may our days be filled with nothing but baraqah & joy!

don’t forget, there must be someone out there, praying for you! 🥰

Before the day gets busy, here’s a gentle reminder for your heart.

You don’t have to carry everything on your own. If your heart feels tired, tell Allah. If you’re worried about the future, tell Allah. If you’ve been silently crying over something no one knows about, tell Allah.

He is never tired of listening to you.
Sometimes we think we need to become a better Muslimah before we deserve to ask Allah for help. But that’s not true. We become better by continuing to turn back to Him, again and again.

Don’t let yesterday’s mistakes stop you from trying today. Everything that you did sincerely is seen by the One who knows your heart better than anyone else.

So whatever you’re facing today, don’t lose hope. Walk into this day knowing that Allah is with those who are patient, those who keep trying, and those who place their trust in Him.

May Allah ease every burden you’re carrying and make today a day that brings you closer to Him.

Have a beautiful morning, sisters. May Allah place barakah in your time, protect you wherever you go, and remind you that no matter what happens today, you are never alone as long as you have Him. 🤍

A gentle reminder 🤍

Kita mati bukan kerana sakit.
Bukan kerana kanser.
Bukan kerana kemalangan.

Kita pergi apabila ajal yang Allah telah tetapkan sudah tiba, dan segala rezeki yang Allah tetapkan untuk kita di dunia ini telah selesai. Sakit hanyalah asbab.

Jangan tunggu “esok” untuk bertaubat.
Jangan tunggu “nanti” untuk mendekatkan diri kepada Allah.
Kerana kita tidak tahu bila hela nafas terakhir kita akan tiba.

Semoga Allah memanjangkan umur kita dalam kebaikan, melimpahkan rezeki yang berkat, dan mengurniakan kita husnul khatimah.

“ Ya Allah, kurniakanlah kami pengakhiran yang terbaik “

Friday Sunnah Reminders 🤍📿

Jumu‘ah is the most blessed day of the week, honoured by Allah and described by Prophet Muhammad ﷺ as the best day.

Key Sunnahs of Friday:

1. Send abundant selawat upon Rasulullah ﷺ
Rasulullah ﷺ said:

“The person closest to me on the Day of Resurrection is the one who sent the most Selawat upon me.”
— Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 484

2. Read Surah Al-Kahfi (first 10, last 10, or ideally the whole surah)
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on Friday, he will be illuminated with light between the two Fridays.”
— Narrated by al-Haakim; graded Sahih by al-Albaani

3. Perform ghusl (Jumu‘ah bath) and maintain cleanliness
Abu Sa‘id Al-Khudri reported that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:

“The taking of a bath on Friday is compulsory for every Muslim who has attained puberty, and also cleaning of the teeth with siwak and using perfume if available.”
— Sahih Bukhari

4. Wear fragrance and presentable clothing
Allah says:

“Put on your adornment on every occasion of prayer.”
— Surah Al-A‘raf 7:31

5. Make du‘a to Allah abundantly
6. Trim nails and observe fitrah practices
Abu Hurayrah رضي الله عنه reported:

“Five are from the fitrah: circumcision, removing hair below the navel, trimming the moustache, trimming the nails, and removing underarm hair.”

7. Increase du‘a between Asr and Maghrib
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“On this day there is a time when no Muslim stands and prays, asking Allah for something, but Allah will grant it to him.”
— Bukhari & Muslim

Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله said this special hour is:

“The last hour after Asr.”
— Abu Dawud & An-Nasa’i

Even if you can’t do everything, don’t leave everything. May Allah accept our deeds and ease our affairs. 🕊

MD

@selfreflectionforummah

take a step back, and breathe, instead of complaining about our own lives and how we are not doing things right,

try to be grateful for the blesssings that Allah had provided us with. for indeed, Allah loves those who are grateful, and will continue to give more when you are grateful.

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لَىِٕنْ شَكَرْتُمْ لَاَزِيْدَنَّكُمْ

If you are grateful, I will certainly give you more.

[Ibrahim v. 7]

@selfreflectionforummah

🌼

Sometimes we keep waiting until we're "better" before turning back to Allah…But that's not how it works

Come to Allah as you are.
Dengan segala flaws, penat, overthinking, and all the mistakes you've made.

Allah never asked us to be perfect. He only asked us to keep coming back to Him.

That's enough. 🤍

📉

over the years, through many phases of life, i came into realisation that, to be grateful in life, is very challenging, although we can verbally say it, but are we feeling it though?

i realised that in order for us to master the feeling of gratitude, we must first learn the art of lowering down your expectations.

when we lower down our expectations, you will rarely get disappointed or feel miserable, as you have nothing to be worried about.

the problem with some of us is that we have high expectations and standards, towards our friends, our family, our partner, and when things go south, we feel super miserable as it doesn’t go your way.

try, the art of letting go, توكل, leaving it to the hands of Allah, and appreciate every single moment you have, by lowering your expectations.

trust me you will feel super happy and grateful.

(like the spain v argentina match, i have high expectations for that match (bad habit), but if things actually went wrong, i would definitely be devastated)😆

subhanallah, it is raining right now. 🕊️

du’a when raining:

اللّهُمَّ صَيِّـباً نافِـعاً

Allahumma shoyibban nafi’a
O Allah, make it a beneficial rain!

Sahih Bukhari 1032.

Self reminder 💌 :

“ Mayat-mayat di dalam kubur sebenarnya amat cemburu dengan kita yang masih hidup. Sebab apa? Sebab kita masih berpeluang beramal soleh sedangkan mereka tak boleh. Orang yang tak nak beramal sebenarnya tak ada beza dengan mayat dalam kubur. Allahurobbi. ”

— Ustaz Azhar Idrus

I was staring into the dark when i suddenly remembered something my mum once told me.

"In the Akhirah, Allah will question every single thing we do."

That thought stayed with me.

Not just our prayers & fasting, but our work. How we earned our money & how we spent it. The way we treated our parents, our spouses, our children, our friends & even strangers. The words we spoke. The promises we made. The time we wasted. The blessings we were given but rarely thanked Allah for.

Sometimes we think, "It's only a small good just a small sin," or "No one saw it."

But Allah saw it.

Sometimes we think, "It's only a small good deed."

Allah saw that too.

Allah says:

"Whoever does an atom's weight of good will see it & whoever does an atom's weight of evil will see it." (Surah Az-Zalzalah 99:7–8)

The Prophet ﷺ also said that a person will not move from their place on the Day of Judgment until they are asked about their life, their youth, their wealth, how they earned it & how they spent it, & what they did with their knowledge. (Jami' at-Tirmidhi)

One day, our jobs, our salaries, our titles, our followers & everything we spent so much time chasing will be left behind. The only thing that will accompany us into our graves is our deeds.

May Allah make us mindful before we speak, before we act, before we earn, before we spend & before we meet Him. May He forgive our shortcomings, accept our repentance & make our questioning easy.

Friday Sunnah Reminders 🤍📿

Jumu‘ah is the most blessed day of the week, honoured by Allah and described by Prophet Muhammad ﷺ as the best day.

Key Sunnahs of Friday:
1. Send abundant selawat upon Rasulullah ﷺ
Rasulullah ﷺ said:

“The person closest to me on the Day of Resurrection is the one who sent the most Selawat upon me.”
— Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 484

2. Read Surah Al-Kahfi (first 10, last 10, or ideally the whole surah)
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on Friday, he will be illuminated with light between the two Fridays.”
— Narrated by al-Haakim; graded Sahih by al-Albaani

3. Perform ghusl (Jumu‘ah bath) and maintain cleanliness
Abu Sa‘id Al-Khudri reported that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:

“The taking of a bath on Friday is compulsory for every Muslim who has attained puberty, and also cleaning of the teeth with siwak and using perfume if available.”
— Sahih Bukhari

4. Wear fragrance and presentable clothing
Allah says:

“Put on your adornment on every occasion of prayer.”
— Surah Al-A‘raf 7:31

5. Make du‘a to Allah abundantly
6. Trim nails and observe fitrah practices
Abu Hurayrah رضي الله عنه reported:

“Five are from the fitrah: circumcision, removing hair below the navel, trimming the moustache, trimming the nails, and removing underarm hair.”

7. Increase du‘a between Asr and Maghrib
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“On this day there is a time when no Muslim stands and prays, asking Allah for something, but Allah will grant it to him.”
— Bukhari & Muslim

Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله said this special hour is:

“The last hour after Asr.”
— Abu Dawud & An-Nasa’i

Even if you can’t do everything, don’t leave everything. May Allah accept our deeds and ease our affairs. 🕊

MD

@selfreflectionforummah

🎭

in times of despair, times of sorrow, times of anger, i would always try my best to turn back to Allah, my best source of comfort.

but we should also remember that we shall not only turn back to Him only on times of grief, but also your happy moments. be thenkful for his blessings that was brought upon us.

a tip! i would always try to listen to a quranic recitation everyday, slot in, atleast 1-2 minutes minimum, as that is the food for our imaan. 🤍

and these past few weeks, i needed it so much, i didn’t know i needed these recitations to calm my heart, allahu rabbi, i’m really thankful for all the blessings He provided us with, despite the sins that i’ve committed.

In a world where we constantly see snippets of everyone else’s lives, it’s easy to feel like we’re falling behind.

As women, we sometimes compare ourselves without even realising it. We compare our journeys, our friendships, our marriages, our careers, our appearance, and even our relationship with Allah.

But comparison is a burden the heart was never meant to carry.

Remember, what you see is not the full story. Every smile has its test. Every blessing has its responsibility. Every person is carrying something only Allah knows.

If Allah has blessed someone today, say, “Allahumma barik lahum.” Make du’a for them. A heart that celebrates the blessings of others is a heart that Allah expands.

And if you’re still waiting for your own du’a to be answered, don’t lose hope. Allah is never late. What He has written for you will reach you at the perfect time, in the most beautiful way.

May Allah remove envy from our hearts, replace it with gratitude and contentment, and make us among those whose hearts remain soft, sincere, and full of trust in His decree.

Jumu’ah Mubarak! May Allah accept our du’as, forgive our shortcomings, and grant us hearts that are at peace with His plans. 🤍

Sometimes Allah presents a challenge to push you to your limit

To teach you to have sabr, to allow you to understand that His Hands are in your affairs

We forget that a situation can turn around in a millisecond, as long as Allah has commanded and allowed it

Sometimes the solution finds its way to you immediately, other times it creeps up onto you slowly until the very last second

Have faith in Allah, because those who put their Trust in Him can never really lose

Perhaps the peace you’re searching for was never meant to be found in this dunya, It was always meant to be found in a heart that remembers Allah.

The journey isn’t about finding a perfect life.

It’s about finding your way back to Him.

If you intentionally refuse to donate out of fear of poverty, then surely that is most pitiful

We shouldnt refuse to give simply because we feel like there will be less for us, because at the end of the day the one who provides is Allah

Your charity may not always be in monetary form, for even the smallest act of giving is seen by Allah

While no one can force you to give, is charity not most beloved to Allah ?

Giving to others, will only give you more in return, if not in this dunya, you will definitely see your efforts reflected in your akhirat, because they will never go to vain when done sincerely 🤍

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to think about it, i don’t even know if i would be able to live through the next 5 years; what profession i would be working as, what kind of person i would end up to be, how is my relationship with Allah.

wallahu ‘alam. but i believe in Allah’s plan, and i really hope that i will continue to stay istiqomah in siratal mustaqim, and continue to guide and encourage my family and friends to get closer to Him.

but if my rizq to be alive in this dunya has ended, i hope that this little “da’wah” could be one of the reasons that would result me into being Ahli Jannah, but Allah knows best.

may Allah continue to guide us, and give us the strength to stay istiqomah. may Allah reward us with Jannatul Firdaus. allahumma amin.

bi iznillah.

❤️

life is too short, anyone can leave this dunya anytime, death doesn’t look at your age.