You know, sometimes the hardest part is giving yourself the green light to move forward, especially when the weight of the past still lingers. It's like having a key to a door you're scared to open. But here's the thing: moving on is a journey that's meant to be taken at your own pace, a pace that suits your heart's readiness. And you might be surprised, but it's okay to start healing even if those words you long for, those words of apology, never come your way. It's like walking through a path shrouded in uncertainty, hoping for an explanation that might never arrive. Healing doesn't always need the closure we imagine; it's about finding closure within yourself. The truth is, we often hold onto the hope that they'll see the pain they've caused and acknowledge it with an apology. But sometimes, that closure doesn't come. It's a silent ache that resonates deeply within, like an unfinished melody. Yet, even in the absence of their words of remorse, you have the power to write your own ending. You have the strength to heal, to piece your heart back together, and to step forward into a future you're sculpting for yourself. So, yes, it hurts. It stings to not hear the apology you deserve, the closure you crave. But remember, you're not defined by their actions or their lack of words. Your healing journey is your own, and it's about finding the strength to mend and grow, even when the path ahead is uncertain and the apologies remain unspoken.

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India becomes the first country in the world to land on the south pole of the moon. Fourth country after the USA, Russia and China to land on the surface of the moon.

Congratulations India 🇮🇳❤️

Remember the name; ISRO (Indian Space Research Organisation) 🫡

if you're a giver then remember your limits, because the takers don't have any.

they ask me about the calmness, but they never ask about the storms I had to go through. no matter how much i wanted to be held, no one was there, i had to suffer, i had to feel every painful memory and yet, put a smile on my face. i had to accept it, i only had myself and i learned that i was enough.

may those silent battles hang proud in the museum of our greatest triumphs : )

stuck in a generation where loyalty is just a tattoo. love is just a social media post. happiness is a myth. lying has become the new normal. and being fake is a lifestyle.

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If they were really "the one." Then you wouldn't be spending so many sleepless nights overthinking about why they're gone.

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May you fall a little more in love with yourself. May you fall more in love with those that lift you up. Maybe you fall in love with a song, a painting, or some words that resonate so deeply. Maybe you fall in love with a sunrise, a cool winters day, or a quiet cosy evening at home. May you fall in love with the sounds of children playing, the smell of a daisy or dinner cooking on the stove. Love doesn't always have to be with a significant other. Fall in love with life. With the small things. With the everyday moments. There is so much to love in this life, sometimes you just need to know where to look.

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as long as I didn't do anything wrong. i don't care if we never speak again.

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physical appearances really don’t matter because once u start loving someone they no longer look like a person they just look like love to u

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you are not a burden if you are taking time to heal yourself. you are not sensitive if you feel everything. you are not weak if you have a kind and soft heart. you are not selfish if you set boundaries to protect your peace. you are not cold hearted if you are often quiet.

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Once you start loving and valuing yourself, people will no longer look good to you unless they are actually good for you. That’s growth..

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OVERTHINKERS, read this


1. That story ain't real.

None of it. That fear, insecurity, and that imaginary story you're obsessing about, it's all in your head. Every time you find yourself in that story, dragggggg yourself to the present.


2. You don't know

Accept it. You're going crazy jumping to conclusions about a thing that isn't even there. Sometimes it's okay to just accept and tell yourself "i don't know".


3. What if, what if

Overthinking is a longgggg chain of what ifs. What if that happens, what if it doesn't work, what if i fail, what if. Don't complicate it. Take a breath, you'll be fine.


4. Zoooom out

In the bigger frame of things, what you're obsessing about doesn't even matter. Try, fail, fall, learn and get back up again. That's life, live it.


5. Meditate / Workout

Thoughts ain't leaving you? Sit at a quiet place and take 10 long deep breaths. Meditate or Workout. It really helps.


6. Do one thing well

Make a to-do list. Write down two or three things that you need to do. Do them one by one. You don't have to do everything. Just do one thing well. Life is long. You'll make it.


7. Enjoy the ride

Life is full of ups and downs. Obsessing about every little thing won't fix it. When it's sunshine, have fun. When it's dark and stormy, let it pass. Life is change, keep moving and you'll be ok.


8. Be Disciplined

To heal yourself, fix your old toxic patterns and achieve what you choose to focus on


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once you betray me, you lose that version you once had of me forever. whether i choose to forgive you or not, you'll never get that same me again and it's not even intentional.. my heart won’t view you the same, my soul won't tolerate you the same & my mind won't ever forget it.

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That's the one thing
you have to understand.
If it was really meant to be.
Then it would have been.
Nothing more. Nothing less.
And nothing in-between.

I just hope it doesn't take you
a lifetime to understand this.

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one thing about GOD. when he sees you trying your best he surely will handle the rest. have faith.

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The most powerful way to heal someone is to listen. Don’t think or judge just listen. People start to heal the moment they feel heard. You can’t be a healer if you refuse to step outside of your own emotions and view things entirely from the perspective of the other person..

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Always pray for alignment. To be at the right place, doing the right thing, at the right time, around the right people, which will eventually help you reach where you want to be.

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If you have to consistently fight for someone to see your worth / treat you the way you deserve, it does not matter how much they claim to love you, don’t settle. There is always a love that will be ready. To honor, to cherish and to value you in the ways you’ve always dreamed. Be patient until you find it

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Instead of feeling like you're behind, feel grateful for each setback you've had in your life and each lesson you have learned along the way. Be grateful for each relationship and what you were able to learn about yourself through falling in and out of love. Feel proud of how strong you have become from each time you were left to put the pieces of your broken heart back together. Be grateful that you learned that you will heal again no matter what you go through. Some people never find this strength. You should be proud that you learned how to recognize and move on from situations that are no longer good for you. You might feel like you are behind, but when you really think about it, everything you have been through has made you the person you are now. Your experience is your strength, and you shouldn't wish to change that for anything.

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