كل الناس سواسية في مقام واحد يوم القيامة إلا حافظ القرآن
"All the people would be equal in status on the Day of Judgement except for the one who memorized the Quran.
مع الملائكة .. مع السفرة الكرام البررة اللهم اجعلنا منهم
They will be with the angels, with the noble and righteous. O Allah, make us among them."
"All the people would be equal in status on the Day of Judgement except for the one who memorized the Quran.
مع الملائكة .. مع السفرة الكرام البررة اللهم اجعلنا منهم
They will be with the angels, with the noble and righteous. O Allah, make us among them."
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The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said,
"Shall I not inform you about your wives in Paradise?"
Notice that this refers to the wife whose commendable qualities and blessed conduct lead her to become one of your wives in Paradise.
He said: "Every loving and fertile woman, who, if she gets angry, or if wrong is done to her, or if her husband is angry with her—notice these three conditions:
if she gets angry,
if wrong is done to her,
or if her husband is angry with her—she says,
'This hand of mine is in yours; I will not close my eyes nor find peace in sleep until you are pleased with me.'"
This reflects her dedication to maintaining peace and fulfilling her duties, even in the face of disputes.
The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم emphasizes that she is aware of the significance of her actions before Allah and the responsibility she has in these matters.
Thus, it is important to recognize that obedience to Allah, who created her and commanded her, involves fulfilling these rights and duties. She should pray to Allah for a dignified and blessed life. Allah describes righteous women in the Quran as being "devoutly obedient" and "preservers of the unseen (affairs)."
A righteous wife is one who combines two qualities: the first relates to her connection with her Lord, and the second pertains to her devotion to maintaining her obligations and duties.
Being "devoutly obedient" means she is consistently performing acts of worship and adhering to obedience, while being a "preserver of the unseen" means she safeguards her husband’s property, honor, and rights.
Ultimately, this preservation is by the grace, facilitation, and assistance of Allah.
- الشيخ عبد الرزاق بدر
"Shall I not inform you about your wives in Paradise?"
Notice that this refers to the wife whose commendable qualities and blessed conduct lead her to become one of your wives in Paradise.
He said: "Every loving and fertile woman, who, if she gets angry, or if wrong is done to her, or if her husband is angry with her—notice these three conditions:
if she gets angry,
if wrong is done to her,
or if her husband is angry with her—she says,
'This hand of mine is in yours; I will not close my eyes nor find peace in sleep until you are pleased with me.'"
This reflects her dedication to maintaining peace and fulfilling her duties, even in the face of disputes.
The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم emphasizes that she is aware of the significance of her actions before Allah and the responsibility she has in these matters.
Thus, it is important to recognize that obedience to Allah, who created her and commanded her, involves fulfilling these rights and duties. She should pray to Allah for a dignified and blessed life. Allah describes righteous women in the Quran as being "devoutly obedient" and "preservers of the unseen (affairs)."
A righteous wife is one who combines two qualities: the first relates to her connection with her Lord, and the second pertains to her devotion to maintaining her obligations and duties.
Being "devoutly obedient" means she is consistently performing acts of worship and adhering to obedience, while being a "preserver of the unseen" means she safeguards her husband’s property, honor, and rights.
Ultimately, this preservation is by the grace, facilitation, and assistance of Allah.
- الشيخ عبد الرزاق بدر
قال عز وجل: وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ الَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّى يُغْنِيَهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ فَضْلِهِ {النور:33}
قال القرطبي في تفسيره: "من تاقت نفسه إلى النكاح، فإن وجد الطَّول، فالمستحب له أن يتزوج، وإن لم يجد الطَّول؛ فعليه بالاستعفاف، ما أمكن، ولو بالصوم؛ فإن الصوم له وجاء."
Allah سبحانه وتعالى says:
“Let those who cannot find a match (or the means to marriage) keep themselves chaste until Allah enriches them out of His bounty”
[Quran 24:33].
Al-Qurtubi commented in his tafsir:
“If one desires marriage and is financially able, it is recommended to marry. If he cannot afford it, he should maintain chastity as much as possible, even if through fasting, as fasting is a shield.”
قال القرطبي في تفسيره: "من تاقت نفسه إلى النكاح، فإن وجد الطَّول، فالمستحب له أن يتزوج، وإن لم يجد الطَّول؛ فعليه بالاستعفاف، ما أمكن، ولو بالصوم؛ فإن الصوم له وجاء."
Allah سبحانه وتعالى says:
“Let those who cannot find a match (or the means to marriage) keep themselves chaste until Allah enriches them out of His bounty”
[Quran 24:33].
Al-Qurtubi commented in his tafsir:
“If one desires marriage and is financially able, it is recommended to marry. If he cannot afford it, he should maintain chastity as much as possible, even if through fasting, as fasting is a shield.”
قال الله تعالى : ﴿وَإِذا قُرِئَ القُرآنُ فَاستَمِعوا لَهُ وَأَنصِتوا لَعَلَّكُم تُرحَمونَ ﴾
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said:
"And when the Qur'an is recited, then listen to it and pay attention that you may receive mercy."
الرحمة تصيب المستمع لكتاب الله ، فما بالك بمن يقرأ القرآن ، كم من الرحمات تنزل عليه وتغشاه.
Mercy descends upon the listener of Allah’s Book, so imagine how much more mercy falls upon the one who recites the Qur'an.
«كان الشيخ ابن عثيمين -رحمه الله- يوصِي بإنهاء الحزب اليومي من القرآن أول النهار، ليكون أثره وبركته على بقيّة اليوم، ولأنَّ الإنسان لا يدري ما يشغله»
"Sheikh Ibn Uthaymeen, may Allah have mercy on him, used to advise completing the daily portion of the Qur'an early during the day so that its effects and blessings last throughout the rest of the day, and because a person does not know what might distract them later."
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said:
"And when the Qur'an is recited, then listen to it and pay attention that you may receive mercy."
الرحمة تصيب المستمع لكتاب الله ، فما بالك بمن يقرأ القرآن ، كم من الرحمات تنزل عليه وتغشاه.
Mercy descends upon the listener of Allah’s Book, so imagine how much more mercy falls upon the one who recites the Qur'an.
«كان الشيخ ابن عثيمين -رحمه الله- يوصِي بإنهاء الحزب اليومي من القرآن أول النهار، ليكون أثره وبركته على بقيّة اليوم، ولأنَّ الإنسان لا يدري ما يشغله»
"Sheikh Ibn Uthaymeen, may Allah have mercy on him, used to advise completing the daily portion of the Qur'an early during the day so that its effects and blessings last throughout the rest of the day, and because a person does not know what might distract them later."
لا يغفل من أراد الزواج عن نيات طيبة يؤجر عليها .
"One who seeks marriage should not overlook the good intentions for which they will be rewarded:
⁃ إمتثال أمر النبي ﷺ في النكاح .
Complying with the Prophet’s ﷺ guidance in marriage.
⁃ إعفاف نفسه وزوجه بالحلال .
Seeking to fulfill oneself and one's spouse through lawful means.
⁃ أن يخرج من صلبه من يوحد الله ويقيم دينه .
Raising children who worship Allah and uphold His religion.
⁃ تكثير أمة محمد ﷺ.
Increasing the followers of Muhammad ﷺ.
⁃ النفقة على زوجته وأولاده .
Providing financial support for one’s wife and children.
⁃ الصبر على تربية الأولاد وتوجيههم للخير .
Exercising patience in raising and guiding children towards goodness.
⁃ الدرجات بحسن الخلق وطيب العشرة .
Achieving higher ranks through good character and pleasant companionship."
"One who seeks marriage should not overlook the good intentions for which they will be rewarded:
⁃ إمتثال أمر النبي ﷺ في النكاح .
Complying with the Prophet’s ﷺ guidance in marriage.
⁃ إعفاف نفسه وزوجه بالحلال .
Seeking to fulfill oneself and one's spouse through lawful means.
⁃ أن يخرج من صلبه من يوحد الله ويقيم دينه .
Raising children who worship Allah and uphold His religion.
⁃ تكثير أمة محمد ﷺ.
Increasing the followers of Muhammad ﷺ.
⁃ النفقة على زوجته وأولاده .
Providing financial support for one’s wife and children.
⁃ الصبر على تربية الأولاد وتوجيههم للخير .
Exercising patience in raising and guiding children towards goodness.
⁃ الدرجات بحسن الخلق وطيب العشرة .
Achieving higher ranks through good character and pleasant companionship."
«إذَا أردتَ شيئًا تُحِبُّه ، فَلا تعصِ اللّٰهَ فِي الوصُولِ إليهِ ؛حتَّىٰ لا يكونَ سببًا فِي حِرمانِكَ مِنهُ ، فإنَّ مَا عندَ اللّٰهِ لا يُدرَكُ بِمعَصيتِه»
"If you desire something you love, do not disobey Allah in reaching it, so that it does not become a reason for you to be deprived of it. For what is with Allah cannot be attained through disobedience."
"If you desire something you love, do not disobey Allah in reaching it, so that it does not become a reason for you to be deprived of it. For what is with Allah cannot be attained through disobedience."
The delight of the worshipper's eyes
Yazid al-Raqashi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"I do not know of anything more delightful to the eyes of the worshipper in this world than performing tahajjud in the darkness of the night. And I do not know of any pleasure in the gardens of paradise more delightful to the devout or more satisfying to their eyes than looking at the Majestic One when the veils are lifted and the Generous One is revealed to them."
[اختيار الأولى، ابن رجب (٩٠)]
Yazid al-Raqashi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"I do not know of anything more delightful to the eyes of the worshipper in this world than performing tahajjud in the darkness of the night. And I do not know of any pleasure in the gardens of paradise more delightful to the devout or more satisfying to their eyes than looking at the Majestic One when the veils are lifted and the Generous One is revealed to them."
[اختيار الأولى، ابن رجب (٩٠)]
وَمِنَ اللَّيْلِ فَتَهَجَّدْ بِهِ نَافِلَةً لَّكَ عَسَىٰ أَن يَبْعَثَكَ رَبُّكَ مَقَامًا مَّحْمُودًا
Forwarded from فقه النَّفْس📚
لا تسمح لشخص انجذب إليك وإلى شخصيتك أن يدخل حياتك، ولا يغرك كثرة مديحه لك وانبهاره بك، فهو في الحقيقة لا يريدك كما هو أنت بل يريد الصورة الملائكية اللي يتخيلها عنك، وبمجرد اقتحامه لحياتك ورؤيته لشخصيتك العادية سيصدم بك وينقلب عليك، وكل شخص مهووس فيك هو مشروع عدو مستقبلي؛ فالعلاقات المتينة تبدأ من الجذر وليس من الزهر؛ حينما يراك كما أنت بعيوبك وأخطائك ويقرر الاستمرار معك؛ عندها تكون العلاقة متزنة.
ياسر الحزيمي
ياسر الحزيمي
فقه النَّفْس📚
لا تسمح لشخص انجذب إليك وإلى شخصيتك أن يدخل حياتك، ولا يغرك كثرة مديحه لك وانبهاره بك، فهو في الحقيقة لا يريدك كما هو أنت بل يريد الصورة الملائكية اللي يتخيلها عنك، وبمجرد اقتحامه لحياتك ورؤيته لشخصيتك العادية سيصدم بك وينقلب عليك، وكل شخص مهووس فيك هو مشروع…
"Don't let someone who is attracted to you and your personality enter your life. Don't be deceived by their excessive praise and admiration for you, as they don't actually want you as you are but rather the idealized image they have of you. Once they invade your life and see your ordinary self, they may be shocked and turn against you. Anyone who is obsessed with you is a potential future enemy.
Strong relationships are built from the root, not just from the flowers. When they see you as you are, with your flaws and mistakes, and decide to stay with you, then the relationship is balanced."
— Yasir Al-Hazimi
Strong relationships are built from the root, not just from the flowers. When they see you as you are, with your flaws and mistakes, and decide to stay with you, then the relationship is balanced."
— Yasir Al-Hazimi
أتَبكِي مِن فقدَان شَيء، وَأنت الََّذِي قُلت:
"Do you cry over your loss of something, while you are the one who said:
"وَاصرِف عَنِّي شَرُّ مَا قَضَيت."
'And turn away from me the evil of what you have decreed.'"
"Do you cry over your loss of something, while you are the one who said:
"وَاصرِف عَنِّي شَرُّ مَا قَضَيت."
'And turn away from me the evil of what you have decreed.'"
"رأيت اليوم خاتمة للقرآن تبلغ من العمر (٧٠) عامًا، تقول أنها بلغت الخمسين ولم تكن تحفظ من القرآن إلا المعوذات وسورتا الفيل والمسد! وكانت ما تصلي إلا بهما .. ثم عزمت وختمت القرآن في سنتين!"
"Today I saw a woman who finished reading the Quran at the age of 70. She said that by the age of fifty, she had only memorized the Mu'awwidhat (the chapters for seeking refuge) and the two short surah of Al-Fil and Al-Masad. She used to pray only with these chapters. Then she decided to commit to memorizing and completed the entire Quran in two years!
من يقول حفظ القرآن صعب؟
Who says that memorizing the Quran is difficult?
ما يصعب علينا إلا بذنوبنا وضعف الهمة والعزيمة..
What makes it hard for us are our sins, lack of determination, and weak willpower."
"Today I saw a woman who finished reading the Quran at the age of 70. She said that by the age of fifty, she had only memorized the Mu'awwidhat (the chapters for seeking refuge) and the two short surah of Al-Fil and Al-Masad. She used to pray only with these chapters. Then she decided to commit to memorizing and completed the entire Quran in two years!
من يقول حفظ القرآن صعب؟
Who says that memorizing the Quran is difficult?
ما يصعب علينا إلا بذنوبنا وضعف الهمة والعزيمة..
What makes it hard for us are our sins, lack of determination, and weak willpower."
"ومن تمام حُسْنِ الظَّنِّ باللهِ أنْ يستقرَّ في قلبِكَ أنَّه لا خيرَ لكَ في شيءٍ مُنِعْتَ عنه، وأنَّ رحمةَ اللهِ بالحِرمان لا تقِلُّ عن رحمته بالعطاء".
"Among the perfection of having a good opinion of Allah is to firmly believe in your heart that there is no good for you in anything you are deprived of, and that Allah's mercy in withholding is no less than His mercy in granting."
"Among the perfection of having a good opinion of Allah is to firmly believe in your heart that there is no good for you in anything you are deprived of, and that Allah's mercy in withholding is no less than His mercy in granting."