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Your twenties are always an apprenticeship, but you don't always know what for.
Why work with a group of people who don’t even like each other? Many seem to think it’s a sacrifice necessary for making money. But taking a merely professional view of the workplace, in which free agents check in and out on a transactional basis, is worse than cold: it’s not even rational. Since time is your most valuable asset, it’s odd to spend it working with people who don’t envision any long-term future together. If you can’t count durable relationships among the fruits of your time at work, you haven’t invested your time well—even in purely financial terms.
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Being entirely honest with oneself is a good exercise.
- Frequency of failure? Very high. People routinely lie to themselves more than to others.
- Cost of doing it well? Also high — being honest might lead to painful lifestyle changes, loss of illusions, or collapse of self-image.
Understanding that biases exist is the first step to mitigation.
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