I know you are trying your best. To move on. To grow. To be patient with yourself and with the world. And I just want to let you know that I am proud of you. That I admire the way you wake up. Everyday. And grab all the bullshit by the balls and let it know you are not done.
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No one ever wants to lose someone they love. But it is an essential part of life. You are bound to lose someone. Someone you always thought would be around. Someone you love. Someone you need. Someone you wish had stayed around a little longer. Loss is inevitable.
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i don’t ever want you to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. whether it’s a family member, a partner, a childhood friend, or even a new one; stop making room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. you deserve everything, okay?
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Maybe you have always been a fool. Because you believe too much in people. In love. In communication. Honesty. Or maybe you're just too naive to realize sometimes how much people are only in it for themselves.
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honestly, if u know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow into their lives.
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The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.
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your growth is not always visible to others and it's okay. you are still growing. you have healed from everything that used to trigger you, that is growth. you are always available for yourself, that is growth. you know who you need to protect your peace from, that is growth.
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u break, u fall u cry, u made bad decisions but u are still learning and the progress you've made so far is everything. your progress is yours and it's not supposed to be compared with theirs. u are on right path and your journey is yours, have faith in yourself and keep moving.
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🛈 this is your reminder to not let your loneliness make you choose toxic people.
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it's okay to be an untold story. you get to write ur story everyday the way you want to. you are allowed to feel every part. your phases are chapters of your story and there's so much more to your story than you express. you think your story is a mess and worthless but it's unique, special and beautiful in every way.
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Intimacy is not just about physical presence and touch.. it’s about randomly texting at 3am and talking about your dreams, insecurities and fears, it’s about connection, trust and vibes.
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compliments about your appearance are nice‚ but when somebody compliments you as a person, the way you think‚ your laugh‚ your personality‚ how genuine your heart is‚ that hits different.
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She was beautiful, but not like those girls in magazines and movies. She was beautiful , for the way she thought. She was beautiful for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful for her ability to make other people smile even if she was upset. No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful for the innocence she had. She was beautiful, deep down her soul :)
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stop chasing after people & being the only one trying to fix everything. it’s mentally & physically exhausting. you have to find peace with whoever comes & goes from your life. don’t be the only one putting in effort because you will end up losing yourself trying to save everyone else
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Learn to accept people for who they are and where they are — and leave them there. Rather than have more faith in the potential of who they can become; until someone actually shows you their growth, accept their actions and who they are actually showing you they are.
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please romanticize your life. go on solo dates, read in coffee shops, buy yourself some flowers, wake up at 6 am and workout, prioritise yourself, cook yourself some dinner. it will bring you happiness i promise. not for people to see but just for yourself!
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