Large labia is NORMAL!
I wanted to make this post because I feel like more women (and men, especially) need to know that large labia is normal. It has no indication of your sexual history. It has nothing to do with your own sexual exploration. It is your own biological development. Since I went through my own pubescent development I was insecure of my own vulva, much like the rest of the population. Man or women. But your labia is normal. You are perfectly normal. Just because it is not in media or porn doesn’t mean it’s not normal. It IS normal. If you fear someone will not want to engage with you sexually because you have a large labia, it is not true. People who think you have a “roast beef” vulva are highly uneducated in human anatomy. I feel the need to say this because I was insecure for a very long time about it. I wish more people talked about it. I wish there wasn’t a stigma about it. Surgery won’t make you feel better. Self acceptance and self love will make you feel way better. You have a healthy and beautiful vulva. You are worthy of someone loving you the way you are biologically. And sex might even feel better with a larger labia.
People who think larger labia are gross are just less educated humans. I was insecure about it for a long time. I wouldn’t speak about it in fear of ridicule. But if someone brings it up I will educate them. Because I know MY own body. I know the facts. I know the things they say aren’t true. And everyone with a vulva, who are privy to the facts, should educate them. Because who is to say you aren’t normal? Preferences is one thing, but to say large labia is because a woman is loose is BULLSHIT. Women with large labia know that. Most everyone else doesn’t!
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I wanted to make this post because I feel like more women (and men, especially) need to know that large labia is normal. It has no indication of your sexual history. It has nothing to do with your own sexual exploration. It is your own biological development. Since I went through my own pubescent development I was insecure of my own vulva, much like the rest of the population. Man or women. But your labia is normal. You are perfectly normal. Just because it is not in media or porn doesn’t mean it’s not normal. It IS normal. If you fear someone will not want to engage with you sexually because you have a large labia, it is not true. People who think you have a “roast beef” vulva are highly uneducated in human anatomy. I feel the need to say this because I was insecure for a very long time about it. I wish more people talked about it. I wish there wasn’t a stigma about it. Surgery won’t make you feel better. Self acceptance and self love will make you feel way better. You have a healthy and beautiful vulva. You are worthy of someone loving you the way you are biologically. And sex might even feel better with a larger labia.
People who think larger labia are gross are just less educated humans. I was insecure about it for a long time. I wouldn’t speak about it in fear of ridicule. But if someone brings it up I will educate them. Because I know MY own body. I know the facts. I know the things they say aren’t true. And everyone with a vulva, who are privy to the facts, should educate them. Because who is to say you aren’t normal? Preferences is one thing, but to say large labia is because a woman is loose is BULLSHIT. Women with large labia know that. Most everyone else doesn’t!
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Transition Magic
Hope it’s ok to post this here. I haven’t said much in this space but it seems trans inclusive. And collages like this make me feel like a magical shapeshifter so a witchy sub seems like an appropriate space!
-6 months HRT to today, just over 13 months of the magic of having the right hormones!
Witchiness was one of my comfort spaces in my late teens. After my first attempt to transition at 19 failed and I went deep into hiding, witchcraft is one of the things I lost in my fear of being found out. I haven’t quite figured out how to reconnect but nice been feeling like I really want to lately. source
Hope it’s ok to post this here. I haven’t said much in this space but it seems trans inclusive. And collages like this make me feel like a magical shapeshifter so a witchy sub seems like an appropriate space!
-6 months HRT to today, just over 13 months of the magic of having the right hormones!
Witchiness was one of my comfort spaces in my late teens. After my first attempt to transition at 19 failed and I went deep into hiding, witchcraft is one of the things I lost in my fear of being found out. I haven’t quite figured out how to reconnect but nice been feeling like I really want to lately. source
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“I’d rather have a dead daughter than a gay one”
That’s what my ex’s mother said to her years ago, when we were 15. She kicked my ex out of home and threatened my life some time after. That’s also when my ex started doing drugs.
Today the woman I loved when we were teenagers fell from the 9th floor of a building while high as a fucking kite. She was 24, a polyglot, taught English to native kids from poor communities in Brazil, was an animal lover vegan, a writer, and a proudly out bisexual woman.
Ladies, take care of your lesbian and bisexual sisters. The lesbophobia perpetrated by families put many of us in terrible paths. I also notice that women addicts tend to lose their support net way quicker than males.
And to all of the women struggling with addiction right now… Stay safe. I know there isn’t much I can say that hasn’t been said before, so that’s all I ask for. Reduce harm as much as you can. Quitting is not easy, I know, but you need to at least stay alive right now. Just fucking take care of yourselves.
I love you all.
Edit: I’d like to thank all of you for the kind words, but I don’t find myself able to answer individually right now. To make things clear, yes, we dated as teenagers, broke up when things got really hard, but never stopped being friends, sometimes lovers, y’all know how things go. We went totally different paths though, dated other women and men, fought and made peace with each other many times, but she would forever be my teenage sweetheart, the one I loved and cherished despite life putting us in different paths. And I still love her very much. It’s been 10 years of love and then friendship and we went through a lot together, I don’t think you can ever stop loving a person after how much we went through together. And believe me, despite her bad decisions, she was amazing, she was beautiful, she had the most contagious smile in this world, she was so genuine, had the sweetest drawly accent I’ve ever heard, and was just so smart, so painfully intelligent, and so full of life. Once again, I’m thankful for your kindness. Take care of yourselves and each other, life is just too fragile.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/znwl5x/id_rather_have_a_dead_daughter_than_a_gay_one/ source
That’s what my ex’s mother said to her years ago, when we were 15. She kicked my ex out of home and threatened my life some time after. That’s also when my ex started doing drugs.
Today the woman I loved when we were teenagers fell from the 9th floor of a building while high as a fucking kite. She was 24, a polyglot, taught English to native kids from poor communities in Brazil, was an animal lover vegan, a writer, and a proudly out bisexual woman.
Ladies, take care of your lesbian and bisexual sisters. The lesbophobia perpetrated by families put many of us in terrible paths. I also notice that women addicts tend to lose their support net way quicker than males.
And to all of the women struggling with addiction right now… Stay safe. I know there isn’t much I can say that hasn’t been said before, so that’s all I ask for. Reduce harm as much as you can. Quitting is not easy, I know, but you need to at least stay alive right now. Just fucking take care of yourselves.
I love you all.
Edit: I’d like to thank all of you for the kind words, but I don’t find myself able to answer individually right now. To make things clear, yes, we dated as teenagers, broke up when things got really hard, but never stopped being friends, sometimes lovers, y’all know how things go. We went totally different paths though, dated other women and men, fought and made peace with each other many times, but she would forever be my teenage sweetheart, the one I loved and cherished despite life putting us in different paths. And I still love her very much. It’s been 10 years of love and then friendship and we went through a lot together, I don’t think you can ever stop loving a person after how much we went through together. And believe me, despite her bad decisions, she was amazing, she was beautiful, she had the most contagious smile in this world, she was so genuine, had the sweetest drawly accent I’ve ever heard, and was just so smart, so painfully intelligent, and so full of life. Once again, I’m thankful for your kindness. Take care of yourselves and each other, life is just too fragile.
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Do we celebrate doctoral witches here! I graduated after a helluva PhD journey. Joint PhD in computer science and plant genetics . source
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Guy from a dating app unleashed his incel misogyny on me
We had 1 date and I thought he seemed really weird and awkward. I walked away not wanting to see him again, but when he asked for a 2nd date I decided I should give him another chance because first dates are always hard.
He said he'd plan bowling or something like that and then disappeared for a week, I assumed I was ghosted and was fine with that.
Then out of the blue after not hearing from him for a week, he asked me over to his place to watch a movie and said we might talk but no guarantee. So I assumed that's asking for a hookup and ignored it.
The next day he sends this text:
"You know you're almost 30 right? Most of your eggs are already dried up. That is a fact. Tick tock tick tock that is your limited value going out the window. Best of luck, you glass of aged milk. Mr. Perfect isn't out there, you're too old to be picky. Sorry for being honest. Your life sucks."
I recently broke up with a different guy and when I broke it off he said similar things.
"Years may go by before you find someone else and then you'll get to a point where you can't have kids. You might still be attractive when you're older but I mean I haven't even hit my peak attractiveness yet and won't until I'm in my 40s. But women have a much smaller window. You have a biological clock that's gonna run out."
Mind you that guy didn't even want to have kids.
I guess I'm done. I was happier single with my career, friends, family, and hobbies than I have been since I allowed these men into my life.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zo9ppz/guy_from_a_dating_app_unleashed_his_incel/ source
We had 1 date and I thought he seemed really weird and awkward. I walked away not wanting to see him again, but when he asked for a 2nd date I decided I should give him another chance because first dates are always hard.
He said he'd plan bowling or something like that and then disappeared for a week, I assumed I was ghosted and was fine with that.
Then out of the blue after not hearing from him for a week, he asked me over to his place to watch a movie and said we might talk but no guarantee. So I assumed that's asking for a hookup and ignored it.
The next day he sends this text:
"You know you're almost 30 right? Most of your eggs are already dried up. That is a fact. Tick tock tick tock that is your limited value going out the window. Best of luck, you glass of aged milk. Mr. Perfect isn't out there, you're too old to be picky. Sorry for being honest. Your life sucks."
I recently broke up with a different guy and when I broke it off he said similar things.
"Years may go by before you find someone else and then you'll get to a point where you can't have kids. You might still be attractive when you're older but I mean I haven't even hit my peak attractiveness yet and won't until I'm in my 40s. But women have a much smaller window. You have a biological clock that's gonna run out."
Mind you that guy didn't even want to have kids.
I guess I'm done. I was happier single with my career, friends, family, and hobbies than I have been since I allowed these men into my life.
www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zo9ppz/guy_from_a_dating_app_unleashed_his_incel/ source
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Guy from a dating app unleashed his incel misogyny on me
We had 1 date and I thought he seemed really weird and awkward. I walked away not wanting to see him again, but when he asked for a 2nd date I...
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