it's okay to be an untold story. u get to write ur story everyday the way u want to. u are allowed to feel every part. ur phases are chapters of your story and there's so much more to your story than u express. u think ur story is a mess but it's unique and special in every way.

wow //

love is so much more than just romance. it is not just showing up when you are lonely, it is a connection meant to move freely. rethink a love that is constantly hurting you and trying to break you emotionally. it can never be love. love is meant to make you grow as a person.

slow down. be patient with yourself. you are going in the right direction. you are growing, you are evolving. your presence is beautiful. making yourself happy is a sign of your progress. it's okay to be in this moment rather than torturing yourself to find your great purpose.

Being so balanced and aligned that nothing can fuck with your vibe is a superpower.

its okay to not want people around you all the time no matter how close they are to you. sometimes solitude is the only friend you need. and that doesn't mean you are anti-social or a negative person. sometimes the soul craves a quietness that is healing for both mind and body.

Your apology needs to be as loud as your disrespect was.

show empathy and kindness for no reason. be a good person for no reason. smile and laugh for no reason. flaunt the kind parts of you. make someone smile for no reason. the world needs your random kind gestures, the world needs people who love deeply despite their broken hearts.

Never look back in anger, or forward with fear but always look around in awareness. Pay attention..

your growth is not always visible to others and it's okay. you are still growing. you have healed from everything that used to trigger you, that is growth. you are always available for yourself, that is growth. you know who you need to protect your peace from, that is growth.

Please be patient with those who have anxiety. They say sorry a lot because they're genuinely afraid they've insulted you somehow. They ask if they're annoying , they say things are 'awkward' because they can be uncomfortable in any situation, no matter who with, ....they don't mean to personally hurt you . They cry, not because they're looking for attention but because sometimes people and situations are too much. They don't text you a lot because they're clingy, it's because if you don't reply, they think they've done something wrong ..
They can be set off by little things so don't say they're overreacting when they panic. Please be patient with those who have anxiety. They only mean the best.

How is a baby 9 months old in the womb but when they are born its reset??? 🤔

just wondering..

it's ok to choose quietness over disturbing your own peace by arguing. it's ok to say no without explaining. it's ok to distance yourself from people who feed on your energy. it's ok to not give everyone access to your heart. it's ok to lose people over tolerating disrespect.


@TheLostDiary

pinterest is so therapeutic. there’s no drama, no one to argue with...just pretty pictures.

shout out to people who are quiet about everything, working hard for their dreams everyday, unlearning everything that isn't helping them grow. people who are evolving without hurting others. people who are sharing genuine love and kindness of their hearts. you deserve the world.