SRB on the problem with dating / relationships and why I came to change the game

Why mystery method ideas / jestering is dead

Why PUA is a tool if done calibrated, but social suicidal if done uncalibrated

Why most guys only know how to create an instagram that would be attractive to themselves

To develop frame in a relationship you need to have developed your own frame / boundaries first, then you can create boundaries within a relationship / date, stop MIRRORING her behaviour / mimicking, you don’t develop your own identity, and you don’t get obsessed girls cause you’re just mirroring them and they click eventually it’s hollow / vapid, it’s non sticky for retention

CALIBRATED INTENSITY is key 🔑 how to stand out

Retention is the toughest element to teach because it’s not about tricks and deception ❌

It’s about becoming the man who doesn’t need to lie about who he is

But that’s what sticks around

Getting the girl you want, on your terms, and you’re both happy, she’s satisfied ✔️

Even the toxicity / drama is being ran by you, so that sides covered ☢️

My girls are happy, thriving and have high self esteem cause I don’t crush them down for them to stay

No tricks, no deception, no “finessing” or whatever it’s called these days,

no losing sleep worrying if somethings going to blowup because a girls going to find something out etc

I’ve refined getting this down to a simple system, starting with how to attract;

which is done by first doing the inner work to being uniquely you, giving her something she can’t get elsewhere . The real you.

- SRB

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Dating is focussing on the leaves of the tree

Mindset and substance / masculinity is focussing on the roots

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Dating tips in 2026

Tinder,
Cold approach,
Being calibrated
Low investment in the beginning and vetting her,

and PSYCHOLOGY from the best,

Removing poison / toxicity to get what you actually want 🪞

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The Man In The Glass 🪞

When you get what you want in your struggle for self
and the world makes you king for a day
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself
and see what that man has to say

For it isn't your father or mother or wife
who judgment upon you must pass
The fellow whose verdict counts the most in your life
is the one staring back from the glass

Some people may think you a straight-shooting chum
and call you a wonderful guy
But the guy in the glass says you're only a bum
if you can't look him straight in the eye

He's the fellow to please never mind all the rest
for he's with you clear up to the end
And you've passed your most dangerous difficult test
if the man in the glass is your friend

You may fool the whole world down the pathway
of life and get pats on the back as pass
But your final reward will be heartaches and
tears if you've cheated the man in the glass.

- Wimbrow SR

Why you need to get SPECIFIC about who you are, what you wanna be

And the girl you want

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Noob or not?

Stand by for the reveal

The universal law of supply and demand

But redpill dudes told me girls don’t like games

Guess I’m not an ALPHA anymore

Mask off moment

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Answering questions