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I bought my potato PC last year. Yeah, probably more recently than most of you think. Before that, I used to go to the 6kilo Digital Lab just to use a computer. Sometimes it was packed, so I had to show up early. Couldn’t even leave for lunch — I’d lose my…
Let’s talk about dating (spicy, right? 😁).
Stop dating just for fun.
Take some real time for yourself — get to know who you are, and build a real connection with God before letting someone into your heart (or whatever space you’ve prepared for them 😁).
Try asking one of those “used-to-be all-night flirters” how they feel about it now. Are they proud of it as they grow older? Would you be?
This is real life, not high school.
One reason I say uni feels like high school for some people is because I see dudes spending half their night texting girls they’ll stop talking to in two weeks. Come on now...
Again — take responsibility, guys.
@selfmadecoder
Stop dating just for fun.
Take some real time for yourself — get to know who you are, and build a real connection with God before letting someone into your heart (or whatever space you’ve prepared for them 😁).
Try asking one of those “used-to-be all-night flirters” how they feel about it now. Are they proud of it as they grow older? Would you be?
This is real life, not high school.
One reason I say uni feels like high school for some people is because I see dudes spending half their night texting girls they’ll stop talking to in two weeks. Come on now...
Again — take responsibility, guys.
@selfmadecoder
I’ll be back in an hour. If you’re still up, you’ll get to hear some of my raw, fresh thoughts 😁
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@selfmadecoder
Peer pressure is real. You’ve got to learn to set boundaries — especially now.
People will say, “boundaries are for old folks,” but that’s false. The life you’re building today will shape your future and affect the people around you.
Be conscious of who you let close.
Be picky — that’s not ego, that’s self-respect.
If someone’s moving in the opposite direction of who you want to be — especially if they have no ambition — I’ve got nothing but the Gospel for them. That’s it.
And please, don’t befriend people just to avoid being alone. That’s worse than being alone.
If you want solid friends, be the kind of person you’d want to have in your life.
@selfmadecoderr
People will say, “boundaries are for old folks,” but that’s false. The life you’re building today will shape your future and affect the people around you.
Be conscious of who you let close.
Be picky — that’s not ego, that’s self-respect.
If someone’s moving in the opposite direction of who you want to be — especially if they have no ambition — I’ve got nothing but the Gospel for them. That’s it.
And please, don’t befriend people just to avoid being alone. That’s worse than being alone.
If you want solid friends, be the kind of person you’d want to have in your life.
@selfmadecoderr
Forwarded from Austererie-Comments (Archduke)
When giving excuses becomes the norm in your head, you'll find an excuse for your incompetence instead of admitting it and trying to improve.
I wish I could tell y’all to hit the gym — but I’m not even going myself (yet).
I need to tho. At this point, it’s not even an option it's a necessity.
@selfmadecoder
I need to tho. At this point, it’s not even an option it's a necessity.
@selfmadecoder
Finally watch this movie.
Movie name: Whiplash — I’ll drop it in the comments.
Rant over. Sorry if I yapped too much, just couldn’t leave without saying this.
@selfmadecoder
Movie name: Whiplash — I’ll drop it in the comments.
Rant over. Sorry if I yapped too much, just couldn’t leave without saying this.
@selfmadecoder
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Forwarded from DoughNut 🍩
Be me.
- Got registered for the ETEX hackathon.
- Got the email, joined the meeting, opened the hackathon website.
- Chose "Military and Security" as the problem statement—thought I’d build some cool stuff.
- Quit the hackathon 5 minutes later after realizing it was basically a CTF.
I don’t know who else got fooled like I did. But a hackathon is very different from a CTF, wegen.. A hackathon to a hacker is like a car to a carpenter.
@selfmadecoder
- Got registered for the ETEX hackathon.
- Got the email, joined the meeting, opened the hackathon website.
- Chose "Military and Security" as the problem statement—thought I’d build some cool stuff.
- Quit the hackathon 5 minutes later after realizing it was basically a CTF.
I don’t know who else got fooled like I did. But a hackathon is very different from a CTF, wegen.. A hackathon to a hacker is like a car to a carpenter.
@selfmadecoder