so if you're having tough situations around, it might be an indication that you'll outgrow them to become the best version of yourself. all you got to do is trust the process and keep working hard. the path might seem blurry but the aim should always be crystal clear in ur head👍

Today
Let this pain
Go through your vein
Until it drives you
completely insane

Because
no real growth
Takes without
A little rain

Let this agony
Ignite a fire
in every part
of your heart
and brain

And then
Get up to
Fight again.

you don't really heal until you decide that you want to heal. healing is not something that just comes at you..you have to seek it out. accept that you need it and then do the work. it needs efforts.

i have a sad story too.
no one cares! keep working harder.

good things
come to those
who wait hustle.

Sometimes people leave your life and that is it. They don't come back and you don't get the apology that you wanted and there's nothing more to the relationship that you shared beyond that point. Sometimes people leave, not to come back but to make room for others who are yet to come into your life. And you must accept their departure as an end of everything between you two - even if you didn't want things to end this way. Sometimes one thing needs to end before another can begin. One chapter needs to close before you can start a new one. One person needs to leave before another can enter. One heart needs to leave before another can mend. And that is the only way you can look at it without letting it break you :)

the answer is NO. you don't deserve to be ignored. you don't deserve to be put last. you don't deserve to be disrespected. you don't deserve to be constantly put down. so yes, the answer is NO. they don't deserve another chance. they just don't.

you ask what I've been doing all this time as if surviving wasn't much of an effort.

making someone feel seen, heard, understood and safe is the loudest way to love them.

breathe! things happen. and this isn't what you planned, but it is happening anyway. so let it unfold, and try to navigate your way through it. it's okay if you struggle, because this isn't something you could have prepared for. but try. try your best, but also, be easy on yourself. you will get through this, but you must support yourself through it. do not give up on yourself, and know, that it will pass, and that you will make it out of this.

trust me..it will be all worth the struggle, the wait, the sacrifices and the hard work. just stay disciplined and loyal to yourself.

it's never too late. there is always time to restart, and to give it another go. to try the same thing again, or to try something new. don't ruin your chances, by convincing yourself that you have passed your time, because you can begin now, you can begin tomorrow, and whenever you do, it will be the right time, it will not be too late.

too busy loving myself that I hardly worry about whether I'm your cup of tea or not. sip on that cutie!

A productivity app won't fix your lack of focus unless you want to do it.

A fitness tracker won't fix your lack of effort unless you want to do it.

A self-help book won't fix your lack of action unless you want to do it.


--Stop trying to fix internal problems with external solutions.

its okay to not want people around you all the time no matter how close they are to you. sometimes solitude is the only friend you need. and that doesn't mean you are anti-social or a negative person. sometimes the soul craves a quietness that is healing for both mind and body.

to avoid disappointments ; take people or situations as they are and not what they could be.

not all wounds are the same. some will heal faster than others. while others will take a lifetime to heal. and then there are those we never heal from. the ones we learn how to live with. and the one we carry with us every where we go. that's life.

Solve the problem or leave the problem. Don't live with the problem.

It takes years to be comfortable in your own skin. Decades. A lifetime. So feel it. Don't be ashamed of yourself. Of your body. Of your feelings. Be you. And do not give into the anxieties of life. Do not give into your insecurities. You've been through wars. Through hell and back to be where you are. So don't let anyone make you feel any less. You know who you are.

I have reached a point in my life where nothing hurts me as badly as it used to. Things happen, you get hurt, people leave, and hearts get broken - but life goes on. I have built a wall around me using nothing but self-love and that is why when things go wrong, I am no longer affected. I love myself enough now to know my worth, and that means not crying about someone who did not love me enough to stay, or fight for me when they should have, is the shadow that test day of the year.
I used to be the kind of person who would be affected by the smallest things, despite having undergone so much in such a short period of time. And now, I cannot shed a single tear. This is not because I have become numb, but because I know no one is worth my tears. I used to think that nothing gets better, and that things can only get worse and some of us are destined for just pain.. But I was wrong. Things do get better and that is all I keep close to me now. The tiniest glimmer of hope and possibility- the fact that there is always light at the end of the tunnel and no matter what anyone says, things get better with time. Believe me, they do.

it feels like the biggest loss, but trust me when I say that it is not your loss if you lose someone who doesn't give a fuck about you at any instant. be calm. be composed. trust the process. it is better to be alone than running after someone who doesn't value you. better things will come. focus on improving your own life.