We must never forget that it is through our actions, words, and thoughts that we have a choice.
This is not meant to make anyone feel bad about how they deal with stuff... But I am someone who has always struggled to find happiness in the traditional sense of it.... all the motivational videos and those overly simplistic quotes that give you a sense of relief for a few moments are like a cheap perfume with very small lifespan... it simply diffuses away and I can again smell that stench within me, which always brings me to my original state of mind... I wish I was not as self-aware of my shortcomings and I could enjoy life for what it is like so many people I see doing it.... After reading fair share of self-help books, I came across "The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking" which makes a lot of sense to someone like me so anyone who feels always let down by the typical motivational and "you can do anything" stuff, Do try this book.
I'm tired of this damn life , but i'm not brave enough to end it 💔
im very sad 😭😭 because eveeyone who same age with me has continued their study but me still in high school because of me sick last year. -TARO-
Honest Confession : The only thing i really want in life is someone to love and trust. Atleast one person, who would not deceit me and stay.
Honest Confession: The place i live is a place i love but there is no way i can stay. Most people of this country have totally diff ideals and beliefs, i feel suffocated. Thats why I hv planned to escape, in pretext of education.
I still have any idea what to do in life . What's the purpose of my life .
Honestly nobody has any sure shot idea about whats the perfect thing to do, everyone's trying their best... Some of us, have a fixation with trying to do things perfectly and that anxiety about getting one life and not doing anything meaningful because how society treats and praises the outliers and prodigies, all we see is the good side of it we will never know what it feels like to be Elon musk or bill gates, we must always keep ourselves grounded in the reality and live in the now. All this anxiety and panic attacks bubble up when you look at the future with the lenses of past, thinking that your track record so far has somehow fixed your path and you completely ignore the now and just keep suffering in that purgatory of your own creation.
We always try to find our happiness, however we don't realize that happiness is inside us...
I am 18y/o and I'm an XS
No. I'm not unhealthy. However, people look at me, feel miserable, tip me on gaining weight and leave. I mean, SO unnecessary and inappropriate. At times, I feel disgusted with my own body which I never thought about earlier. But then I stop my thought process to cheer myself up. The difference is, I am happy with who I am but I'm forced to not feel so. I'm starting to feel extremely demotivated. Also, I have an illness anxiety disorder but that's a whole another story. I used to be one jolly little girl who's turning into a anxiety stricken one. It would be so kind of someone to at least help me with my thought process. I can handle the rest. I have to!
No. I'm not unhealthy. However, people look at me, feel miserable, tip me on gaining weight and leave. I mean, SO unnecessary and inappropriate. At times, I feel disgusted with my own body which I never thought about earlier. But then I stop my thought process to cheer myself up. The difference is, I am happy with who I am but I'm forced to not feel so. I'm starting to feel extremely demotivated. Also, I have an illness anxiety disorder but that's a whole another story. I used to be one jolly little girl who's turning into a anxiety stricken one. It would be so kind of someone to at least help me with my thought process. I can handle the rest. I have to!
He ask me is that ring looks good? But sorry the owner isn't me.
I used to hate my life. My old friends abandoned me, my family was chaotic and the guy I used to like was an asshole who treated me like a piece of trash but you know what they say time has the power to heal wounds and I believe that everything happened for a good reason. Now I have a very good and faithful friends who I would kill for and they would do the same for me. My family is in a better place and I now have a boyfriend that I love more than life it self. Time has thought me to live life to the fullest and make memories cause we won't get back the time we lost but we can make up for it. I am now happier cause I accepted life the way it is and never gave up on everything till last minute I don't have any regrets. When life gives u lemon make lemonade is the quote and I believe we can make sometime out of life in our darkest days if we learned to never give up and give everything another chance😄😄😄
We are unique and beautiful the way we are. Strive to be a better version of yourself everyday. Don't compare your life with others. Your life and path is unique to you and youself.
"life will bring pain all by itself so your responsibility is to CREATE a joy"
I think purpose of my life is to be happy and to make others happy. For me secret of happiness is to find tiny things that make me happy in every single moment. Not everyone one enjoys his life by just observing leaves of a tree swaying in the wind, but I do😊. Or I can create my own happy moments by just sharing a smile, a hug or a shoulder to lean on. Sooo... everything you need to be happy is within you )
You know, some people are destined to experience weird destiny.
You know, when you feel useless and feel as if the world or someone's life will be better if you don't exist, it's because you keep blaming yourself. Some, blaming themselves for something they never did. It's unhealthy and leads to depression. remember, you are enough. Mistakes exist to be lessons for us to grow up and be mature.