بارك الله فيه

‏لا ينقطع رجاؤك بالله
Never lose hope in Allah.

فأسرار فرجه لعباده عجيبه
The secrets of His relief for His servants are truly wondrous.

المهم:
كن واثقا بالله … صادقاً في توكلك عليه
وكلما زادت ثقتك بالله رأيت من عجائب قدرة الله الشيء العظيم

What matters is:
Be confident in Allah… be sincere in your reliance on Him.
And the more your trust in Allah increases, the more you will witness the amazing wonders of His power.

وقل بقلبك وجميع جوارحك:
And say with your heart and all your being:

إن معي ربي سيهدين
"Indeed, my Lord is with me—He will guide me.

إن معي ربي سيغنين
Indeed, my Lord is with me—He will enrich me.

إن معي ربي سيعطين
Indeed, my Lord is with me—He will grant me.

إن معي ربي سيعافين
Indeed, my Lord is with me—He will heal me.

إن معي ربي سيحمين
Indeed, my Lord is with me—He will protect me.

إن معي ربي سينجين
Indeed, my Lord is with me—He will save me."

- يا طالبات العلم، لا تغفلن عن (التعبد) عمِّرن أوقاتكن قبل الزواج بالتّعبد وتزودن بالتقوى، قيام الليل ‏الذي فيه رفعُ الدرجات عند الله، حفظ القرآن وكثرة تلاوته ‏الذي يورثك الخشية وكفى بها علمًا، ‏

"O female seekers of knowledge, do not neglect (worship). Fill your time before marriage with acts of worship and equip yourselves with piety. The night prayer (Qiyam al-Layl) elevates one's ranks with Allah. Memorizing the Qur'an and frequently reciting it instills awe (of Allah) — and that alone is sufficient as knowledge.

كما قال ابن مسعود: "كفى بخشية الله علما"

As Ibn Mas'ud said: 'The fear of Allah is sufficient as knowledge.'

‏فاليوم ‏أنتِ تجاهدين نفسك فقط وغدًا ‏ستجاهدين نفسك وزوجك وذريّتك، ‏ومن تزوَّج فقد ركب البحر!

Today, you strive against yourself alone, but tomorrow you will be striving against yourself, your husband, and your children. Whoever gets married has boarded the sea!"

- ‏نحن في زمن الفتن ‏وأحوج ما نكون إلى التَّعبد والقرب من الله ‏حتَّى ننال البصيرة والثَّبات.

"We are living in a time of trials, and we are in desperate need of worship and closeness to Allah so that we may attain insight and steadfastness."

🖇️| د. هيّا بنت سلمان الصّباح.

‏قال الشيخ ابن عثيمين -رحمه الله-:
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
‏
‏"ننصح المرأة بألا تختار في النكاح إلا رجلاً صاحب دين وخلق، وألا تتعجل المرأة بقبول الخاطب حتى يبحث عنه من جميع الجوانب، ولا أعني أن المرأة لا تتزوج من لا يأتي شيئا من الذنوب، لأن هذا متعذر لكن سددوا وقاربوا."

“We advise the woman not to choose for marriage except a man who possesses religious commitment and good character. A woman should not hastily accept a suitor until he has been investigated from all angles. I do not mean that a woman must only marry someone who commits no sins—because that is impossible—but be balanced and aim for what is closest to the ideal.”

-فتاوى نور على الدرب.

«ليش وقفت عن الدعاء»؟

"خيركم من تعلم القرآن وعلمه."

Sins are obstacles to the acceptance of your du'ā. Increase in istighfar before making du'ā.

Yahya ibn Mu'adh رحمه الله said:

"Do not be surprised if the answer to your du'ā is delayed, when you yourself have blocked its path with your sins."

[As-Siyar 13/15]

"Whoever persists in gratitude, blessings will continuously come to him. And whoever persists in seeking forgiveness, closed doors will be opened for him."

أما عن موانع إجابة الدعاء، فمنها:

أكل الحرام، وشربه ولبسه واستعجال الإجابة، وترك الدعاء، وارتكاب المعاصي والمحرمات، أو تراكم الذنوب على القلب، وترك الواجبات التي أمر الله بها وأوجبها، والدعاء بإثم أو قطيعة رحم، أو يمنعه الله في الدنيا ليعطيه في الآخرة أعظم منه.

As for the things that prevent a prayer (du‘a) from being answered, they include:
Consuming unlawful (haram) food and drink, wearing unlawful clothing, being hasty in expecting a response, abandoning supplication, committing sins and prohibited acts, the accumulation of sins on the heart, neglecting obligatory duties that Allah has commanded, supplicating for something sinful or for the severing of family ties, or Allah may withhold it in this world in order to give something greater in the Hereafter.

[ الداء والدواء ]

(لا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ)
لم يغلق بابه، لم يسدل حجابه، لم ينتهِ فضله، لم ينقطع حبله.

"Do not despair of the mercy of Allah."
His door is never closed, His veil is never drawn, His bounty never ends, and His connection is never severed.


(أَلَيْسَ اللَّهُ بِكَافٍ عَبْدَهُ)
يكفيه ما أهمه وأغمه، يحميه ممن كاد له، يحفظه ممن مكر به.

"Is Allah not sufficient for His servant?"
He relieves his servant of his worries and grief, protects him from those who scheme against him, and guards him from those who deceive him.


(فَابْتَغُوا عِندَ اللَّهِ الرِّزْقَ)
فعنده الخزائن، ولديه الكنوز، وهو الجواد المنّان الفتّاح العليم.

"So seek provision from Allah."
For with Him are the treasures, in His hand are the riches, and He is the Generous, the Bestower, the Opener, the All-Knowing.


﴿وَمَن يُؤْمِنْ بِاللَّهِ يَهْدِ قَلْبَهُ﴾
يكشف كربه، ويغفر ذنبه، ويهدي طريقه، ويسدد خطاه.

"And whoever believes in Allah – He will guide his heart."
He removes his servant's distress, forgives his sins, guides his path, and steadies his steps.


﴿اذْكُرُوا نِعْمَتَ اللَّهِ عَلَيْكُمْ﴾
كنتم أمواتاً فأحياكم، وضُلالاً فهداكم، وجهلة فعلّمكم، ومستضعفين فنصركم.

"Remember the favor of Allah upon you."
You were dead and He gave you life, lost and He guided you, ignorant and He taught you, weak and He supported you.

قال ابن القيم رحمه الله:

مَن أُلهِمَ الدعاءَ فقد أريد به الإجابة، فإنّ الله سبحانه يقول: {ادْعُونِي أَسْتَجِبْ لَكُمْ}

وقال: {وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ}

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

Whoever is inspired to make duʿāʾ (supplication), it is a sign that the response has been intended for him.

For Allah, the Exalted, says: “Call upon Me; I will respond to you”

And He says: “And when My servants ask you about Me—indeed I am near. I respond to the call of the caller when he calls upon Me.”

- الدواء والدواء

"وأحبّ خلقه إليه أكثرهم وأفضلهم له سؤالًا، وهو يحب الملحِّين في الدعاء، وكلما ألحَّ العبد عليه في السؤال أحبه وقربه وأعطاه."

"And the most beloved of His creation to Him are those who ask Him the most and ask in the best way. He loves those who persist earnestly in duʿāʾ, and the more a servant persists in asking Him, the more He loves him, draws him near, and gives to him."

— Ibn al-Qayyim

Trials mature hearts: through them a person comes to know the strength of their heart in faith and reason, hidden matters are revealed, and they learn how much love and gratitude others hold for them. When the trials is are lifted, the person gains true knowledge of themselves and of others, and learns the most beneficial way to deal with them and be dealt with.

الفتن تُنضج القلوب: يعرف بها العبد قوَّة قلبه إيمانًا وعقلًا، تظهر بها الخفايا، ويعرف ما له في قلوب من حوله حبًّا وعِرفانًا، فإذا انجلت تحقَّقت للعبد معرفته بنفسه وبالنَّاس، وعلم الطريق الأنفع في معاملتها ومعاملتهم.

ساعة استجابة؛ كان السلف يُسَمُون يوم الجمعة يوم الأُمنيات.

‏في موطأ مالك أن النبي ﷺ :

في الجمعة ساعة، لا يصادفها عبد مسلم
وهو يصلي يسأل الله شيئا إلا أعطاه إياه.

‏س/ ما هي وقت استجابة
الدعوة في يوم الجمعة؟

‏ج/ ذكر الإمام مالك بسنده عن عبدالله
بن سلام -رضي الله عنه- قال :

‏"هي آخر ساعة في يوم الجمعة"

And know, my son, that no one abandons the Qur’an except one who is insignificant in the sight of Allah.


Do you want to know your status with Allah Almighty and your value in His eyes?
Then look at the position the Qur’an holds in your life.

Yaqeen in your dua!

يا ملاذ الهاربين
ويا أمان الخائفين
ويا جابر المنكسرين
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