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assalamualaikum everyone! this is a channel for us to reflect on our wrongdoings! and to be a better Muslim in future, insha allah 🤍
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in times of despair, times of sorrow, times of anger, i would always try my best to turn back to Allah, my best source of comfort.

but we should also remember that we shall not only turn back to Him only on times of grief, but also your happy moments. be thenkful for his blessings that was brought upon us.

a tip! i would always try to listen to a quranic recitation everyday, slot in, atleast 1-2 minutes minimum, as that is the food for our imaan. 🤍

and these past few weeks, i needed it so much, i didn’t know i needed these recitations to calm my heart, allahu rabbi, i’m really thankful for all the blessings He provided us with, despite the sins that i’ve committed.
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Forwarded from My Quiet Hijrah 🎀
In a world where we constantly see snippets of everyone else’s lives, it’s easy to feel like we’re falling behind.

As women, we sometimes compare ourselves without even realising it. We compare our journeys, our friendships, our marriages, our careers, our appearance, and even our relationship with Allah.

But comparison is a burden the heart was never meant to carry.

Remember, what you see is not the full story. Every smile has its test. Every blessing has its responsibility. Every person is carrying something only Allah knows.

If Allah has blessed someone today, say, “Allahumma barik lahum.” Make du’a for them. A heart that celebrates the blessings of others is a heart that Allah expands.

And if you’re still waiting for your own du’a to be answered, don’t lose hope. Allah is never late. What He has written for you will reach you at the perfect time, in the most beautiful way.

May Allah remove envy from our hearts, replace it with gratitude and contentment, and make us among those whose hearts remain soft, sincere, and full of trust in His decree.

Jumu’ah Mubarak! May Allah accept our du’as, forgive our shortcomings, and grant us hearts that are at peace with His plans. 🤍
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Forwarded from Reminders by d
Sometimes Allah presents a challenge to push you to your limit

To teach you to have sabr, to allow you to understand that His Hands are in your affairs

We forget that a situation can turn around in a millisecond, as long as Allah has commanded and allowed it

Sometimes the solution finds its way to you immediately, other times it creeps up onto you slowly until the very last second

Have faith in Allah, because those who put their Trust in Him can never really lose
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Forwarded from My Quiet Hijrah 🎀
Perhaps the peace you’re searching for was never meant to be found in this dunya, It was always meant to be found in a heart that remembers Allah.

The journey isn’t about finding a perfect life.

It’s about finding your way back to Him.
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Forwarded from Reminders by d
If you intentionally refuse to donate out of fear of poverty, then surely that is most pitiful

We shouldnt refuse to give simply because we feel like there will be less for us, because at the end of the day the one who provides is Allah

Your charity may not always be in monetary form, for even the smallest act of giving is seen by Allah

While no one can force you to give, is charity not most beloved to Allah ?

Giving to others, will only give you more in return, if not in this dunya, you will definitely see your efforts reflected in your akhirat, because they will never go to vain when done sincerely 🤍
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to think about it, i don’t even know if i would be able to live through the next 5 years; what profession i would be working as, what kind of person i would end up to be, how is my relationship with Allah.

wallahu ‘alam. but i believe in Allah’s plan, and i really hope that i will continue to stay istiqomah in siratal mustaqim, and continue to guide and encourage my family and friends to get closer to Him.

but if my rizq to be alive in this dunya has ended, i hope that this little “da’wah” could be one of the reasons that would result me into being Ahli Jannah, but Allah knows best.

may Allah continue to guide us, and give us the strength to stay istiqomah. may Allah reward us with Jannatul Firdaus. allahumma amin.

bi iznillah.

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this is why it is important to learn from a real teacher. not saying that everything that we watch from social media is wrong, but it can be to a certain extent.

not gaining knowledge from someone who is qualified to teach could also be a reason you might be misguided, nauzubillah.

and on top of that, for our beloved reverts brothers and sisters, they might see Islam as a religion of “opression/many obligations/many rules”, when they are not taught by the real asatizah.

whereas on the other hand, Islam is a religion is peace, tranquility & most importantly freedom, the real way of life.

in sya allah, let’s make an effort to find a certified and qualified asatizah in mosques across your country! be it in Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia and other countries.

Allah sees your efforts. 🤍
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Forwarded from Qidreads
Istiqamah is hard. Some days you feel close to Allah, your ibadah feels easy, and your heart feels at peace. But there will also be days when you feel tired, distracted, and far away. And that's okay.

What matters is that you don't stop trying. Don't think that you have to become a perfect Muslim overnight. Take it slowly. Start again when you slip. Pray even when you don't feel like it. Make dua even when your heart feels heavy. Keep coming back to Allah, no matter how many times you fall.

Sometimes, the smallest things we do consistently may mean more than we realise. So don't underestimate your little efforts. Allah sees you trying, even on the days when you feel like you're not doing enough.

May Allah keep our hearts firm upon His deen, help us stay consistent in our worship, and let us return to Him every time we lose our way. Amin 🤍

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are done consistently, even if they are few.”
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Friday Sunnah Reminders 🤍📿

Jumu‘ah is the most blessed day of the week, honoured by Allah and described by Prophet Muhammad ﷺ as the best day.

Key Sunnahs of Friday:
1. Send abundant selawat upon Rasulullah ﷺ
Rasulullah ﷺ said:

“The person closest to me on the Day of Resurrection is the one who sent the most Selawat upon me.”
Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 484

2. Read Surah Al-Kahfi (first 10, last 10, or ideally the whole surah)
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on Friday, he will be illuminated with light between the two Fridays.”
Narrated by al-Haakim; graded Sahih by al-Albaani

3. Perform ghusl (Jumu‘ah bath) and maintain cleanliness
Abu Sa‘id Al-Khudri reported that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:

“The taking of a bath on Friday is compulsory for every Muslim who has attained puberty, and also cleaning of the teeth with siwak and using perfume if available.”
Sahih Bukhari

4. Wear fragrance and presentable clothing
Allah says:

“Put on your adornment on every occasion of prayer.”
Surah Al-A‘raf 7:31

5. Make du‘a to Allah abundantly
6. Trim nails and observe fitrah practices
Abu Hurayrah رضي الله عنه reported:

“Five are from the fitrah: circumcision, removing hair below the navel, trimming the moustache, trimming the nails, and removing underarm hair.”

7. Increase du‘a between Asr and Maghrib
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“On this day there is a time when no Muslim stands and prays, asking Allah for something, but Allah will grant it to him.”
— Bukhari & Muslim

Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله said this special hour is:

“The last hour after Asr.”
— Abu Dawud & An-Nasa’i

Even if you can’t do everything, don’t leave everything. May Allah accept our deeds and ease our affairs. 🕊

MD

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before this i have only heard from people around me, relatives, that when you’re invited once to Tanah Haram, you will definitely want to go once more.

honestly, at first, i didn’t believe it, i thought that they were all saying it just for the sake of saying it.

but wallahi, after i’ve finally stepped my sinful feets in Makkah, i finally understand it. the feeling of longing, still stays in me, even after almost a year. i am tearing up as i am writing this down.

not knowing when will be the next time i will be able to visit this beautiful city the world has ever witnessed.

the atmosphere, the feeling, the beauty in Makkah & Madinah is unmatched, ya allah.

i would do anything just for me to be there again, i need it ya allah.

ya rabb, allow us to visit this most beautiful place you’ve ever created in the world.

if money is not the issue, i’m sure i would love to visit Mecca, at least twice a year.

والله أعلم

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Forwarded from My Quiet Hijrah 🎀
Knowledge anchors the heart. Emotions may rise and fall, but true understanding teaches us patience, wisdom, and the strength to respond rather than simply react. The more we seek knowledge, the more we learn to make decisions that are pleasing to Allah.
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“rezeki Allah tu luas, rezeki tak salah alamat”

“the more you give, the more you’ll get, in sya الله”

“adik tak lokek dengan family, your rezeki takkan pernah sempit, it’ll be continuous like air zam-zam”

since young, my mom would often tell me these, hence this is something that i hold on until now.

personally, i do not like to be spent on, but love to spend on people around me, people whom i love.

even my friends, i would never allow them to pay for me, it’ll ended up to be a battle & debate. 😅

as i believe that Allah rizq is anywhere, money can be found in so many different forms and ways, hence, i should not be worried and just rely everything to Allah.

what my mom had aligned me with, the vision and mindset had also helped me in how i think, and unknowingly how i live my life too!

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Sayyidatina Aisyah R.A. reported:

The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said,

The best of you are the best to their families, and I am the best to my family. When your companion dies, then do not abuse him.”

Sunan al-Tirmidhī 3895

may all of us continue to do good to our family. 🥰
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Forwarded from Islamic Reminder ☾
‎“Know if the people admire you, verily (in essence) they are (actually) admiring the beautiful veil that Allah has covered you with.”

- Ibn Qayyim -

― Dakwah Of Quotes ☾
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One thing I’ve learnt over the years is this: appreciate the people Allah has placed in your life before the “final” happens.

The final conversation.
The final laugh.
The final meetup.
The final text.
The final opportunity to tell them, “I’m grateful for you.”

Not every final comes with death.

Sometimes, Allah writes for people to part ways. Sometimes distance grows. Sometimes hearts that were once so close become unfamiliar. Hearts can change, love can fade, and what once felt permanent can become a memory.

That’s why we shouldn’t delay kindness, appreciation, or love.
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Tell people you value them. Thank them for the little things. Make du’a for them. Forgive when you can. Be gentle while Allah has still written them into your story.

Don’t wait until their absence teaches you the value of their presence.

Because when the final finally comes, whether through death or distance, you’ll wish you had said more, loved more, and appreciated them more.

May Allah never let our hearts become too hard to appreciate those who once softened them, and may He reunite us with those we love in Jannah. Āmīn.
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