Fake friends often say this, but when needed in times of trouble are rarely show this through their actions.

A true friend is the one who listens to us, offers advice, and supports us. However, fake friends downplay our feelings and invalidate our emotions.

This phrase is typically followed by a hurtful comment, which is disguised as constructive criticism. They might also say things like 'I'm just being honest...', but this would be followed by rude or judgmental comments.

Fake friends often use this tactic to make you doubt your reactions and feelings, when they make you feel bad.

It's often said, 'A friend is need is a friend indeed' and rightly so. But while fake friends might make promises or plans of meeting or being there for you, they don't follow through. Instead, they frequently make excuses to avoid spending time with you.

This is an attempt of fake friends to avoid taking responsibility for something offensive they said.

Fake friends often use this phrase to gain your trust and to make you share your secrets or innermost thoughts. However, then they use your words against you.

If this is followed by a positive memory, then it's fine. But if a friend keeps saying this and bringing up your past mistakes or embarassing moments frequently, it is their way of subtly pulling you down-- and fake friends often do this.