A narcissist searches for a victim not a love but the commonest way to hunt down a victim is to come posing as that love, listener and caring person to whom you let down your guards without thinking… trust MUST be earned by consistency which you should observe and discern.

Rush can crush in essence! Don’t be hasty to declare “this is the love of my life” when you haven’t given time to see what the life is!

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How do you know that the person you are dating or considering to spend the rest of your life with has healthy emotions and that their ego is not toxically inflated?

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A narcissist searches for a victim not a love but the commonest way to hunt down a victim is to come posing as that love, listener and caring person to whom you let down your guards without thinking… trust MUST be earned by consistency which you should observe and discern.

Once they begin to change and turn on you, making you second guess yourself, wondering if you are normal or mad… do not lie to yourself about the reality they are creating!

Rush can crush in essence! Don’t be hasty to declare “this is the love of my life” when you haven’t given time to see what the life is!

#narcissism
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SERMON NOTES 📍

Philophobia - Ocholi Okutepa

📍 God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. - 1 John 4:16

📍 Man was made by love, for love and to love

📍 The fear of love is therefore a strategy to deny you God’s best!

PHOBIA:
A phobia is an intense and often irrational fear of a specific object, situation, or activity that poses little to no actual danger.
This fear can be so overwhelming that it provokes severe anxiety and interferes with normal life functions.

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The Biblical word at the root of or that replaces or identifies as “Phobia” are the word FEAR, ANXIETY, WORRY!

📍 Science has a way of using attractive words to depict demonic conditions 😊

1. Phobias are planted and rooted in Thoughts based on our past experiences or exposure to the experiences of others.

2. ⁠Those thoughts lead to assumptions about life and future events and ultimately end in imagined conclusions that are not necessarily factual.


3. ⁠The underlying motive of Satan is to use that phobia to cripple ability and action.

4. ⁠Take thoughts captive by active meditation on the promises and plans of God for you in scripture.

This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall read [and meditate on] it day and night, so that you may be careful to do [everything] in accordance with all that is written in it; for then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will be successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not be terrified or dismayed (intimidated), for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”
⁃ Joshua 1:8-9 (AMP)

We demolish arguments and every presumption set up against the knowledge of God; and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ - 2 Corinthians 10:5 (Majority Standard Bible)


5. ⁠Pick out good examples and eliminate focus on negative examples.

But we long to see you passionately advance until the end and you find your hope fulfilled. 12 So don’t allow your hearts to grow dull or lose your enthusiasm, but follow the example of those who fully received what God has promised because of their strong faith and patient endurance. - Hebrews 6:11-12 TPT

Join Pastors Ocholi and Julia Okutepa as they teach in Kaduna (shortly)

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HOW GOD WILL CHANGE YOUR STORY WITH HIS GLORY - Ocholi Okutepa
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