"HIAF"
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Hi "Hiaf" family!

Create Space for Connection

Feeling stuck in a conflict or just needing a safe space to be heard? I am currently offering one-on-one and couples empathy sessions.
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Its like Learning a new language.

Everytime there are these jackal judments as quickly as possible bring yourself back to life.

Or more specifically
Connect to needs
Needs are life.

Don't hear expectations
Don't HEAR it
Thats thoughts

Hear the need.
Empathize and be present
More likely to get what we want.

Change the word natural to habitual.

I think this process is natural.

More natural than the way you were trained to think.

Anger is a feeling created by unnatural thinking.

"It's very dangerous to mix up the words natural and habitual

We have been trained to communicate habitually, in ways that are unnatural."

Ghandi
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3 hours 30 mins in it gets into avoidance of conflict and how to offer connection/empathy/needs when someone only wants to carry on with "the jackal story" its brilliant.

& a bit before that
How to scream in giraffe.

This is the best workshop.
Loved it.

An example of pure real training rather than an explanation of the process and why.

A must watch for shanti sena to be innerstood.

https://www.bitchute.com/video/kwoNn5qmIJQ0/
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Synonymous.
"Jackal" left brain ~ winning and losing
"Giraffe" right brain ~ trusting in god Jew

We have been educated to work for extrinsic rewards to please authorities in domination systems that punishes us if we don't do what it wants.

Erase the following words from your conciousnes.
Right, wrong, good, bad, normal, abnormal, appropriate inappropriate etc etc....forever.

They destroy a beautiful game that comes out of our hearts and implys wrongness.
Almost guarantees that we will not get what we want.

Anything people hear that's sounding like a demand or a criticism destroys the beauty of giving.

These nvc techniques are designed to reestablish the focus on, is our behavior serving our needs and making life wonderful?

Feelings & needs then at the speed of light a request.

A fluent exchange of that information and nothing else. With nun of those compassion killers words mixed in.

everyone's needs can be met without any coercion or violence.
When we learn to maintain that FLOW.

Feel throught the internal beat up of your Jackal(thoughts).
Give your self emergency first aid empathy any time or find a local giraffe.

Try a search in your area if there are giraffe meet ups to build up reassurance & practice in challenging situations.
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Feelings and needs reference guide.
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The four steps for expressing anger compassionately explained by…
Giraffe NVC
The four steps for expressing anger compassionately explained by Marshall Rosenberg (Audio only)
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30 th jan ozzy
"HIAF" Healing is a Feeling! ❤️🪕 🍉🍇🍓🥝🥭4 U 2 eat.
1hour 30 mins in tom took us into an astrology of the retrograde patterns and 25 hour moon/2 and a half day zodiac cycle.
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Forwarded from 🏡Family TWO
Forwarded from Martin Willemoes Hansen
Breafast with cherries and mango. I’m grateful to have such delights 🙂