it's ok to choose quietness over disturbing your own peace by arguing. it's ok to say no without explaining. it's ok to distance yourself from people who feed on your energy. it's ok to not give everyone access to your heart. it's ok to lose people over tolerating disrespect.
@TheLostDiary
@TheLostDiary
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pinterest is so therapeutic. there’s no drama, no one to argue with...just pretty pictures.
shout out to people who are quiet about everything, working hard for their dreams everyday, unlearning everything that isn't helping them grow. people who are evolving without hurting others. people who are sharing genuine love and kindness of their hearts. you deserve the world.
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sometimes when you slow down to look within, you become unstoppable. when you spend time with yourself, you heal. when you see the clarity, you become stronger and more stable. when you genuinely talk to yourself, you realise u have all the missing pieces you've been looking for.
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normalise disagreement. not everyone has the energy to argue. some are at peace with disagreement because they prefer peace over explaining everything.
Intimacy is not about touching.. it’s about randomly texting at 3am and talking about your dreams and fears, it’s about connections and vibes
maybe some of us are just quiet for no reason, and we aren't running away from ourselves, neither we're trying to find ourselves because we aren't lost. we feel comfortable in quiet places, maybe we are weird because we talk to the sky and for us every sunset is a different story
somedays are like that when you are not sad but you are just quiet, when you are not angry or pissed but you just don't want to interact with anyone. u just want to sit quietly with nature and watch the sky or listen to flowing water. somedays u just want everything to slow down.
If ur single & you have no desire to connect w/anyone on a intimate level..it means this time is for you. For you to create, for you to heal, for you to find & discover more about yourself. Don't force any connections...ur time to love again will come. Remember love is patient
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the war that exists in your head, is not just anger, frustration, fear and darkness. it's light, it's hope, it's dreams, its love, feelings and emotions. you just cannot be judged on the basis of phases you have survived. you are growing, learning and evolving every single day.
One thing I’ve observed in toxic relationships is how much the victim of the toxicity relies on bare minimum. You know they aren’t giving you the love you deserve but you justify their actions just because they showed minimum affection and acted like they cared about you.
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shout out to people who survived bad days, different phases and situations, those who messed things up, those who were misunderstood, but didn't lose their good parts. I'm so proud of you. your good parts will always be your strength and it will always be the best thing about u.
your best version was used, mistreated, taken for granted but still you didn't let your authentic self die and that is what matters most. u didn't lose your kindness and your pure intentions. once nothing was making sense but u were still u. that is something u should be proud of
Be careful who you allow in your life when you're hurting..vulnerability can open your heart and mind to the same toxicity that you left.. heal first.
If you want to block someone, block their ability to trigger you.