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would you say you’re a good friend?
- i hope so. yes. i hope my friends agree with this too ahah but i know that if i consider someone “my person” circle, then ill do anything to protect/help/understand them. and i really love giving presents too, little presents. usually at work (remembered i dont do this for my outside of work friends lol). cuz im really bad, terrible, at expressing my feelings (and im not a touchy person either), for my its easier to just give smth. or cook smth for them.
but again im not sure. i dont usually text or call my friends and we meet up once a month at best. but once we do meet we usually spend several hours updating each other on what happens in the meantime.
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oh and again about that looong message about following and stuff, sorry if it came off as mad or frustrated. i read it and it sounded angry even to myself and I WROTE IT😂 i wrote it with nothing but admiration and Женственное количество
- no worries
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if u r not let’s fix it then
- ahahah no. i’m fine on my own.
but if i talk seriously.
i did think about this topic for the past few days.
and i just realized that i just wanna be with sm1 that i know it can grow into smth serious. like, to skip all this talking and chatting stuff, so that i can just focus on this one person and know we both want the same thing. i really dont wanna talk to guys at this point.
just find me a husband lol.
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With whom do you usually advice before making the decisions?
- depends. i used to discuss work and future related questions with Dad before, but i stopped at some point. i had one good friend, a serious working guy, but stopped that too.
so i think rn its just me and my thoughts. you know they say “make decisions based on who you wanna become”, i think its a good piece of advice really.
recently i was listening to this podcast by Emma Grede where she was talking about an “inner mentor”, ur 30yo version, to whom you can reach out to when you dont know what to do.
and i loved this idea so much cuz i usually do that. what would my wiser version do? what would the version that i admire do? what version of myself would i respect more in this situation?
and overall i think especially if you’re a girl, you may tend to search for others approval before making big steps.
i used to be like that for a long time.
even if i knew what was the right next move, i needed sm1 to approve it, esp a male. so i would ask my male friends for advice when in reality i was just scared probably. so i was outsourcing decision making.
yeah
usually a lot of the times you can derive the best decisions if you sit down and clear up ur mind properly.
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What qualities usually help people to step up in a workplace?
- taking responsibility. not being afraid to take more work than others.
i think you should just show that you’re dedicated to learning and growing. not just coming and doing whatever tasks you were given.
over time people will know who’s the most reliable person in the team when it comes to more important responsibilities.
but then, if you have the right environment that rewards such behavior. some places just dont let you grow and you should know when to leave.
but still, i do believe every workplace is an opportunity to learn smth.
be it specific technical matters or smth more social.
would you say you’re a good friend?
- i hope so. yes. i hope my friends agree with this too ahah but i know that if i consider someone “my person” circle, then ill do anything to protect/help/understand them. and i really love giving presents too, little presents. usually at work (remembered i dont do this for my outside of work friends lol). cuz im really bad, terrible, at expressing my feelings (and im not a touchy person either), for my its easier to just give smth. or cook smth for them.
but again im not sure. i dont usually text or call my friends and we meet up once a month at best. but once we do meet we usually spend several hours updating each other on what happens in the meantime.
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oh and again about that looong message about following and stuff, sorry if it came off as mad or frustrated. i read it and it sounded angry even to myself and I WROTE IT😂 i wrote it with nothing but admiration and Женственное количество
- no worries
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if u r not let’s fix it then
- ahahah no. i’m fine on my own.
but if i talk seriously.
i did think about this topic for the past few days.
and i just realized that i just wanna be with sm1 that i know it can grow into smth serious. like, to skip all this talking and chatting stuff, so that i can just focus on this one person and know we both want the same thing. i really dont wanna talk to guys at this point.
just find me a husband lol.
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With whom do you usually advice before making the decisions?
- depends. i used to discuss work and future related questions with Dad before, but i stopped at some point. i had one good friend, a serious working guy, but stopped that too.
so i think rn its just me and my thoughts. you know they say “make decisions based on who you wanna become”, i think its a good piece of advice really.
recently i was listening to this podcast by Emma Grede where she was talking about an “inner mentor”, ur 30yo version, to whom you can reach out to when you dont know what to do.
and i loved this idea so much cuz i usually do that. what would my wiser version do? what would the version that i admire do? what version of myself would i respect more in this situation?
and overall i think especially if you’re a girl, you may tend to search for others approval before making big steps.
i used to be like that for a long time.
even if i knew what was the right next move, i needed sm1 to approve it, esp a male. so i would ask my male friends for advice when in reality i was just scared probably. so i was outsourcing decision making.
yeah
usually a lot of the times you can derive the best decisions if you sit down and clear up ur mind properly.
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What qualities usually help people to step up in a workplace?
- taking responsibility. not being afraid to take more work than others.
i think you should just show that you’re dedicated to learning and growing. not just coming and doing whatever tasks you were given.
over time people will know who’s the most reliable person in the team when it comes to more important responsibilities.
but then, if you have the right environment that rewards such behavior. some places just dont let you grow and you should know when to leave.
but still, i do believe every workplace is an opportunity to learn smth.
be it specific technical matters or smth more social.
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do you have a favourite franchise? like Harry Potter or Game of Thrones or Avatar (by James Cameron)?
- hm. no ig. my brother used to love Star Wars. my cousin used to adore Naruto.
but no im trying to remember but ig i dont have anything like that.
i liked the series Succession tho (by HBO), if thats considered too.
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Have you ever outgrown someone without them noticing?
- yeah, happened several times. you just remove them from ur life without having a clear trigger. probably just realize that you two have different lives and you don’t see them in yours.
they may be a good person, but maybe not good for you.
do you have a favourite franchise? like Harry Potter or Game of Thrones or Avatar (by James Cameron)?
- hm. no ig. my brother used to love Star Wars. my cousin used to adore Naruto.
but no im trying to remember but ig i dont have anything like that.
i liked the series Succession tho (by HBO), if thats considered too.
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Have you ever outgrown someone without them noticing?
- yeah, happened several times. you just remove them from ur life without having a clear trigger. probably just realize that you two have different lives and you don’t see them in yours.
they may be a good person, but maybe not good for you.
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what is your job? I dont really know what you do so I get a bit lost every time you post something about your work
- ahahah. i used to work at Research Center at my uni. overtime just became the assistant to my manager, Vice-rector. but my work was usually about the matters outside of uni and not strictly following official requirements (maybe one would consider it being a personal assistant). then i started working on my own project inside Research Center. we began doing research studies for whatever questions our uni had (how to attract the best minds to our uni, what most ambitious students want, there was cultural identity too. that was the first one. report ready, will publish only now. now tho related to healthcare, medical projects inside uni, nursing etc ect. sometimes just articles that the uni leadership wants.
changed jobs. now gonna be working with medical projects directly. so basically Akfa is gonna build private policlinics across Tashkent, and our task is gonna be creating managing the system and the app for connecting patiends, doctors and the staff. mostly team coordination and research and talking with developers cuz i know nothing about programming.
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what kind of person do you think will be your ultimate life partner?
- sm1 strong and powerful ahahah. intelligent. i mean, if he's smart then im sure he'll figure things out. and and. needs to wanna build a dynasty with me.
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do you write a lot? journaling?
- now no. i should start again. not journaling, but just writing more in general. i think it helps to organize your thoughts a lot
what is your job? I dont really know what you do so I get a bit lost every time you post something about your work
- ahahah. i used to work at Research Center at my uni. overtime just became the assistant to my manager, Vice-rector. but my work was usually about the matters outside of uni and not strictly following official requirements (maybe one would consider it being a personal assistant). then i started working on my own project inside Research Center. we began doing research studies for whatever questions our uni had (how to attract the best minds to our uni, what most ambitious students want, there was cultural identity too. that was the first one. report ready, will publish only now. now tho related to healthcare, medical projects inside uni, nursing etc ect. sometimes just articles that the uni leadership wants.
changed jobs. now gonna be working with medical projects directly. so basically Akfa is gonna build private policlinics across Tashkent, and our task is gonna be creating managing the system and the app for connecting patiends, doctors and the staff. mostly team coordination and research and talking with developers cuz i know nothing about programming.
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what kind of person do you think will be your ultimate life partner?
- sm1 strong and powerful ahahah. intelligent. i mean, if he's smart then im sure he'll figure things out. and and. needs to wanna build a dynasty with me.
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do you write a lot? journaling?
- now no. i should start again. not journaling, but just writing more in general. i think it helps to organize your thoughts a lot
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i think enough for today.
i’ll fall asleep otherwise
plus
i walked 20k steps today✨
and a workout.
i dont feel my legs
i’ll fall asleep otherwise
plus
i walked 20k steps today✨
and a workout.
i dont feel my legs
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there are a lot of people i admire, yet i think this admiration comes as a dissection of their traits and carefully choosing which side specifically is worthy of it. the idea of having a mentor sounds very appealing, yet i don't think i can ever fully commit to giving such a role to one person when you keep facing their different sides.
every great trait of a person comes with its less desirable pair.
there is a young man i know, full of force that keeps pushing him through doors and people without fear or anxiety. it's as if he's blind to his own limitations. and he's so full of joy, living his life truly to the fullest. in moments where i'd find myself brooding, he stands up and never lets self-pity take over.
yet this gaiety also renders him irresponsible and unreliable at times. you wanna go on an adventure with this person, but be aware that he might leave you midway through the desert.
then there are people like my dad. thoughtful, careful, calculating. mature in most situations. and very prideful. yet this pride sometimes borders on fear, fear which doesn't let you cross the lines he's drawn to protect himself and his castle. you know this person will never let you down, that you can always rely on him and his words, yet exactly this certainty and stability makes it impossible to venture into new and uncertain areas. you can feel his fears weighing down on you too if you're not attentive enough.
and there's a woman i used to work for. strong and sharp. i admired her deeply and was almost devoted to her in my loyalty. and while i was always aware of her other sides, upon leaving i got to see them up close, the calculating, the maneuvering, the quiet moves that got her where she is rn. it put some distance between us emotionally, yet i still respect the qualities i admired back then.
and oftentimes, the exact traits that make you ambitious and admirable in others' eyes can be the ones that make you feel vulnerable and prone to overcomplicating things. i've heard one young man say, "if my insecurities are what help me achieve my goals right now, that i have to keep doing things to prove my worth, then i don't mind them. for the time being, they're useful." and i've seen how healthy and normal some of my acquaintances' upbringing was, and how differently we react to the same things in life. i think there are degrees of healthiness in families. some people were soaked so much in love that they rarely question how their actions are perceived by others. some others weren't that lucky, i guess, and found other ways to move forward.
anyway
i think the key in building close relationships with people is choosing what trade-offs you're willing to accept. it's easy to admire the good qualities, but you have to think ahead about the downsides those exact qualities will bring along the way.
(the screenshot is from the book East of Eden)
@summernotes
every great trait of a person comes with its less desirable pair.
there is a young man i know, full of force that keeps pushing him through doors and people without fear or anxiety. it's as if he's blind to his own limitations. and he's so full of joy, living his life truly to the fullest. in moments where i'd find myself brooding, he stands up and never lets self-pity take over.
yet this gaiety also renders him irresponsible and unreliable at times. you wanna go on an adventure with this person, but be aware that he might leave you midway through the desert.
then there are people like my dad. thoughtful, careful, calculating. mature in most situations. and very prideful. yet this pride sometimes borders on fear, fear which doesn't let you cross the lines he's drawn to protect himself and his castle. you know this person will never let you down, that you can always rely on him and his words, yet exactly this certainty and stability makes it impossible to venture into new and uncertain areas. you can feel his fears weighing down on you too if you're not attentive enough.
and there's a woman i used to work for. strong and sharp. i admired her deeply and was almost devoted to her in my loyalty. and while i was always aware of her other sides, upon leaving i got to see them up close, the calculating, the maneuvering, the quiet moves that got her where she is rn. it put some distance between us emotionally, yet i still respect the qualities i admired back then.
and oftentimes, the exact traits that make you ambitious and admirable in others' eyes can be the ones that make you feel vulnerable and prone to overcomplicating things. i've heard one young man say, "if my insecurities are what help me achieve my goals right now, that i have to keep doing things to prove my worth, then i don't mind them. for the time being, they're useful." and i've seen how healthy and normal some of my acquaintances' upbringing was, and how differently we react to the same things in life. i think there are degrees of healthiness in families. some people were soaked so much in love that they rarely question how their actions are perceived by others. some others weren't that lucky, i guess, and found other ways to move forward.
anyway
i think the key in building close relationships with people is choosing what trade-offs you're willing to accept. it's easy to admire the good qualities, but you have to think ahead about the downsides those exact qualities will bring along the way.
(the screenshot is from the book East of Eden)
@summernotes
i think you have to be in the right mindset to watch miyazaki’s works, to be living in the moment and soaking up all the emotions of wonder about the world around you.
my neighbor totoro is targeted at a fairly young audience, its the first time i’ve watched it.
thought of it more as the ephemeral nature of childhood. and given that it was set shortly after WW2, you can feel how people still move on in life even with the heavy weight of tragedies in the background.
also, as i’ve been reading East of Eden, i found out that it’s soon gonna be made into a TV series. and guess who’s directing and is the main character (Cathy)? Florence Pugh, my favorite of all (she’s in the last screenshot). i usually don’t care much for movies or series, but i feel this one is going to be special.
@summernotes
my neighbor totoro is targeted at a fairly young audience, its the first time i’ve watched it.
thought of it more as the ephemeral nature of childhood. and given that it was set shortly after WW2, you can feel how people still move on in life even with the heavy weight of tragedies in the background.
also, as i’ve been reading East of Eden, i found out that it’s soon gonna be made into a TV series. and guess who’s directing and is the main character (Cathy)? Florence Pugh, my favorite of all (she’s in the last screenshot). i usually don’t care much for movies or series, but i feel this one is going to be special.
@summernotes
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⚡️Венчурные фонды не могут быть единственным источником капитала
В Узбекистане уже десятки венчурных фондов. Но если посмотреть на структуру капитала, большинство из них государственные или при государственные. Даже самые передовые фонды в частных разговорах говорят одно и то же - рынку нужен частный капитал.
На зрелых рынках фонды это лишь один из многих источников. В США, Европе и Азии значительную часть ранних инвестиций делают ангелы, family offices и частный капитал людей которые заработали в бизнесе и готовы вкладывать в новые компании. Это децентрализованный и гибкий капитал. Он не требует инвестиционного комитета и может зайти за неделю.
В Узбекистане этого капитала почти нет. Люди которые заработали в традиционном бизнесе держат деньги в недвижимости или на депозитах. Культуры ангельского инвестирования не сформировалось.
Хорошие признаки уже есть. CS Angels объединяет активных частных инвесторов. Недавно появился Nexus Club, где опытные венчурные игроки работают вместе с крупными предпринимателями. Это правильное направление.
Но этого пока недостаточно. Пока частный капитал не начнёт двигаться в сторону стартапов системно, рынок будет зависеть от государственных денег с государственной логикой.
Развитие частного капитала - это следующий важный шаг для экосистемы.
@umedschannel
В Узбекистане уже десятки венчурных фондов. Но если посмотреть на структуру капитала, большинство из них государственные или при государственные. Даже самые передовые фонды в частных разговорах говорят одно и то же - рынку нужен частный капитал.
На зрелых рынках фонды это лишь один из многих источников. В США, Европе и Азии значительную часть ранних инвестиций делают ангелы, family offices и частный капитал людей которые заработали в бизнесе и готовы вкладывать в новые компании. Это децентрализованный и гибкий капитал. Он не требует инвестиционного комитета и может зайти за неделю.
В Узбекистане этого капитала почти нет. Люди которые заработали в традиционном бизнесе держат деньги в недвижимости или на депозитах. Культуры ангельского инвестирования не сформировалось.
Хорошие признаки уже есть. CS Angels объединяет активных частных инвесторов. Недавно появился Nexus Club, где опытные венчурные игроки работают вместе с крупными предпринимателями. Это правильное направление.
Но этого пока недостаточно. Пока частный капитал не начнёт двигаться в сторону стартапов системно, рынок будет зависеть от государственных денег с государственной логикой.
Развитие частного капитала - это следующий важный шаг для экосистемы.
@umedschannel
uzbekistan's stock exchange trading volume hit nearly $2 billion in 2024, which is 7.5x more than the year before while most people in the country still dont know what a stock is.
financial market sequencing puts a question of whether you can build sophisticated capital markets before the population is financially literate enough to use them. it follows as: build the infrastructure, make it so frictionless that people stumble into investing before they even fully understand it, and then use that participation to generate the culture. in uzb, you've seen it in the example of digital payment methods in replacement of cash.
and it's working, at least on paper. in the first half of 2025, nearly $1B in transactions were carried out on the Tashkent Stock Exchange, which is 17 times more than the same period in 2024. simultaneously, Uzum raised $70M from Tencent and VR Capital, hitting a $1.5B valuation.
so public market is opening to retail and private market attracting institutional money. such two different investment worlds forming at the same time rarely ever happens in one country at one, which is quite impressive.
zooming out
this all can be pointed to Thaler's "nudge" theory which states that you can change behavior through environment design rather than education. the pattern here is that every emerging market that developed a real capital market did so through a triggering event that pulled in retail, be that South Korea's 1990s chaebol reforms, India's post-liberalization mutual fund boom, or China's 2007 retail investor surge.
@summernotes
financial market sequencing puts a question of whether you can build sophisticated capital markets before the population is financially literate enough to use them. it follows as: build the infrastructure, make it so frictionless that people stumble into investing before they even fully understand it, and then use that participation to generate the culture. in uzb, you've seen it in the example of digital payment methods in replacement of cash.
and it's working, at least on paper. in the first half of 2025, nearly $1B in transactions were carried out on the Tashkent Stock Exchange, which is 17 times more than the same period in 2024. simultaneously, Uzum raised $70M from Tencent and VR Capital, hitting a $1.5B valuation.
so public market is opening to retail and private market attracting institutional money. such two different investment worlds forming at the same time rarely ever happens in one country at one, which is quite impressive.
zooming out
this all can be pointed to Thaler's "nudge" theory which states that you can change behavior through environment design rather than education. the pattern here is that every emerging market that developed a real capital market did so through a triggering event that pulled in retail, be that South Korea's 1990s chaebol reforms, India's post-liberalization mutual fund boom, or China's 2007 retail investor surge.
@summernotes
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Я: я просто хочу, чтобы кто-то помог мне решить мои проблемы, я так больше не могу
Также я после того, как проревелась и вытерла слезы:
Также я после того, как проревелась и вытерла слезы:
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i guess part of being uzbek is about hosting and attending different gatherings.
i used to get pretty exhausted during such events, helping around without having a chance to sit down for a bit. and having dozens of people at home itself is draining.
and doing things that don’t ask much of you mentally can be pretty tiring. i still feel that way sometimes.
but there is also actual warmth underneath all that hustle. seems like good memories also come from those chaotic, loud and slightly overwhelming days.
maybe that’s just what this kind of togetherness looks like.
@summernotes
i used to get pretty exhausted during such events, helping around without having a chance to sit down for a bit. and having dozens of people at home itself is draining.
and doing things that don’t ask much of you mentally can be pretty tiring. i still feel that way sometimes.
but there is also actual warmth underneath all that hustle. seems like good memories also come from those chaotic, loud and slightly overwhelming days.
maybe that’s just what this kind of togetherness looks like.
@summernotes
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