Seriously, why is it impossible to find? source

!!!!!! source

It's funny because it's not funny 🙃 source

let women choose what they do with their hair! source

This made me laugh more than it should have source

inspired by something that happened to my friend source

For the US Redditors: this is a normal European toilet stall source

Have you hugged your fur baby today? Cherish every minute you have with them. Their time is much shorter than ours <3 source

Journalist Christiane Amanpour sitting alone at an interview because her guest, Iranian President Ebrahim Raisi cancelled the interview because she refused to wear the headscarf source

She’s every woman source

it's always good to acknowledge the effort of others source

Inspired by a post in another sub source

Thoughts? I’m all for calling out grooming situations but I saw people freaking out on TikTok for a 10-year gap at when the couple met at ages 30 and 40. source

I asked my sister to make me a witchy Halloween wreath this year and she did not disappoint!!! source

I’m in this photo and I don’t like it source

A sobering reality. source

A husky next to a wolf source

why is it so hard to say women???

idk man, it’s the same vibe where people call women girls and shit. it’s dehumanizing and every dude i’ve ever met that speaks like that has been a piece of shit lol source

Once you get into femininity and realize men actually hate it, being basic feels kind of punk.

Femininity is such an excellently decorated trap door.

Enter here to learn about gaining men's approval!

It starts of with sundresses and cooking, then you get into the history of medicinal herbs and witch hunts, then you walk through the hall of women's invisible positions in war, how our roles have been revised by today's misogynistic historians, how men were the hunters not because of strength, but because women's deaths would be detrimental to the groups population.

So now you're wholly impressed and proud to be a woman, then some guy makes a pumpkin spice latte joke and suddenly you drink them every morning just to tell him to fuck off.

There's no one I trust more than a hyper femme lesbian wearing all pink and a glitter eyeshadow look.

✨💕Women💕✨

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xopylz/once_you_get_into_femininity_and_realize_men/ source

And we’re told to ‘respect’ different ‘thoughts/opinions’? F THIS WTFF source

"The 80/20 Rule"

Have you heard about this? The idea that "80 percent of woman are only dating the the top 20 percent of men."

My husband has been repeating this more and more frequently, parroting co-workers and mid-life crisis family members. I asked him tonight to show me statistics. Prove to me that this isn't another way to blame women for simply having standards. He could not.

Ladies, let me give you the tools to fight this. The actual statistic is that Tinder and Okcupid's user base is made up of roughly 75 percent men, give or take a few percentage points. You can easily find the exact percentage on Google. So, yes, while 25-ish percent of men are engaging 75-ish percent of women on dating sites, the gender pool is so skewed that the ratio of men dating women is actually fairly even. The number of men and women having sex is comparable! And this number doesnt even factor in LGBTQIA+. The rebuttal was that only the "top men", "tallest men", "most attractive men" are having sex with women, so I challenged the narrative. Who is determining what is attractive? Tall by what standard? What factors determine a "top" man? Because the female gaze is not the male male gaze. I'm barely 5 foot tall. I could give a rat's ass about height.

The simple fact is that there is no data to back up this narrative. Several of the "sources" that were cited were based on feelings, emotions, and opinions. So I reminded my husband that feelings were not facts (his words) and that until he could provide actual studies by actual scientists or statistical data from one of these dating sites, I would assume that none of it was true or reputable. It's confirmation bias.

So, this is my goodnight, at 12:39 am, after having watched my show and peeked over my husband's shoulder to see ALL of the links on his Google search were purple. I'm tucking myself into bed and hopefully waking up to a more informed spouse tomorrow.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xpacxf/the_8020_rule/ source