Lack Of Masculinity in Bengali MEN?🤷♂️
ei post modern doomer er juge biswa nagarik er gour chondrika na korai bhalo, moshai. We pretty much had a history of kushti, laathi khela even in colonial times. Even our Mahanayak was a master of all those sports. Later congress era r commie era te the idea bengali youth shifted towards being skinny ciggerate smoking intellectuals, to the present biriyani addicted degenerates.
Ekhon kojon ke dekhen regular sports khelte, otay chehara noy choritro o toiri hoy. Niyomito bhalo diet ar sorir chorcha, amader onek monishi ebong golper priyo nayok er o tai chhilo bandhadhora, toh amra keno seta dhore rakhte parini? Don't just blame corporates, college going peers der moddheo agroho dekhini.
Physical aptitude chhere dilam, amra mentally o weak hoye porechi. No one has that assertive confidence, Elvish bhoi er moto hote hobena, he's rubbish but ekta I think we'll all agree a change is necessary.
And no one is calling you feminine. Being feminine has nothing to do with lack of masculinity. Otar jonno joggota lage. Most women are gifted with it, only a selective men can access it. Theatre actors, writers, artists take decades to reach the opposite gender's energy so it's highly respectful. We should nurture our gifts and be our best selves. Most bengali guys are as insensitive as our northern counterparts, it's just we are mostly soft and may be less toxic upfront.
This is a man to man talk. All my life I have seen my people being belittled and living in the past. I stand out and give my best. Ei lyadh khawa passive culture ta ke chharte hobe. Etai bolar🤷♂️
P.S. I was replying to a comment & thought I should just post it with some more inputs.
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ei post modern doomer er juge biswa nagarik er gour chondrika na korai bhalo, moshai. We pretty much had a history of kushti, laathi khela even in colonial times. Even our Mahanayak was a master of all those sports. Later congress era r commie era te the idea bengali youth shifted towards being skinny ciggerate smoking intellectuals, to the present biriyani addicted degenerates.
Ekhon kojon ke dekhen regular sports khelte, otay chehara noy choritro o toiri hoy. Niyomito bhalo diet ar sorir chorcha, amader onek monishi ebong golper priyo nayok er o tai chhilo bandhadhora, toh amra keno seta dhore rakhte parini? Don't just blame corporates, college going peers der moddheo agroho dekhini.
Physical aptitude chhere dilam, amra mentally o weak hoye porechi. No one has that assertive confidence, Elvish bhoi er moto hote hobena, he's rubbish but ekta I think we'll all agree a change is necessary.
And no one is calling you feminine. Being feminine has nothing to do with lack of masculinity. Otar jonno joggota lage. Most women are gifted with it, only a selective men can access it. Theatre actors, writers, artists take decades to reach the opposite gender's energy so it's highly respectful. We should nurture our gifts and be our best selves. Most bengali guys are as insensitive as our northern counterparts, it's just we are mostly soft and may be less toxic upfront.
This is a man to man talk. All my life I have seen my people being belittled and living in the past. I stand out and give my best. Ei lyadh khawa passive culture ta ke chharte hobe. Etai bolar🤷♂️
P.S. I was replying to a comment & thought I should just post it with some more inputs.
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Urgent help needed for my mother
M21 here. So we are in a lot of debt due to a fake case on my fathers name. And hardly have any savings. All income goes towards EMI and legal stuffs.
Recently, my mother started having pain in heart for three days with high fever. The local government hospital has doctor available weekly on Friday only.
But my mothers conditions seems worse and painkillers are ineffective too. I think I have to take her to a private doctor it seems right now.
I don't have any money now, so is there any app or something from where i can borrow 5k and take my mother to doctor for initial treatment until government doctor is available. This is urgent.
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M21 here. So we are in a lot of debt due to a fake case on my fathers name. And hardly have any savings. All income goes towards EMI and legal stuffs.
Recently, my mother started having pain in heart for three days with high fever. The local government hospital has doctor available weekly on Friday only.
But my mothers conditions seems worse and painkillers are ineffective too. I think I have to take her to a private doctor it seems right now.
I don't have any money now, so is there any app or something from where i can borrow 5k and take my mother to doctor for initial treatment until government doctor is available. This is urgent.
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Is this acceptable or normal for a teacher especially somebody who has invested time, energy and money to earn his masters?
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