If you're gonna be anti-porn, at least be so for a good cause, and not just cause you think it'll strengthen your masseters. source

Whatcha think, trolls? Crosspost from r/fuckcars source

lol…lmao. source

"Men Are Emotional Vampires, Harvard Study Confirms" source

TIL the odious truth about the wait time for beginning amorous again after having a baby.

My wife recently gave birth to our child, and we were told that we should wait six weeks before becoming intimate again. I knowingly thought to myself at the time "ah, that's an estimate. We shouldn't rely on it." If only I knew!

She got back from her IUD appointment yesterday, and they told her she could do sexy times again! Except... It would hurt. Probably a lot.

Oh, it turns out that the guidelines given by the hospital after a birth are so that the woman isn't injured enough to be hospitalized by sex. I guess one of the girls told her that they "know how important it is to take care of your husband after all the no-nookie time."

What the hell. I'm a huge pervert and love sex... but never at the expense of my partner! I'm pissed. I couldn't think of a place to post about it because other socials are so awkwardly full of family, but I feel like the message is important. Should I post my anger on Facebook and such? I just remembered the advice

>Reddit is where you go to talk to people you don't know about the things that matter. Facebook is where you go to talk to people you know about things that don't matter.

Anyway, that's my rant about how post childbirth sex guidelines are geared towards men because patriarchy, and I hate it. The end.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xavo84/til_the_odious_truth_about_the_wait_time_for/ source

Oh how the turn tables... source

Boyfriend of 5 years is asking for a “payout” on the house I own

My boyfriend and I have been having a rocky patch. The underlying issue is that there is a power dynamic that is weighted in my favor, specifically because I make significantly more money than my boyfriend, and I own the house we live in. I bought the house 6 months before I met him. It’s only my name on the deed and mortgage. I also was a high earner when I met him.

I work a job that requires a professional license and make over 6 figures. My boyfriend is a delivery driver (think Grubhub) and makes probably what the median income is for the area.

When it comes to the house, I pay roughly 73% of all household expenses. My boyfriend pays me a flat fee of $500 per month as his contribution to household/mortgage expenses. This amount has not changed in 5 years. I have paid for all repairs on the home (probably around 15k at this point) and furniture etc myself.

When we go on trips, I pay for them. We usually take 2 to 3 vacations a year. Sometimes he will cover the cost of the rental car but otherwise, it’s me paying for airfare and Airbnb costs, entertainment, etc. I do this because I’m well aware of the income disparity between us and I don’t want to add financial strain to him for things that aren’t ‘necessities’.

We’ve been arguing lately, and I think he’s bugged because he says when we are not getting along he doesn’t feel like the house is “his”. I know this must suck to feel like he would have to move, pay WAY more for living expenses, and change his whole lifestyle should we break up, so I can sympathize with that. Rents in this area are over $1,000/month in most cases.

But now, he’s saying to make him feel more secure, he would like a formula to determine how much of his $500/month went toward the mortgage, and then use that figure as his “minority stake/equity” in the home. Therefore, if we break up, I would owe him this amount as a payout. Currently the figure he’s come up with is $11,400 based on his math (at the end of this year he will have paid me a cumulative $30,000 in rent payments over the 5 years we’ve been together).

So in essence, he wants $11,400 should we break up and he have to vacate the home.

I wanted to get some other peoples’ reactions to this, since I’m in total shock.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbgsi1/boyfriend_of_5_years_is_asking_for_a_payout_on/ source

Isn’t this what they meant at the job interview? source

On 9/11 1973, Chile was robbed of its democracy in a CIA-backed coup source

We support women’s rights and women’s wrongs 🥰 source

2 days ago, Bill Maher ran a full on MRA segment on his show where the left-leaning guest claimed only 1/3 men are having sex. MRA groups jumped on it, claiming 80% of men aren't having sex as women only go for 'Top 20% Chads'. Their source for this is a WaPo study...that shows 72% of men having sex

Here's the ghastly segment:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAgUHyXr7_Y

And I'm sure we've all heard of the incels' "80/20 paradigm" by now.

Well here's the source for it all:

www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

A study that, although it acknowledges there's been an uptick in young male sexlessness, still shows 72% of men engaging in sex along with 82% of women.

This information has now been twisted on major mainstream news and entertainment shows to flip it from one third of men NOT having sex to only one third of men HAVING sex, and has been used by the manosphere to claim 20% of the men have sex with 80% of the women. That's right, they use a study showing 70% of men are having sex, to claim 80% of men AREN'T having sex.

Either too many men in the U.S. are so stupid, uneducated and illiterate that they need to be immediately removed from any form of power or influence and replaced by women, or this is being done deliberately to radicalize an army of lost and angry young men against women and feminism. Perhaps both.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbs4t7/2_days_ago_bill_maher_ran_a_full_on_mra_segment/ source

bang bang source

Brendan Fraser meeting Hugh Jackman source

Men can't wrap their head around the idea that women are dating them less and preferring to stay single more so millions are driving themselves insane believing that they're all still out there but now only hooking up with people that look like this: source

8 middle school boys saw that a teacher was harassing female students

Adults didn't believe them. The teacher bragged that there had been complaints for 30 years and they couldn't get rid of him.

So they made a discord. They documented every instance. They forwarded their evidence to the cops. And that teacher is now out of the school and under investigation.

Their action was dedicated, ongoing, relentless. These are the men we need. Let's make their behavior go viral.

EDIT: No paywall link

EDIT EDIT: share these articles wherever you can. The people and institutions that created this situation are already trying to indoctrinate your children to maintain the status quo. Indoctrinate them right back.

Teach a child right from wrong, you've created an ally. Teach a child to document exhaustively, you've created a witness for the prosecution.

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xchbb4/8_middle_school_boys_saw_that_a_teacher_was/ source

don't feed the trolls; they thrive off of your frustration source

Real source

started dating my best friend and he dumped me right after having sex

i just feel so pathetic right now. have never felt more used or disposable. couldn’t even wait to have the decency for me to get dressed. 6 years of friendship down the drain for two week relationship lmao. just feel like i was led on and taken advantage of but according to him i need to “grow up”. as my best friend he knows that my biggest insecurity ever is a man only being into me for sex and this is what he decides to do.

edit: his birthday was last week so obviously i got him a bunch of awesome gifts, some being two concert tickets. texted him this morning and asked him to please mail me my tickets back to my house lmao

edit 2: thank you all for my first awards. such a flex. i know as a redditor that would def get under his skin. thank you all for the support. it definitely helps me feel less crazy.

edit again: feeling much much better today. prepping for some grad school stuff and looking for a therapist. it’s been long overdue :)

www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xbvdyw/started_dating_my_best_friend_and_he_dumped_me/ source

Every woman will experience menopause, but how much are we taught about it that isn't a "hot flash" joke on sitcoms? Half the population of the planet goes through this period of life, and it's largely ignored because it doesn't happen to men. source

TW My Qdad snapped and killed my family this morning.

Yep. The internet ruined him.

Growing up, my parents were extremely loving and happy people. I always had a special bond with both my parents.

In 2020 after Trump lost, my dad started going down the Q rabbit hole. He kept reading conspiracy theories about the stolen election, Trump, vaccines, etc. He always said he wanted to keep us safe and healthy.

It kept getting worse and he verbally snapped at us a few times. Nothing physical though. He never got physical with anybody.

Well, at around 4 AM on September 11, he had an argument with my mother and he decided to take our guns and shoot her, my dog and my sister. My mother succumbed to her wounds and my sister is in the hospital right now.

My dad also fired back at the cops and they killed him.

I'm shocked and I don't even know what to say.

Fuck you, Qanon. I hope the FBI tightens its grip on you and that your lackies rot in prison (and hell) for poisoning so many people.

www.reddit.com/r/QAnonCasualties/comments/xbiy5s/tw_my_qdad_snapped_and_killed_my_family_this/ source

"Noooooo, that mythical creature can't be Blaaaaack!" source