do what you're reluctant to do most
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You've got something that you have been avoiding doing that for the past months or years now. You suck at that thing and You don't want to try to learn. That thing is your truly passion and is the reason why things are not going pretty well. So go get better at that thing right now at least try! Then that thing is going to become your passion. Because you are getting better over and over again and also you can benefit from that.
The passion is something that you are really good at in most cases. You obtain that level of knowledge it's just because of you love that thing
Do what you're reluctant to do most
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Do you want people to hear you?
First of all, ask some questions from yourself. Can you really express yourself or your ideas good enough? Why do people listen to someone who can't give the main point or something important? Well, do you really deserve that people listen to you? I mean would you listen to yourself if you were in their case? The answer to all of them is probably no.
So how we deal with it is that first you should learn to express yourself in a way people understand what you're pointing.
Now what? What you should do is just being a good listener . Now you should listen to them and you should not be interrupting while they're speaking or you just have to pay all your attention for them. Then people start to listen to you because of you listened to them first.
Stay tuned
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First of all, ask some questions from yourself. Can you really express yourself or your ideas good enough? Why do people listen to someone who can't give the main point or something important? Well, do you really deserve that people listen to you? I mean would you listen to yourself if you were in their case? The answer to all of them is probably no.
So how we deal with it is that first you should learn to express yourself in a way people understand what you're pointing.
Now what? What you should do is just being a good listener . Now you should listen to them and you should not be interrupting while they're speaking or you just have to pay all your attention for them. Then people start to listen to you because of you listened to them first.
Stay tuned
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What's the key to make friends?
In order to make friends just start the conversation first by saying hello or hi or you can have small talk. Small talk could be about whether or depends on the situation.
For example, you are new in university. To make friends just reach out any student who you find it good to have a conversation with him or her. Then just say " Hello how are you? What's your major or what's your test score ? So he/she responds and everything is gonna be alright.
Then just listen to their stories even it's boring. I mean, you have to listen carefully what they say to you. Then in order to show you care, you just can ask some questions about them.
The important thing is that never ever talk about yourself. Even thought you feel that they care . They just actually pretend to care. Just don't talk about your life. Always ask questions about them and listen. By doing that you can prove that you are really a good listener and you could the best friend of them
Additional points is coming soon
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In order to make friends just start the conversation first by saying hello or hi or you can have small talk. Small talk could be about whether or depends on the situation.
For example, you are new in university. To make friends just reach out any student who you find it good to have a conversation with him or her. Then just say " Hello how are you? What's your major or what's your test score ? So he/she responds and everything is gonna be alright.
Then just listen to their stories even it's boring. I mean, you have to listen carefully what they say to you. Then in order to show you care, you just can ask some questions about them.
The important thing is that never ever talk about yourself. Even thought you feel that they care . They just actually pretend to care. Just don't talk about your life. Always ask questions about them and listen. By doing that you can prove that you are really a good listener and you could the best friend of them
Additional points is coming soon
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Expect nothing from nobody
You have a friend. He or she is your close friend. He always talk to you or say something secret to you. But this time he or she didn't do something that he always do and you get mad about him or her. So do you really need to end this relationship? If something like this happens to you, you don't only get mad about him or her, but also you feel worthless. This affect your mental health. In a nutshell this is bad for you.
So expect just nothing. And you're gonna be happy not disappointed.
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You have a friend. He or she is your close friend. He always talk to you or say something secret to you. But this time he or she didn't do something that he always do and you get mad about him or her. So do you really need to end this relationship? If something like this happens to you, you don't only get mad about him or her, but also you feel worthless. This affect your mental health. In a nutshell this is bad for you.
So expect just nothing. And you're gonna be happy not disappointed.
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Consistency is a key to success
The most challenging thing to achieve something is just doing that thing constantly. This is where everyone gives up.
So you have motivation or desire to do something that you were thinking of. Then you do that 2 or 3 days or 1 week and now what? it's over. Because you put so much effort in that in the initial period which is the 1st or the 2nd or even fourth time and you are now reluctant to it and you are unwilling to do that. What was your mistake that led to unwillingness? There is concept that 30-30 which you do that 30 minutes in 30 days . Not that much alright? Then you start gradually increase over time. Even it's less than a hour that's powerful and easy to do. In 30 days you can become master at some point.
For example, one salient example could be language learners. They struggle to memorize new words. The same method applies to memorizing words. If you learned words too much in one day . Eventually tomorrow you won't do this. To address this issue you can use space repetition method which is consistent studying. You don't have to memorize 100 words every day. You just do 30-40 but you gotta memorize and revise it each day.
So stay updated
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The most challenging thing to achieve something is just doing that thing constantly. This is where everyone gives up.
So you have motivation or desire to do something that you were thinking of. Then you do that 2 or 3 days or 1 week and now what? it's over. Because you put so much effort in that in the initial period which is the 1st or the 2nd or even fourth time and you are now reluctant to it and you are unwilling to do that. What was your mistake that led to unwillingness? There is concept that 30-30 which you do that 30 minutes in 30 days . Not that much alright? Then you start gradually increase over time. Even it's less than a hour that's powerful and easy to do. In 30 days you can become master at some point.
For example, one salient example could be language learners. They struggle to memorize new words. The same method applies to memorizing words. If you learned words too much in one day . Eventually tomorrow you won't do this. To address this issue you can use space repetition method which is consistent studying. You don't have to memorize 100 words every day. You just do 30-40 but you gotta memorize and revise it each day.
So stay updated
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When you promise, do it
Once you promised something to someone, you have to do this. Otherwise you lose people's trust which is not ok. If you blow off, nobody is going to take your sayings seriously. This can affect your life and social status. I've noticed something that most people are intended to not do what they said when they are promising. Consequently God make that difficult to do that promise. Because God says that's what you wanted. So always try to do what you promised whenever.
Be a real human-being
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Once you promised something to someone, you have to do this. Otherwise you lose people's trust which is not ok. If you blow off, nobody is going to take your sayings seriously. This can affect your life and social status. I've noticed something that most people are intended to not do what they said when they are promising. Consequently God make that difficult to do that promise. Because God says that's what you wanted. So always try to do what you promised whenever.
Be a real human-being
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