Arablarda shunday hikmat bor: “Dunyodagi eng aqlli erkakka ham ustoz kerak. Eng aqlli ayol ham oila qurishdan behojat emas.”

Kuzatuvlarim shuni ko‘rsatdiki, ustozsiz qolgan erkak ko‘pincha hayotini sinov va xatolar bilan o‘tkazadi. Har ishga bosh suqadi, har fikrga ergashadi yoki aksincha, hech kimning nasihatini olmay, faqat o‘z bilganicha yashaydi. Natijada na shaxsiyati, na dunyoqarashi, na hayoti kerakli darajada shakllanadi.

Ustozi, yo‘lboshchisi bo‘lgan erkaklarda esa manzara boshqacha. Ular mas’uliyatliroq, qat’iyatliroq, maqsadlariga yaqinroq va ko‘pincha hayotda peshqadamroq bo‘ladilar. Chunki inson o‘zining ko‘ra olmaydigan kamchiliklarini unga ko‘rsatib turadigan kishiga muhtoj.

Bugun esa turli g‘oyalar, ijtimoiy tarmoqlar va noto‘g‘ri ta’sirlar sabab ko‘plab yosh erkaklarning ma’naviyati, xarakteri va mas’uliyat hissi zaiflashib bormoqda. Holbuki, asrlar davomida erkak oila boshlig‘i, tayanchi, himoyachisi va yetakchisi bo‘lib kelgan.

Eng tashvishlanarlisi, bugun ijtimoiy tarmoqlarda erkaklarga qanday erkak bo‘lish kerakligini ayollar o‘rgatadigan darajaga kelib qoldik. Hayosizlik, tarbiyasizlik va mas’uliyatsizlik esa odatiy holdek qabul qilinmoqda.

Aslida insonni tarbiyalaydigan, haddini bildiradigan, xatosini yuziga aytadigan va o‘sishga majbur qiladigan bu — ustozdir. Shu sabab bugun ayollar ham, erkaklar ham ustoz tutishga muhtoj.

Ayniqsa erkak kishi o‘zidan ilmda, tajribada, odobda va mas’uliyatda ustun bo‘lgan insonlarning etagidan tutishi lozim. Chunki komil erkaklar tasodifan paydo bo‘lib qolmaydi — ular tarbiya, suhbat va ustozlar qo‘lida yetishadi.

Shu maqsadda Akrom Malik ustoz erkaklar uchun yangi loyiha boshlabdilar. O‘ylaymanki, bu loyiha bugungi davrda o‘zini isloh qilishni istagan yigitlar va erkaklar uchun foydali qadamlardan biri bo‘ladi.

Yaqinlaringizga, ukalaringizga, o‘g‘illaringizga ulashing. Chunki kuchli jamiyat avvalo tarbiyalangan erkaklardan boshlanadi👇🏻

“Xarakter loyihasi”

Dugonam Roziya tavsiya qildi, Akrom Malik Ustoz bilan hayotta ko’rishib ilmlaridan bahra olishimga ham shu dugonam sababchi bo’lgan, baraka topsin!

Akrom Malik Ustozni bu kurslari erkaklar uchun juda manfaatli bo’lishiga ishonaman!

Plans for the upcoming week:

Need to present Gamification Upgrade plan at work.

Start my IELTS course lessons.
I’ll be focusing on it until the end of July. I will have to cancel all the non-primary staffs and deep focus on it.

Will run 4 times this week in the morning.

Will start saying “NO”.

If we love, we always find time, even if we are too busy.

I love dancing so much🫶🏻

I couldn't read Quran lately, and felt kinda lost barakah..

As a solution I have started reading online version. It is very convinient for people who sits at computer every day!

https://app.quranflash.com/book/Tajweed?en#/reader/chapter/556

Ennnnnnngggggg shukronalik keltiradigan narsam bu tarvuz🥹

Alhamdulillaaaaah🥲
Allohim yana yetqazdi!

Rasmda tarvuz bilan tarvuzcham😽

LOCK-IN mode activated 🔓

I'm a bit in a panic mode, I'm not managing to focus on my priorities.

Sleep schedule has totally gone out of rail. Recently got distracted a lot for non-priority staffs, but did it with love, alhamdulilah❤️

I have important tasks I need to submit at my work by tomorrow and start working on my IELTS.

New Job + starting prep for IELTS is being a bit stressful.

Alright, instead of stressing, I will be focusing mostly on my work for the coming two days. Starting from Saturday I'll be be focusing more on IELTS.

I should sleep more to be more productive and that's what I'm lacking.
I'll fix it in shaa Allah.

Alright,
I got a drop of motivation before praying Bomdod and going finally to sleep.

Knowing why you're doing is the most powerful source of energy!

https://youtu.be/7NBrLj61CXg?si=dYgV5WZGqsbM1Lqx